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  • 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
  • De : Leil Lowndes
  • Lu par : Joyce Bean, Leil Lowndes
  • Durée : 8 h et 59 min
  • 4,2 out of 5 stars (147 notations)

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How to Talk to Anyone

De : Leil Lowndes
Lu par : Joyce Bean,Leil Lowndes
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    Description

    "You'll not only break the ice, you'll melt it away with your new skills." -Larry King

    "The lost art of verbal communication may be revitalized by Leil Lowndes." -Harvey McKay, author of How to Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive

    What is that magic quality that makes some people instantly loved and respected? Everyone wants to be their friend (or, if single, their lover). In business, they rise swiftly to the top of the corporate ladder. What is their “Midas touch?”

    What it boils down to is a more skillful way of dealing with people.

    The author has spent her career teaching people how to communicate for success. In her book How to Talk to Anyone, Lowndes offers 92 easy and effective sure-fire success techniques - she takes the listener from first meeting all the way up to sophisticated techniques used by the big winners in life. In this information-packed audiobook you’ll find:

    • 9 ways to make a dynamite first impression
    • 14 ways to master small talk, “big talk,” and body language
    • 14 ways to walk and talk like a VIP or celebrity
    • 6 ways to sound like an insider in any crowd
    • 7 ways to establish deep subliminal rapport with anyone
    • 9 ways to feed someone’s ego (and know when NOT to!)
    • 11 ways to make your phone a powerful communications tool
    • 15 ways to work a party like a politician works a room
    • 7 ways to talk with tigers and not get eaten alive

    In her trademark entertaining and straight-shooting style, Leil gives the techniques catchy names so you’ll remember them when you really need them, including: “Rubberneck the Room,” “Be a Copyclass,” “Come Hither Hands,” “Bare Their Hot Button,” “The Great Scorecard in the Sky,” and “Play the Tombstone Game,” for big success in your social life, romance, and business.

    How to Talk to Anyone, which is an update of her popular book, Talking the Winner's Way (see the 5-star reviews of the latter) is based on solid research about techniques that work!

    By the way, don't confuse How to Talk to Anyone with one of Leil's previous books, How to Talk to Anybody About Anything. This one is completely different!

    ©2003 Leil Lowndes. (P)2015 Brilliance Audio, all rights reserved.

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    Clair concis

    Ce livre est relativement clair et concis, les 92 points mériteraient juste un petit résumé globale à la fin. La lectrice est bien et claire.

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    Indispensable

    Cet ouvrage est un outil indispensable pour les personnes qui n'ont pas acquis de façon instinctive tous les codes qui régissent les relations interpersonnelles. Moins utile pour les personnes disposant déjà d'une très grande intelligence sociale.

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    Must listen to practically anyone

    This book has been a real life enhancer. It offers practical and actionable tips that instantly improved my communication skills.

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    • Aja
    • 31/03/2019

    Good tricks concrete examples for every day

    I liked it, it has tens of tips very clear, but sometimes some of them are not that clear, I'd love to have a summary or recap at the end of each one

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    Terrific

    Terrific book. Will need to buy a physical copy so I can reference it easier!

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    whoever wrote this still lives in the 70s

    the way men are desirable because of their job title, or the way women have a 6th sense because they are more sensitive doesn't allow me to take anything in this book seriously

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    Very superficial book

    I read a lot of books about the same subject and this one is just a superficial one, this book is like: do X and you are going to get Y. I didn't like at all.

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    1st book about communication to read

    If you are looking for a book which gives tips, exemple, how and why to add them in your daily habits, stop there and listen to the one! GREAT!

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    • Scott
    • 19/09/2016

    Good info, but painful to listen to

    Any additional comments?

    I found some good information in this book, but I would have found it SO MUCH BETTER if the 92 tricks were listed instead of having to listen to this entire book. Part of the problem is that 92 tips and tricks are far too many to remember. There are a lot of good pointers, but there are way too many ideas expressed here. More detailed examples and explanations of fewer tips and tricks would probably be more effective... would make them easier to incorporate into actual interpersonal communications.

