Votre titre Audible gratuit

The Drama of the Gifted Child

The Search for the True Self
Lu par : Suzanne Toren
Durée : 3 h et 51 min
4.5 out of 5 stars (2 notations)

Prix : 22,52 €

9,95 € / mois après 30 jours. Résiliable à tout moment.

Description

The best-selling guide on childhood trauma and the enduring effects of repressed anger and pain.

Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound audiobook has provided millions of people with an answer - and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.

Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents' expectations and win their "love". Alice Miller writes, "When I used the word 'gifted' in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb.... Without this 'gift' offered us by nature, we would not have survived." 

But merely surviving is not enough. The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.

©1997 Basic Books (P)2018 Hachette Audio

Critiques

"Narcissism has rarely been written about with the clarity and quiet insights of this modest, thought-provoking work." (Washington Post Book World)

"An unpretentious little book with an amazing impact.... Many readers find themselves portrayed with an accuracy and empathy that seem uncanny, as if the author had been a silent, unseen witness to their childhood [and] their innermost and secret selves." (Vogue)

"Rare and compelling in its compassion and its unassuming eloquence...her examples are so vivid and so ordinary they touch the hurt child in us all" (The New York Magazine)

Autres livres audio du même :

Ce que les membres d'Audible en pensent

Notations

Global

  • 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 étoiles
    1
  • 4 étoiles
    1
  • 3 étoiles
    0
  • 2 étoiles
    0
  • 1 étoile
    0

Interprétation

  • 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 étoiles
    1
  • 4 étoiles
    1
  • 3 étoiles
    0
  • 2 étoiles
    0
  • 1 étoile
    0

Histoire

  • 4 out of 5 stars
  • 5 étoiles
    0
  • 4 étoiles
    2
  • 3 étoiles
    0
  • 2 étoiles
    0
  • 1 étoile
    0

Il n'y a pas encore de critique disponible pour ce titre.
Trier par :
Trier par:
  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour John Fugett
  • John Fugett
  • 10/12/2018

Therapists will benefit from this book, as well as clients

This book takes a strongly psychodynamic and moderately psychoanalytical view of the forces at work in adults who have had traumatic backgrounds. Indeed, as in all of her books, the author reveals that most of us are unaware of the baggage we carry.

It also reminded me of the baggage my own adult children carry because of my lack of insight into my childhood baggage, which effected my parenting. It reminded me to talk to them about how their childhood experiences have left implicit scars that they need to understand and overcome.

As a therapist who utilizes a strong Interpersonal Neurobiology approach to therapy, I have found this a very useful book to recommend to clients. Their feedback has always been good.

8 sur 8 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Johanna P
  • Johanna P
  • 27/05/2019

Beautifully crafted with loud and clear truth

This is a must book for more than half of our society. the narration is good with simple approach to hardcore psychology. If you're a perfectionist artist or any kind of highly sensitive person with a feeling of endless hunger maybe this book is just for you.

3 sur 3 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    3 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    2 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    3 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Nir
  • Nir
  • 04/11/2018

interesting information, though hard to follow

The idea is really interesting, yet both the narration and book structure are non ideal ( e.g. it's hard to even tell from narration when does a chapter ends - she just keeps talking quickly). So, it's not bad, but would consider the book version instead.

3 sur 3 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Thesky999
  • Thesky999
  • 28/11/2018

Psychology for psychologists

Excellent work. This is probably the most important work in psychology I've read after CG Jung. She expresses the affects of childhood trauma on the adult psyche.

2 sur 2 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Jennifer Lowinger
  • Jennifer Lowinger
  • 18/10/2018

Learn Your Truth

An amazing eye opening piece by Miller. If you have kids, this book is a must, not pass on tramas of your own childhood, and be consciencely aware how your actions effect them.

2 sur 2 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Smiley Rodz
  • Smiley Rodz
  • 13/10/2018

now that I know now. I can start to work.

If it's difficult to hear it first its because it 'hits too close to home". But once you hear, for better or for worse, what she has to say, you'll now be able to deal with it.
Worth hearing through to the end.

2 sur 2 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Utilisateur anonyme
  • Utilisateur anonyme
  • 26/09/2018

A must read for anyone who was once a child.

Easy to listen and comprehend the translations between childhood and transference from generation to generation.

2 sur 2 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Love Cats
  • Love Cats
  • 17/08/2019

Good

Overall is a good book. The author emphasizes the importance of feeling your repressed feelings from childhood and how this is liberating and healing.
The author doesn't explain other techniques or practical exercises, but the main message is to simply be aware and accept your feelings as they show up.
I learned from another author the importance of becoming your own parent as an adult, especially when we received abuse or abandonment as children. It's always good to learn from many sources and not just stay with one opinion.

1 sur 1 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    2 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    1 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    1 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour Anthony
  • Anthony
  • 06/02/2019

An unfortunate translation of the original title

The original title of this book was "Prisoners of Childhood," which makes far more sense than "Drama of the Gifted Child." The latter, in my interpretation, points to the challenges surrounding children of remarkable capabilities, which constitutes very little of this book. It is hard to know how I may have felt had I listened to a different reader's interpretation of the material. This reader's performance is atrocious - lending an egotistical and embittered tone to every syllable. The writer lacks any connectivity and understanding to a higher source, which, in my opinion, makes much of her philosophy limited in scope and understanding, though not without some practical merit and interest. I would definitely NOT suggest subjecting yourself to the torture of listening to this reader. If the topic of being imprisoned by the experiences of childhood interest you, this book may further open your mind, but do yourself the favor of truly READING it, unless a better performed version avails itself.

5 sur 8 personne(s) ont trouvé cet avis utile.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Interprétation
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Histoire
    5 out of 5 stars
Image de profile pour James Brady
  • James Brady
  • 10/12/2019

Worth it.

A painful awakening to the inner torment of ly past and the desire to continue the lie.