In our first-ever episode, we dive into a topic that's both significant and elusive—purpose. Everyone seems to be searching for it, and today, we're here to unpack why finding purpose feels so vital, yet so daunting, and how it's truly unique to each individual. We discuss the pressures of societal expectations, the joy of finding what genuinely makes you feel alive, and the small, personal victories that can mean the world. So, whether you're planting tomatoes or dreaming of starting your own business, this episode has something for you!

Episode Highlights:
[0:45] - Introducing ourselves and the podcast.
[1:13] - Discussing why purpose is elusive and critical for everyone.
[2:16] - Challenging societal expectations about having a grand purpose.
[3:25] - Embracing parenting as a valid and fulfilling life purpose.
[4:03] - The risk of losing oneself when a sole purpose, like parenting, changes.
[5:27] - How self-focus can lead to self-discovery and better life balance.
[6:05] - Exploring new passions after major life changes, such as kids leaving home.
[8:23] - Encouragement to pursue activities that truly make one feel alive.
[9:07] - Addressing the common fears that prevent starting new ventures.
[11:54] - The benefits of embracing a period of active exploration.
[16:27] - Discussing the cultural pressure that devalues certain life choices.
[18:37] - How experimenting and stepping out of comfort zones can lead to discovery.
[21:57] - The importance of dedication and discipline in pursuing personal projects.
[23:19] - Introducing a practical worksheet to help listeners identify their purpose.
[25:27] - We emphasize the need for continual personal investment, regardless of life's demands.
[28:25] - Discussing the need to drop perfectionism and embrace the messiness of new endeavors.
[30:01] - Feeling unfulfilled initially is part of the journey towards finding what truly matters.

Resources:
For tools and exercises to help guide your journey in finding purpose, visit our website at insightsfromthecouch.org to download a helpful worksheet designed to spark your exploration into what makes you tick.

Thank you for tuning in to our very first episode! If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here’s to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!

Do you ever wish you had two therapists on call to answer your most pressing questions? Questions like, 'How do I prepare for the empty nest?', 'How do I create my second act?', and 'How do I reconnect with my partner?' We're going to dive into it all.

This is 'Insights from the Couch' with Colette Fehr, licensed couples therapist, and Laura Bowman, licensed individual therapist.

These are the conversations we have all the time as close friends, and that we have every day with women just like you in therapy. We're here to unpack the most pressing, private issues you're grappling with, like 'I can't stand my partner', 'I think I have a drinking problem', or 'I'm afraid something's off with my child' and explore them honestly, out loud with you. As therapists and as women experiencing many of the same challenges, we'll bring you thoughtful conversations, expert interviews, and real women's stories. We'll help you make sense of these issues, demystify them, explore them, and offer you the best of what we know as therapists and the best of what we think as women, so you don't have to navigate these things alone.

Join us for the first season of 'Insights from the Couch', with new episodes airing every Wednesday.

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