    But far worse is her old-timey way of writing (and presumably speaking). Most of the reviews are correct... the language she uses is so outdated (I've never heard the word 'golly' so many times in my life), the generalizations are pain (and I am anything but PC), and her constant use of alliteration is cringe-worthy (and I almost always appreciate alliteration). I don't believe 90% of her stories about this friend or that acquaintance. They just sound so stilted. And if it wasn't for a few awkward uses of modern-day terms, I'd think this book was written in Dale Carnegie's day (Amazon says the book was released in 2003). She may be an expert in modern-day communication, but she sounds like she belongs in a 1940s newsreel.

    I'm only through #57, and I may try to find the list online to get the rest of them without subjecting myself to more uses of terms like 'big winners' and 'fat cats.' Glad I got it on-sale.

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    • Natalie Fayman
    • 03/04/2016

    Hard to take seriously

    Sorry, but I have a hard time taking the author seriously when she refers to martial artists having to register their hands as lethal weapons (urban legend), bats having superior eyes that can see in the dark better than we can (they don't, they are just using their ears to navigate with sonar), lovers referring to each other as "my turtledove" (what is this... the 40's???), advising her listeners to answer the phone with a polite but flat voice then wait until they hear who it is on the line before gushing with pretend happiness (who doesn't have Call ID these days?), or making sexist comments about how women don't understand football analogies but can talk about childbirth all day. When she talked about a customer calling her to complain that "one of her tapes had broken", I checked the publication date of the book thinking it would be from the 80's but to my surprise the publication date is actually 2015 with a copyright date of 2003. If that's true and she's still referring to things that have been outdated for decades, I don't know how much of her advice I really want to trust.

    The author may be a legit communications expert, but she lost a lot of credibility with me due to her narrow-mindedness, overgeneralization, and outdated references. The two nicest things I can say about this book is that it's short enough to be tolerable... and I got it on sale. Don't spend your credit on this one.

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    • BN
    • 30/10/2016

    Can I get my credit back?

    This book is corny and after listening to it for 30 mins I was ready to stop but continued on for another 30 mins. Overall get a book from grant cardone. Any book and you'll pick up similar tips but with great presentation

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    • TheTechDoc
    • 04/03/2016

    Too self important

    This book has a few good tips, but the author is far too pretentious for me. I expected a book with communication tips (of which there are some), but the book is much more about manipulating people to benefit oneself.

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    • Gudrun
    • 29/04/2016

    It could do with some editing

    Some of this is very helpful and might change the way you interact with people. But it needs cutting down it seems very longwinded and repetitive in parts. It is also a little dated.

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    • Patrick Detmer
    • 14/11/2016

    superficial

    92 tricks? Is that really practical to remember? A lot of information in this story was repeated or focused on superficial manipulation of others. I love books on audible but this was a real struggle to finish.

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    • Mr. Barker
    • 05/10/2016

    Less about how to talk to anyone and more about playing the game

    The book makes some good points, however, it also comes across as very manipulative and insincere. Many of the tactics that are portrayed as bulletproof can easily be seen through. It's more about how to play the "game."

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    • LynneKLR
    • 28/12/2015

    The purplest of prose

    The information in this book is interesting, but the delivery is godawful. The writing is terrible and the author reads the text in lilting, smarmy tones. I'm going to find a print version so I can skim the bad writing and cheesy anecdotes to glean the concepts, some of which are thought provoking.

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    • rider
    • 02/01/2017

    so outdated

    Has How to Talk to Anyone turned you off from other books in this genre?

    I had to look at the date it was written and couldn't believe it was 2015. I thought it was something from the 30's or 40's. Sorry, but a good one to go to sleep with.

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    • Melissa Montana-Sharette
    • 24/03/2016

    Great despite some bad reviews

    Any additional comments?

    Some say the reading is smarmy and annoying. I can see why they say that about the author who reads only the introduction.

    Some say the names for techniques are goofy and patronizing. I say they are good memory aids. They are goofy and inspire visual images, which are easier to remember.

    Some say the author sounds too self-congratulatory about her many important friends and her uniquely superior save-the-day wisdom. I was just a bit annoyed by this. But I appreciate personal stories as examples. Stories are easier to remember. It's part of her job as a writer to sell you on the usefulness of the suggestions. Besides, I don't care if she is a bit self-important. That doesn't change my evaluation of the usefulness of the suggestions.

