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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
Lu par : Roger Wayne
Durée : 5 h et 17 min
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In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be positive all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people. 

For decades we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F*ck positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f*cked, and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is - a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mind-set that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up. 

Manson makes the argument, backed by both academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited - "not everybody can be extraordinary; there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault". Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek. 

There are only so many things we can give a f*ck about, so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives. 

©2016 Mark Manson (P)2016 HarperCollins Publishers
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Everything is in the title

Learn how to not give a f*ck in a healthy way and live a better life. Highly recommend.

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excellent reading, boring content

According to the timers, I've listened to this for almost two hours now and still feel like the author is just repeating the same message again and again.

Reading performance is a solid 5 stars though. I recommend the reader, but not the book.

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amazing

best book for self-help junkies. read it if you are tired of bullshit repeated advice

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Overuse of F**k word does not make it sensational

Same old boring claptrap lurking beneath the F-word. Rehashing, recycling and misremembering of apocryphal tales. Nothing fresh. The narrator was too good for the book.

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Perfect

There where more in this book that i hoped. The title didn’t inspire me much but the book did.

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mind blowing

The subtle art of hearing what you always have known, but never been told 😳

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blabla book telling stories

the first chapter has the most numerous use I've ever heard of the f word for no reason. one in each sentence.
then the other chapters are a set of stories where the author tried to make them look deep but they are very silly.
Don't waste your time on this book, many better books exist for you..

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  • JH
  • 22/08/2017

super

génial ça donne à réfléchir sur la façon d'appréhender l vie et à quoi donner de l'importance

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LOVE IT

Thanks to this amazing book and it's incredible narration I got into the whole new world of audiobooks, highly recommend it for anyone who think they worry too much, or just basically anyone.

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I love this book!

There are so many things I love about this book, I love the fact that it is funny, the knowledge that is giving is really in alignment with the things I believe. This book will be a classic for me. I will definitely be reading it or listening to it over and over. A book with a title that would make some (a. K. A me) think that it is junk but it is literally a book full of treasures. Don't judge a book by it's title haha. I don't usually go for books with these titles but I decided to come out of my comfort zone and I have no regrets!

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  • Melissa Wikum
  • 04/08/2019

EXTREMELY bizarre ending. Spoiler alert

The book starts off great in some banter and stories, the word 'fuck' is thrown around making Mark Manson ultra relatable. The middle is the usual content of self reflection/ self help. -You are part of your problem. It's a refreshing reminder to reevaluate your own thoughts.
SPOILER ALERT
The last chapter is a confusing near suicide attempt? The book ends with him speaking of how he inched closer and closer the the edge of a cliff and sat on the edge asking himself "if this is really it, if this is all there is?"
His senses and body take over ultimately grounding him back in reality and leaves him feeling "alive" and hopeful. Not my idea of how to end a self help book. I understand the last words are hopeful but the last 10 minutes literally put you on the edge of cliff "taking microsteps" inching closer until your legs are dangling over the edge.... rather an inappropriate ending for people that had just invested hours and dollars into self help. I really liked the book up until the last chapter. The last chapter has completely distracted me from the over all message. I dont think I'd recommend although there were several spots I bookmarked and made notes. Wont be buying his other book.

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  • Bonny
  • 22/09/2016

A book for 20-somethings, but not me

I think The Subtle Art... might have had more impact upon me if I was 20-something instead of 59-years-old. The language isn't really an issue (it just becomes another word that doesn't even seem to have much meaning); it's more that Manson is repetitive and doesn't offer anything original that most people haven't learned for themselves in a few decades of experience. For me, the same ideas are expressed much more elegantly, cogently, and thoroughly in The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking by Oliver Burkeman.

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  • Gil Kerbs
  • 17/07/2017

The author doesn't give a 'F*ck' about your time

I think their is some merit to the ideas of Mark Manson, but they do not give enough content for a whole book, which was rather a waste of time. The first parts of the book were interesting, but later on it was just dragging on and on with no real content. Most of the writing is " I think" rather than "I know" - there are rarely examples or evidence. It's like a living-room chat with a friend.
You could probably sum this book up in a 20 min TED talk without losing anything that matters...

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  • Tyler
  • 31/05/2017

AKA common sense, and buddhism reframed

Is there anything you would change about this book?

No

Would you recommend The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck to your friends? Why or why not?

Not really, most are smarter than that

What aspect of Roger Wayne’s performance would you have changed?

He was the best part about the book

Did The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck inspire you to do anything?

It inspired me to disconnect from my Social Media

Any additional comments?

This is really basic, simple shit. I can imagine if you have no familiarity with the basic principles of Buddhism and Taoism, you might dig this. Its basic philosophy rephrased with significantly more uses of the word Fuck.

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  • Ahna Brown-Velez
  • 26/09/2016

NGAF - Not as simple as it sounds

Part of me bought this book because I thought it was funny and quirky, part of me bought it because I was sick of giving a f*^k about so many little things that ate up my day, I didn't have any energy for the things that really mattered.

This book isn't about throwing everything to the wind and turning in to a useless blob. It's about giving f^*ks where f^*ks deserve to be given, placing your f^*ks where they're going to do you good instead of drag you down. I highly recommend it, but if you pass on it, I really don't give a f^*k.

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  • Robbieboy111
  • 20/11/2017

Cheap

Take an intro to philosophy class instead...read Plato...something with depth. This book is watered down bs...not worth the time or money.

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  • JAMIE BIRD
  • 14/07/2017

average

a bit pointless really. the first chapter quite interesting but then devolves in to irrelevance.

