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    The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous best seller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be.

    Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 20th-century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It's a way of thinking that is deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change and to ignore the limitations that we and other people have placed on us. The result is a book that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read and benefited from its wisdom. This truly life-changing audiobook will help you declutter your mind of harmful thoughts and attitudes, helping you to make a lasting change, achieve real happiness, and find success.

    ©2018 Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga (P)2018 Simon & Schuster

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    Great book to READ

    Loved the ideas presented by the book, a very interesting and thought provoking philosophy. The only thing which made it less enjoyable, was the occasionally hysterical sound of the « youth » voice recording (as if the philosopher and youth made the recordings away from each other). But if you can bare through it the book is worth it (or get a printed copy).

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    Essential

    IMHO this book is a concrete bonus to one's bookshelves. The way each argument is broke down in the dialogues has been so helpful. Voices, intonations, recaps, objections, reflections... The audio performance of that book was brillant. Highly recommend it if you struggle with life purposes, self esteem, relationships and more... there was an answer and direction to reflect on so many of the questions one's may have regarding happiness.

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    one of the best book i red this last few years

    this book was a blast. I think it will become one of my most gifted books. a huge sucess in Japan for a real western philosophy

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    • AKD
    • 26/08/2018

    Poor content has nothing to do with/ title

    Terrible book, written in a so basic form that 10 yo would be bored listening to it.

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    • Sil A.
    • 30/09/2018

    Life Changing

    I read a lot and listen to a lot of audiobooks, from classic literature to contemporary biographies, philosophy, psychology and the latest in non-fiction. Seldom do I find a book that surprises me. This one did. Though very familiar with the thoughts of Freud and Jung, I had never heard of their colleague Alfred Adler until I came across this book, interestingly enough through the recommendation of a guy I don’t like. The thoughts of Dr. Adler opened new possibilities and pointed to solutions of problems I have been grappling with for years. His original way of thinking and his method truly can change ones’ life. Even though the questioning young man in the audio version irritated me at times (maybe it was supposed to) the content is so good that I could not turn away. If you are interested in personal growth and how to better navigate the journey of life, allow yourself to get immersed in Adlerian thought through the voice of the philosopher. Chances are, it will change your life as it did mine.

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    • RL
    • 02/11/2018

    What an incredible book

    Other reviewers aren’t exaggerating when they claim this book can change your life. I have just finished hearing it (the audiobook is a fabulous was to experience the conversation between the curious but frustrated youth and the wise and kind philosopher).
    I already want to start it again from the beginning and I usually never do that with a book.
    Buy it. Savour it. And start living it today. This isn’t self-help. This is true human wisdom.

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    • Emily Saine
    • 25/09/2018

    Amazing!!

    This book helped give language and a system to becoming more comfortable in your own skin. The idea that all of life is divided into tasks was very help to imagine. No need to try and complete any task that is not your own. This book talks about how “trauma” doesn’t exist. Don’t let that deter you. The lessons learned from that idea are helpful, but I don’t think I’ll be walking around telling myself or others “your trauma isn’t real” any time soon. It just helps to give power to the here and now. Overall great book! I will probably listen to it again just to make sure I remember everything.

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    • QualityPet, LLC
    • 03/01/2019

    Great book in an excellent format

    This is an incredible book that is digestible, understandable, and still profound. I've heard many of these ideas before but never attributed to Adler. The ideas in this book truly have the potential to change people's lives for the better and help them live a life of freedom without constraints of the past weighing them down and without living according to others' needs. Some people complained about the format but I found that it was a great way to express the ideas and also harkens back to Socrates/Plato dialogues that are the foundation of philosophy. A++

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    • Utilisateur anonyme
    • 13/08/2019

    Good read to clean up your internal thoughts

    I'm going to focus on the narration and not the content itself (other reviews have done a great job). The elder/philosopher's message was clear and the narrator's performance fit with the message. The youngster's narration on the other hand was very forced and HORRIBLE to listen to. It almost wrecked the whole experience for me. The narrator tried too hard to sound "young" and "brash", that made for many cringe moments.

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    • Shama Patel
    • 10/05/2018

    Fabulous. A must read!

    Listened in almost one sitting. It is life changing. Complex concepts simply explained. Loved it.

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    • Christi W.
    • 01/12/2018

    Life-changing Perspective

    If you're ready to break away from a life influenced by others and pursue your specific life path of joy, I recommend this book. It challenges the social norms and establishments that have influenced us and why we may look outward for answers. Self-love and acceptance are described in a way that simplifies why we do not see our own worth. This book will make you think and see every aspect of your perceived world differently. Amazing.

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    • Amazon Customer
    • 01/06/2018

    drawing a definitive line between you and the rest

    this great book will definitely help the listener/reader achieve own goals. it draws a very clear line between yourself and everyone else. this will help you and whoever around you to live in peace and harmony. eventually everyone around you will benefit from it. I can recommend it enough for anyone who wants to unravel the questions about life and who we are.

    one thing about the audio is, after a while, I started to predict the dialouge and to be honest, I got a little irritated by the narrator's voice. just my two cents.

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    • RR
    • 07/07/2018

    Good Ideas Delivered Inefficiently

    I loved many of Adler's ideas but the Platonic dialogue device is a huge time-waster.