    Some say the techniques are manipulative. I don't think so. In fact some of her tips specifically discussed the line between manipulation and sincerity and warns that unless you are completely sincere it will backfire. I think tips are good manners, and good manners are about being aware of how you affect other people. It's about being considerate.

    Some say that her examples were dated and out of touch. Well, I may be out of touch myself, but didn't think so. The only dated examples that stood out to me were her suggestion of calling the chamber of commerce and using the world wide web. (hahaha) That hardly invalidates all the interpersonal awareness taught in the book.

    I found the suggestions extremely helpful. Some I realized I already do but was really glad for the reminder. Others, I had no idea and I wish someone had told me!

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    • Utilisateur anonyme
    • 03/10/2017

    Gute Tipps jedoch unstrukturiert

    Das Hörbuch an sich hat mir sehr gut gefallen, doch die Strukturierung stört mich doch extrem. Vor allem bei dieser Art von Ratgeber sollte man für die jeweiligen Punkte passende Überschriften aussuchen weil der Zuhörer dem einen oder anderen Rat doch gerne wiederholen möchte, und nicht mit Stift und Papier das ganze Hörbuch mitschreibt. "Kapitel 1..2...3...4" usw. helfen einem nunmal einfach nicht wenn man z.B den Tipp für Augenkontakt wieder hören möchte.
    Empfehle also eher die gedruckte Version zu lesen

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    • Viktor Schoch
    • 11/03/2018

    good but NOT better than the classics

    while this book is based on techniques about how to be likeable, the classic "how to win friends and influence people" was more about principles.
    Some advice was really useful though.
    The speaker was great. listening at 1.5x the speed was unproblematic. she has a great pronunciation and speaks very clearly.

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    • Christopher
    • 25/07/2017

    Sehr informativ mit hands on approach

    Sehr empfehlenswertes audio book, welches Konversationen mit neuen Augen und Ohren betrachten lässt. Ich habe zuvor bereits Bücher wie Wie man Freunde gewinnt und Menschen beeinflusst oder A introduction to NLP gelesen. In How to talk to anyone werden viele Erkenntnisse vertieft und überholt dargestellt.

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    • Kante
    • 03/05/2018

    Ok

    Sehr viel Triviales was 90% der Menschheit instinktiv schon macht. Aber schadet nicht sich dessen bewusst zu sein. Ein paar gute (neue) Tricks sind auch dabei.

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    • Michael
    • 22/05/2017

    Great content excellently presented

    If you're interested in improving your communication with others and you're ready to put in some effort, this book is for you. Already proved as an invaluable help to me, and I decided to listen to it again immediately after finishing, because there is just so much content that I more than likely missed a part of it.

    It's really well-written and easy to understand. It contains a short summary for every "trick" with some guidance in how to use it. I would change not a word of this book. Recommended!

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    • Mihai
    • 07/07/2018

    interesting and capturing

    I found it very nice and helpfull. i will definitely try some of them. The example stories are very good.

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    • Roeykahlon
    • 13/02/2018

    A book for everyone

    Everyone can learn something from that book, I really enjoyed hearing it.
    Some chapters are a good reminder for all of us and some are good points to think about

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    • Chamäleon
    • 14/12/2017

    Informativ, neuste Erkenntnisse mit Altbekannten

    Die Autorin fasst gut alte Erkenntnisse zusammen und passt sie durch neue der heutigen Zeit an.
    Wer dieses Buch hört bzw liest, kann sich viele andere ersparen.

    Die Sprecherin redet überwiegend deutlich.

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    • Anonym
    • 19/08/2022

    In Ordnung

    Überwiegend Triviales, daher mit der Zeit schwierig, das Interesse nicht zu verlieren. Das ein oder andere interessante jedoch auch mit dabei.

    Gute Sprecherin.

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    • Meret
    • 16/04/2021

    Solid but nothing new

    Some solid advice but nothing advanced. I had to listen to it on double the speed to make it to the end. Boils down to 'be attentive and considerate'. However, if you're not these two things yet you'll find some practical tips how to be soon.