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Boundaries, Updated and Expanded Edition

When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
Lu par : Henry O. Arnold
Durée : 11 h et 18 min
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Boundaries is the book that's helped more than 2 million people learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of their lives.

Does your life feel like it's out of control? Perhaps you feel like you have to say yes to everyone's requests. Maybe you find yourself readily taking responsibility for others' feelings and problems. Or perhaps you focus so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits and limitations. Or maybe it's all of the above.

In the New York Times best seller, Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.

Now updated and expanded for the digital age, this book continues to help millions of people around the world answer these tough questions:

  • Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
  • What are legitimate boundaries?
  • How do I effectively manage my digital life so that it doesn't control me?
  • What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
  • How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
  • Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
  • How do boundaries relate to mutual submission within marriage?
  • Aren’t boundaries selfish?

You don’t have to let your life spiral out of control. Discover how boundaries make life better today!

Plus, check out the Boundaries family collection of books dedicated to key areas of life - dating, marriage, raising kids, parenting teens, and leadership. Workbooks and Spanish editions are also available.

©2008 Henry Cloud (P)2017 Zondervan

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too much religion

the book has interesting views, but the continuous references to the bible make it a strenuous read

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  • Victoria Robben
  • 06/06/2018

Wonderful but should probably mention religion or the Bible in title

This is a great book. All the information, examples, and strategies related to boundaries was wonderful! I wish I learned this earlier! It’s helped me so much already, and will continue to help me be more responsible and healthier in my relationships, work, home life, and health. Psychologically sound, with lots of insight and practical wisdom. I’m not religious and at first was a little turned off by all the biblical references, but they were presented very well and from a rational and helpful perspective. No shaming, blaming, guilt, or judgment. I enjoyed learning about the Bible from this positive perspective.

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  • Christina Gelder
  • 21/03/2019

Lots of biblical references

LOTS of biblical references which may be a deal breaker for some and often would be for me but in this case it was fine which just goes to show what a well written book it was and what a great message!

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  • Nicole Luchaco
  • 04/03/2019

Legitimately changed my life

I read the first 7 chapters 6 years ago, and it radically changed the way that I did life. 7 years later I came back and listened to the whole thing, and had the same experience. This book gave me the courage to say no. And to know when to say yes. I have shared this book with more people than I can count. And whenever they follow through with reading it, I hear the same thing “This book changed my life.”

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  • Vikki
  • 20/07/2018

LIFE CHANGING

I would recommend this book to all Christians and non-Christians alike. This book details concrete examples of boundaries and why they are so important. By the end it gives you the steps you will need to implement boundaries and live a healthy non-destructive lifestyle. This book will help you identify what might be holding you back. I never expected to feel so great about a book. I have since gifted this book to 5 people 😀

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  • Kelsea Miller
  • 25/10/2019

Too biblical for me.

Before purchasing this book I didn’t realize that it was so faith based. As a firm non-believer, I was disappointed that this audiobook- from the very get go- was full of biblical references and talk about being good Christians. I could not get past the first chapter. Too bad. I was really looking forward to reading about this subject.

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  • joe bateman
  • 25/02/2019

Learned a lot - don’t know what you don’t know

Very encouraging and convicting read. Definitely have to have an open mind. We don’t know what we don’t know. This helps address bad thinking and personal boundary setting for oneself and with others. Opened my eyes to areas in my life that I thought were normal issues that I would just live with. Now I know I can address them and improve. This book provides tangible, step by step ways to address boundaries and setting new ones.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 24/09/2019

Not what I thought it would be

I have nothing against the Bible but this is just a steady stream of quoted bible verses. Just not what I expected.

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  • robbie samuel
  • 30/05/2019

everything i needed and more

John breaks it down he sums me up in a nutshell. i have a lot to work on but eagar to be the best version of me by exercising love and staying true to my boundaries

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  • Kyle
  • 07/02/2019

More than expected. Uplifting!

This book opened my eyes to the consequences of not having boundaries, and the blessings of having firm boundaries. I feel encouraged and excited to continue developing this skill!

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  • Thomas Wells
  • 20/03/2018

Good book, but the reader...

What do you think the narrator could have done better?

The narrator seemed to run on. It felt like he did not give enough time between sentences and thoughts in the book. Like maybe he was rushing through it.

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I do wish the book had a few more examples that are based on what the people actually did. There were a few but, I felt the book could use a few more to show the reader/ listener how and why the person came to the boundary. A little more explanation on understanding how to set appropriate boundaries too. I really enjoyed the biblical context showing that if you can parse it, The Bible is an instruction manual to life. I will definitely be listing to this book several more times!

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  • ali
  • 02/11/2019

Super. Praktisch, anschaulich und analytisch.

Super. Sollte jeder hören. Zwar nervt der ständige Bezug und das Zitieren der Bibel aber es bringt viele wichtige Themen zum Grenzen setzten und die Folgen fehlender Grenzen auf den Punkt. Das Buch beinhaltet auch sehr viele praktische Tipps mit sehr anschaulichen Beispielen. Es wiederholt sich zwar sehr oft und wird dadurch sehr sehr lang. Aber für ein Hörbuch ist die häufige Wiederholung gar nicht so schlecht.