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    In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be positive all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people. 

    For decades we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F*ck positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f*cked, and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is - a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mind-set that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up. 

    Manson makes the argument, backed by both academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited - "not everybody can be extraordinary; there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault". Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek. 

    There are only so many things we can give a f*ck about, so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives. 

    ©2016 Mark Manson (P)2016 HarperCollins Publishers

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    excellent reading, boring content

    According to the timers, I've listened to this for almost two hours now and still feel like the author is just repeating the same message again and again.

    Reading performance is a solid 5 stars though. I recommend the reader, but not the book.

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    Everything is in the title

    Learn how to not give a f*ck in a healthy way and live a better life. Highly recommend.

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    amazing

    best book for self-help junkies. read it if you are tired of bullshit repeated advice

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    Overuse of F**k word does not make it sensational

    Same old boring claptrap lurking beneath the F-word. Rehashing, recycling and misremembering of apocryphal tales. Nothing fresh. The narrator was too good for the book.

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    Perfect

    There where more in this book that i hoped. The title didn’t inspire me much but the book did.

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    mind blowing

    The subtle art of hearing what you always have known, but never been told 😳

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    blabla book telling stories

    the first chapter has the most numerous use I've ever heard of the f word for no reason. one in each sentence.
    then the other chapters are a set of stories where the author tried to make them look deep but they are very silly.
    Don't waste your time on this book, many better books exist for you..

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    • JH
    • 22/08/2017

    super

    génial ça donne à réfléchir sur la façon d'appréhender l vie et à quoi donner de l'importance

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    For exceptional hindsights and great explanations

    I loved this book.
    The performance itself makes the author sound like a teenager goofball, but the content of the book is good.
    Some analyses are illuminating.

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    If i had to resume it

    Its impossible to not give a f***about anything so you have to choose what to give a f*** about in your life

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    • Melissa Wikum
    • 04/08/2019

    EXTREMELY bizarre ending. Spoiler alert

    The book starts off great in some banter and stories, the word 'fuck' is thrown around making Mark Manson ultra relatable. The middle is the usual content of self reflection/ self help. -You are part of your problem. It's a refreshing reminder to reevaluate your own thoughts.
    SPOILER ALERT
    The last chapter is a confusing near suicide attempt? The book ends with him speaking of how he inched closer and closer the the edge of a cliff and sat on the edge asking himself "if this is really it, if this is all there is?"
    His senses and body take over ultimately grounding him back in reality and leaves him feeling "alive" and hopeful. Not my idea of how to end a self help book. I understand the last words are hopeful but the last 10 minutes literally put you on the edge of cliff "taking microsteps" inching closer until your legs are dangling over the edge.... rather an inappropriate ending for people that had just invested hours and dollars into self help. I really liked the book up until the last chapter. The last chapter has completely distracted me from the over all message. I dont think I'd recommend although there were several spots I bookmarked and made notes. Wont be buying his other book.

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    • Fireside Cup of Tea
    • 07/02/2020

    Its really directed at frustrated young men.

    This book is very much directed at and written for angry/frustrated young males and that type of that demographic. It's deliberately not clear in the title or outer cover. So its a waste of money for the rest of us because its clearly written with the kinds of narrative and concepts that would be important to mostly young men or men who "want to feel young". Buddist concepts as well as thoughts on prioritizing or eliminating feelings, things, goals and people unless they truly matter are repeated over and over, The book has some concepts that were good in that they encourage emotional balance in cases where an individual may be overloading themselves. However, it seems like he's encouraging the reader to constrict in social/emotional growth and relationship maturity in many important ways by radical avoidance as oppose to thoughtful selection. I find the advise therein limited in a long term and practical use even for the selected demographic. So, it seems shallow and very casual in terms of encouraging truly life altering change.

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    • Michele Correia
    • 26/02/2020

    I can't finish this

    This book just goes around and around in circles, If there's a point, I am halfway through and don't care if I ever find out what it is.

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    • Cedric
    • 02/08/2019

    Could have been a good book

    While reading the title I was quite appealed by this book, unfortunately its substance did not follow up.
    The introduction is really good and very eyes-opening which got me very hyped. However, after barely one hour read I gave up due to the flood of (very long) anecdotes which has totally drown my interest.
    For a counter-intuitive approach, the book is processing in the most standard (if not over-utilized) way like any self-help book out there.
    If you have plenty of time listening to over-detailed stories then it might be your book. On the other hand, if you are more pragmatic and a "straight-to-the-point" reader like me it will require much more courage to focus and find pleasure in your reading/listening.

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    • Dave St. Elsewhere
    • 02/05/2017

    Consider the source

    A Millennial born into wealth understands the average person's hardships (his parents got divorced and he got caught with pot at school) and dispenses advice how to live while talking about his sexual exploits and travel adventures in 55 countries. Enjoy the substance! Great narrarator, though.

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    • Daphane1
    • 29/04/2020

    Not what I expected

    Thought I was going to get something that would inspire me. Did not at all.

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    • Alan K
    • 07/09/2019

    Neo-Stoicism

    Many people cannot look their dark side directly in the face. So, let them continue to suffer. There are Stoics who sound less dark in their presentatko. Still the concepts are in essence the same. Look into Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, and Epictetus for further examples of Stoicism

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    • Anonymous User
    • 29/05/2020

    Perspective-shifter!