    Also, the kid often struck me as an irritating brat. For instance, he kept shouting, "That's so hypocritical!" like it's the worst sin in the world but what he really seemed to mean was "contradictory." Maybe it was a translation problem.

    Also, at times the old man's affection for the young boy he just met seemed a little creepy/pervy. Perhaps that's partly a performance problem and/or a cultural difference between Japan and America.

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    • Aliza Feldman
    • 07/02/2019

    Oddly written with no real tangible strategies

    This book was the worst book I've read in a long time. The dialogue between the student and philosopher was bizarre, repetitive, and not helpful. I would've preferred to learn about Adlerian psychology in a more straight-forward manner as opposed to how it is presented in this book. Stay far away!

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    • tikutiku
    • 26/06/2018

    Disappointing

    Many interesting idea are presented here, but unfortunately not discussed to convincing conclusions.

    This makes the ”oh that perfectly describes my behavior/problem” moments all the more disappointing, as the explanation or analysis often feels half baked, leaving the advice seeking listener without a robust new perspective to reframe their world with conviction, in order to elicit cognitive and behavioral change.

    The Adlerian view is often cited to as the revelation itself, when it's actually a theory in need of more thorough ”unpacking” and justification.

    The rhetorical device of the skeptic youth didn't really work out either. While he did repeatedly question the elder’s argument – half of the time by repeating a presented statement in a confused tone – he also tend to end up accepting them unexpectedly later, without showing why and how his view is transformed.

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    • pimawa
    • 05/11/2019

    Gamechanger

    Eins der besten Bücher, das ich die letzte Zeit gelesen habe! Die Dialogform hat mir sehr dabei geholfen zu verstehen und zu vertiefen. Die Synchronsprecher verstehen es ganz großartig Stimmungen und Inhalt zu präsentieren.

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    • reineanne
    • 25/06/2019

    Much food for thought

    A great way to present Philosophie. Even if one does not agree with everything, it gives one so much to think about!

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    • Patrick
    • 04/09/2018

    Nothing new

    The book sais nothing new really. You can learn some things here and there but it's not eye opening or doesn't really go deep.

    The worst part was the kid that asks the questions. This little kid is such a little annoying c*nt. I couldn't continue, listen for yourself lol

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    • Robert Moore
    • 09/02/2021

    Inspiring

    None of us are perfect but in seeking the courage to follow this philosophy to find a happy life we will in turn make the world a better place.

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    • maik-arnold
    • 24/01/2021

    A treasury box which shall be consulted in times of trouble or joy

    This is book is definitely worth reading twice as it contains a condensed overview on Adlerian Psychology in form of a Socratic dialogue. Despite the more relaxed dialogical approach between the youth and the philosopher throughout the whole book, it is still hard to digest. From chapter to chapter the reader gets the feeling of digging deeper into this humanistic psychological approach which is actually for some the greatest life-lie and for others a fresh start to prosper in self-acceptance, confidence to others and longing for happiness. The book could be understood as a treasury box which shall be consulted in times of trouble or joy. These are my Top 10 key lessons learned: (1) All problems are interpersonal relationship problems, (2) if we want to change our life, we need to be courageous, (3) the courage to be happy also includes the courage to be disliked, (4) to get rid of interpersonal relationships to gain freedom is to be disliked by other people, (5) all human beings are equal, but not the same, (6) the concept of the division of task: separate one’s own tasks from other people’s tasks, (7) interpersonal relationships and whole communities should be built on horizontal relationships, (8) to work means to contribute to the community, (9) it's we who assign meaning to our life, (10) life is like a dance; we should live more earnestly only here and now. I very much recommend reading this book as it is not another messianic mission to convert people to live a happier life but to gain a better understanding of the Adlerian Psychology as an alternative to other psychodynamic, systemic and behaviouristic schools of thought.

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    • Matthew Fultz
    • 29/12/2020

    Make sure you are open to change

    This is a pretty wonderful book. The only way to progress in life it to accept change and not be afraid of it. These teachings foollow the studies of a pupil and his teacher. The conceots may be knew to some as they aren't taught in many universities. Very interesting and highly recommended.

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    • Amazon Customer
    • 08/09/2020

    Great insights but...

    Really great insights and very well explained. However, the author ONLY speaks of males, not once acknowledges the existence of other genders as the subject in his explanations which I find very irritating. It seems like he’s only written the book for men.

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    • Amazon Customer
    • 17/06/2020

    essential philosophical teachings through dialogue

    I loved it. the youths voice was a bit annoying. but he shouldn't care that I'm judging. and I shouldn't judge.

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    • Amazon Kunde
    • 07/05/2020

    Herausragendes Buch

    Die Geschichte des Buches sowie auch die Erzählweise in der Form eines Dialoges fand ich fantastisch. Es wird auf ausgezeichnete Art und Weise aufgebaut was uns auf dem Weg zur Selbstliebe im Weg steht. Die Theorien basieren auf der Adlerschen Psychologie. Ich kannte diese Theorien vorher nicht, werde mich nach diesem Buch aber auf jeden Fall tiefergehend damit beschäftigen.