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    "A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." (John Gray, PhD., best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)

    We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.

    Discover how an understanding of adult attachment - the most advanced relationship science in existence today - can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:

    • Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back  
    • Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.  
    • Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving.

    Attached guides listeners in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.

    *Includes a PDF of the attachment style questionnaire

    PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

    ©2010 Amir Levine (P)2019 Penguin Audio

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    "A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." (John Gray, PhD., best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)

    "Amir Levine and Rachel Heller have written a very smart book: It is clear, easy to read, and insightful. It's a valuable tool whether you are just entering a relationship with a new partner or - as in my case - even after you've been married 21 years, and had thought you knew everything about your spouse." (Mariette DiChristina, editor in chief, Scientific American)

    "Attached is a fascinating and enormously useful guide to one of life's most important ventures - finding and sustaining a secure, satisfying love relationship. Based on 25 years of research, laced with vivid and instructive examples, and enriched with interesting and well-designed exercises, the book provides deep insights and invaluable skills that will benefit every reader." (Phillip R. Shaver, PhD, Distinguished Professor of Psychology, University of California, Davis and Past President, International Association for Relationship Research) 

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    Great book that everyone should listen to

    Talks about 3 types of attachement styles. Learned a lot about my type and my partner type and What to do or how to communicante.

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    Great lessons

    A skillful presentation of current research-based lessons for relationship success. i wish i had this book years ago!

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    A game changer

    A fascinating and potentially life changing book about relationship styles - I hung on to every word!

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    Génial

    Un must have, bénéfique pour tout le monde en couple ou pas! A écouter et réécouter

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    • Mark
    • 01/02/2020

    Good book - just not a good one for Audible

    There were just too many tests and checklists in this book for it to be a descent audio book. The information is good, but much better suited to a real book to get the most out of it.

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    • Jasmine
    • 17/12/2019

    Very "self help" but overall good information

    My main complaints about this book are that it's not very inclusive of folks who practice ethical non-monogamy or polyamory. And I disagree with some small parts of what they say. However, the main information in this book is incredibly helpful in all relationships, even if this is focused on romantic and sexual ones. Helped me realize some things about myself, and I will recommend it to others. Essential reading for anyone dating in the modern age.

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    • Utilisateur anonyme
    • 30/06/2020

    For those Mourning a Breakup

    This helped me so much to get over a relationship and recognize what I need in a partner.

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    • Rachel
    • 15/06/2020

    Wow

    I have never written a book review before but this was easily one of the most important books I have ever read. Do not hesitate. Highly recommend!!!

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    • Amazon Customer
    • 16/11/2019

    Life Changing

    Everyone should check out this book. It's life changing, especially if you are an avoidant or anxious attachment style.

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    • Utilisateur anonyme
    • 10/06/2020

    It’s good to know you are not alone

    I always thought it’s just me (I have both anxious & avoidant behaviours) but after this book I know what my problems are, it’s good to view my issues in relationships from a third person. I love how this book put a lot of examples/stories and also tell us how we should do instead. But I wish it could explain more and deeper on how to change the mindset and behaviour. Recommend to everyone.

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    • Myles114
    • 23/04/2020

    Decidedly Helpful but too Narrowly Focused

    The theories presented are undoubtedly helpful in our understanding of relationships and how we “attach” to others. However I found the content slanted in favour of traditional monogamous pair bonds. In no way did it consider or even acknowledge how this information may be applied or interpreted in other viable emergent relationship arrangements.

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    • Norma Guido
    • 25/12/2019

    Amazing material

    Great book overall. But you really need to be paying attention the entire time. At times it can be a little dry but the material it covers is amazing

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    • Utilisateur anonyme
    • 21/04/2020

    One sided, but informative

    Overall the book is average, based on its one sided point of view. Often times the author sided with the Anxious attachment perspective. This view point could leave someone with the thought, no change is necessary on their end. I would reccomend this book to almost anyone, but don't take it for gospel. I believe this book allows you to understand your attachment style and recognize your protest cues, so I'll recommend based on that perspective.

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    • Amazon Customer
    • 07/11/2019

    5 Stars

    This book was eye opening and life changing. I hope it can help others as it has and will help me.

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    • Cliente Amazon
    • 16/10/2020

    Very insightful and easy to understand

    It made me re-think my last relationships and realise my own attachment style. I applied it's suggestions to my current relationship and I got benefits from it.

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    • Nele B.
    • 14/10/2020

    Empfehlung

    Teilweise etwas repetitiv, ansonsten sehr gut recherchiert und gut verständlich durch „Übungen“ und anschauliche Beispielsituationen.

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    • Utilisateur anonyme
    • 06/09/2020

    The science of love

    This audiobook tells the science of love in an understandable and aplicable way. It may be less about romantic ideas and more about the fit between partners and about how to communicate your needs effectively in a relationship.

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    • Jules Lu
    • 02/09/2020

    priceless insights!

    this book gives answers to so many long-unanswered questions about the inner self - how our attachment style is formed in childhood, what a huge impact it has on our attachment in adult relationships, and how we can become aware of unhealthy patterns and turn them around to our benefit. this should be a must-read for every adult person, particularly, when they struggle in romantic relationships and / or plan to raise children. this has been one of the most valuable reads ever and will undoubtedly stay a piece of reference for many years to come.

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    • Stefan Kohnen
    • 08/07/2020

    eye opening

    pretty revealing insights i got from this book about myself and a complicated past relationship