    This is an amazing book for those who are ready to listen to cold, hard truths that have the capacity to shift your perspective. Read this if you're ready to elevate! 🌻

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    • Bonny
    • 22/09/2016

    A book for 20-somethings, but not me

    I think The Subtle Art... might have had more impact upon me if I was 20-something instead of 59-years-old. The language isn't really an issue (it just becomes another word that doesn't even seem to have much meaning); it's more that Manson is repetitive and doesn't offer anything original that most people haven't learned for themselves in a few decades of experience. For me, the same ideas are expressed much more elegantly, cogently, and thoroughly in The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking by Oliver Burkeman.

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    • Michael Salamey
    • 14/06/2018

    Good Story, Not Breaking New Territory Though.

    The narrator is great but it seemed to me like the lessons and insight faded pretty quickly after Chapter Two. There are no practical lessons or action items here, just a long editorial on the meaning(lessness} of life. It was good but there are definitely better options for your money. Maybe start with "The Four Agreements", for example.

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    • Josef S
    • 25/01/2017

    Fängt stark an, lässt aber nach

    Der Anfang ist extrem gut, Story wird mir später etwas zu sentimental und hat nicht wirklich mit dem Intro oder dem Titel zu tun.

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    • Isabel R.
    • 13/01/2018

    Ganz nett

    Kurz gesagt ein Lebenskünstler der sich über andere Lebenskünstler auslässt.
    Ein zwei ganz clevere Punkte und auch einiges an Gelaber. Der Autor schreibt fast schon autobiographisch. Aber interessant genug um es bis zum Ende durchzuhören.

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    • Kat Lanzer
    • 25/01/2018

    Disappointing

    I was expecting something more radical considering the title. But it turned out to be more about acceptance of your mediocrity and giving up on sense of entitlement.

    It reflects where in life the author is at. I think he's grown up and in the settling down phase. It is a good read for people who are in their early 20s and mid-30s and above.

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    • Aman Tiwari
    • 17/03/2017

    Spectaculur book with amazing narration

    This is one book that everyone needs to read, not the mushy gushy positivity crap that the market is awash with. This book is straightforward, crude, and speaks to you. You connect with it, you connect with The Disappointment Panda and the Self Awareness Onion.

    With every chapter being a treat in its own way, it's the final chapter that serves like a perfect dessert to the book.

    A must read, a must listen, must share book!

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    • Ariadne
    • 14/09/2018

    Sehr überzeugendes Paket an Lebensweisheiten, verpackt in einem ähm innovativen äußeren

    Ja, der Titel sticht heraus, das macht das Hörbuch allerdings (irgendwie unerwarteterweise) nicht schaler/seichter! Es ist gehaltvoll, es ist weise, es ist unterhaltsam und der Sprecher Besitzt sowohl eine sehr schöne Aussprache des englischen, als auch (da er der Autor ist dazu einen sehr überzeugenden Wortschatz.

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    • Shadesofjoni
    • 11/05/2017

    totally overrated

    Die trivialen Lebensweisheiten eines ehemaligen pick up "artists". Eine langweilige Aneinanderreihung von Anekdoten. Der Sprecher ist gut.

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    • Bücherwurm
    • 22/09/2018

    Ach du meine Güte....

    Vielleicht hätte ich mir das denken können: Der Titel ist... nun ja, nicht gerade subtil. Aber da es sich um einen Bestseller handelt, und man mit eben diesem Titel durchaus ein sehr gutes Buch schreiben könnte, habe ich den Versuch gewagt. Und schon weit vor der Hälfte aufgegeben. Der dünn gesäte Inhalt dreht sich ständig um sich selbst und dann auch noch im Kreis. Das Buch lebt davon, dass der Autor alle (gefühlte) 30 Sekunden irgendetwas mit "Fuck!" sagt. Ist es denkbar, dass manche Leser/Hörer diese Wortwahl so revolutionär finden, dass ihnen gar nicht auffällt, dass es kaum einen wirklichen Inhalt gibt? Warum sonst ist dies ein Bestseller geworden? Da bin ich überfragt. Vielleicht schaffen Sie es ja, es sich bis zum Ende anzuhören. Und vielleicht hat der Autor sich ja alle Lebensweisheit für eben dieses Ende aufgehoben, und geben Sie dem Buch dann begeisterte 5 Sterne in allen Kategorien. Wenn ja: Melden Sie sich doch mal. ;-)

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    • Samuel
    • 08/05/2017

    If I only had listened to this two years earlier...

    Whatever mistake you made in your life that you couldnt let go of or that you werent able to understand... After listening to this humorous masterpiece you will get it.

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    • Ines
    • 19/06/2018

    Not worth a F***

    A whiny voice jabbering on about the most common platitudes... not worth the time or money to listen to.

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    • Niklas Morgan
    • 30/10/2017

    Was für Jüngere

    Mit Anfang 30 schreibt der Autor über Sinn des Lebens und Tod? Einiges ist gut, vieles banal und manches wird der Autor in zehn, zwanzig oder gar 40 Jahren mglw auch wieder ganz anders sehen.
    Nichts für Leute, die etwas älter sind. Wer Anfang 20 ist, erfährt durchaus was fürs Leben. Das 1. Kapitel kann man wegen endloser F Wörter auch überspringen. Gut gelesen. Insgesamt etwas "overmarketed" eben typisch amerikanisch. Es sei ihm gegönnt. Scheint ein anständiger Kerl geworden zu sein. Ich würde es jedoch nicht nochmals hören.

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