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  • Evan Resing
  • 28/11/2017

Shallow self help book for bros

If you prefer your self improvement advice packaged in vulgarity and frivolous stories of the author's sexual prowess, then this book is for you.

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  • Suzanne
  • 18/01/2017

Targets 20-somethings

Would you recommend this book to a friend? Why or why not?

Probably not. It has an interesting premise, and a lot of the points the author makes are useful and logical, but as a 34-year-old woman, I found it hard to relate to a lot of what the author said. It seems he's garnered most of his wisdom from years of partying and traveling. Both of those are things I haven't done extensively and don't really do now. The principles still hold true, but I probably didn't need a whole book to learn them. I think a simple blog post would do.

Which character – as performed by Roger Wayne – was your favorite?

I really liked the narrator. Even when the book became repetitive, I was able to pay attention to him, which is saying something for me.

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  • M. J. Laskin
  • 10/01/2017

He takes one concept and beats it to death for several hours

This must be a book for the intellectually challenged. He takes the Buddhist concept of suffering being the central element of life and the acceptance of this in the 21st century then hits you on the head with it for many hours. This epiphany comes after many years apparently getting it wrong and now at the sage age of 30 he rediscovers it like an undergrad sophomore and should perhaps reread his book again. Anyone who purports to get it, doesn't get it.

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  • Josef S
  • 25/01/2017

Fängt stark an, lässt aber nach

Der Anfang ist extrem gut, Story wird mir später etwas zu sentimental und hat nicht wirklich mit dem Intro oder dem Titel zu tun.

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  • Kat Lanzer
  • 25/01/2018

Disappointing

I was expecting something more radical considering the title. But it turned out to be more about acceptance of your mediocrity and giving up on sense of entitlement.

It reflects where in life the author is at. I think he's grown up and in the settling down phase. It is a good read for people who are in their early 20s and mid-30s and above.

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  • Isabel R.
  • 13/01/2018

Ganz nett

Kurz gesagt ein Lebenskünstler der sich über andere Lebenskünstler auslässt.
Ein zwei ganz clevere Punkte und auch einiges an Gelaber. Der Autor schreibt fast schon autobiographisch. Aber interessant genug um es bis zum Ende durchzuhören.

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  • Aman Tiwari
  • 17/03/2017

Spectaculur book with amazing narration

This is one book that everyone needs to read, not the mushy gushy positivity crap that the market is awash with. This book is straightforward, crude, and speaks to you. You connect with it, you connect with The Disappointment Panda and the Self Awareness Onion.

With every chapter being a treat in its own way, it's the final chapter that serves like a perfect dessert to the book.

A must read, a must listen, must share book!

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  • Ariadne
  • 14/09/2018

Sehr überzeugendes Paket an Lebensweisheiten, verpackt in einem ähm innovativen äußeren

Ja, der Titel sticht heraus, das macht das Hörbuch allerdings (irgendwie unerwarteterweise) nicht schaler/seichter! Es ist gehaltvoll, es ist weise, es ist unterhaltsam und der Sprecher Besitzt sowohl eine sehr schöne Aussprache des englischen, als auch (da er der Autor ist dazu einen sehr überzeugenden Wortschatz.

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  • Shadesofjoni
  • 11/05/2017

totally overrated

Die trivialen Lebensweisheiten eines ehemaligen pick up "artists". Eine langweilige Aneinanderreihung von Anekdoten. Der Sprecher ist gut.

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  • Samuel
  • 08/05/2017

If I only had listened to this two years earlier...

Whatever mistake you made in your life that you couldnt let go of or that you werent able to understand... After listening to this humorous masterpiece you will get it.

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  • Bücherwurm
  • 22/09/2018

Ach du meine Güte....

Vielleicht hätte ich mir das denken können: Der Titel ist... nun ja, nicht gerade subtil. Aber da es sich um einen Bestseller handelt, und man mit eben diesem Titel durchaus ein sehr gutes Buch schreiben könnte, habe ich den Versuch gewagt. Und schon weit vor der Hälfte aufgegeben. Der dünn gesäte Inhalt dreht sich ständig um sich selbst und dann auch noch im Kreis. Das Buch lebt davon, dass der Autor alle (gefühlte) 30 Sekunden irgendetwas mit "Fuck!" sagt. Ist es denkbar, dass manche Leser/Hörer diese Wortwahl so revolutionär finden, dass ihnen gar nicht auffällt, dass es kaum einen wirklichen Inhalt gibt? Warum sonst ist dies ein Bestseller geworden? Da bin ich überfragt. Vielleicht schaffen Sie es ja, es sich bis zum Ende anzuhören. Und vielleicht hat der Autor sich ja alle Lebensweisheit für eben dieses Ende aufgehoben, und geben Sie dem Buch dann begeisterte 5 Sterne in allen Kategorien. Wenn ja: Melden Sie sich doch mal. ;-)

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  • Ines
  • 19/06/2018

Not worth a F***

A whiny voice jabbering on about the most common platitudes... not worth the time or money to listen to.

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  • Niklas Morgan
  • 30/10/2017

Was für Jüngere

Mit Anfang 30 schreibt der Autor über Sinn des Lebens und Tod? Einiges ist gut, vieles banal und manches wird der Autor in zehn, zwanzig oder gar 40 Jahren mglw auch wieder ganz anders sehen.
Nichts für Leute, die etwas älter sind. Wer Anfang 20 ist, erfährt durchaus was fürs Leben. Das 1. Kapitel kann man wegen endloser F Wörter auch überspringen. Gut gelesen. Insgesamt etwas "overmarketed" eben typisch amerikanisch. Es sei ihm gegönnt. Scheint ein anständiger Kerl geworden zu sein. Ich würde es jedoch nicht nochmals hören.

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