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No More Mr. Nice Guy

A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life (Updated)
Lu par : Dr Robert Glover
Durée : 6 h et 49 min
4.5 out of 5 stars (15 notations)
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Description

Originally published as an ebook that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. 

Dr. Robert Glover has coined the "Nice Guy Syndrome" for trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. 

He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential. 

©2000, 2003 Robert Glover (P)2017 Recorded Books

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étonnant et utile

je viens de finir le livre et je vais appliquer ce qu'il propose de faire. Ce livre me donne le courage de vivre une vie meilleure et de me concentrer sur mes besoins en priorité

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Perfect book for all men

A powerful book to improve the life, sex and love of any guys who feel lacking some part of them.
Perfect.

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Mind-blowing, life-changing. A must read.

Despite having already changed a lot of things that I didn't like in my life and having already read a lot of essential books about self development, this one contains gems and unique insights to help you get better.

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  • Charles Mckeever
  • 25/03/2018

Nailed me right between the eyes

As a 46 year old male, ex-Marine, and self professed “nice guy” I finally understand that all this time, I have been causing my own pain. It hasn’t been my career, my spouse, my friends, my environmental conditions. The common factor in all those things has been me. No more Mr. nice guy described many of my own internal feelings like someone was reading my mind. Things that I’ve never told anyone. Now that I have clarity on these issues, I now have a way to work through them to be set free. I’ve already applied some of the techniques with immediate results. Mainly because the change started with me, which then encouraged positive responses from others. So basically, now I’m in the process of reviewing all of my thoughts and actions to challenge and change the defaults. If you even think this book might help you, take a chance. I did and I’m so very thankful to the author.

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  • throttle
  • 05/02/2018

literally fixed me

I struggled to find the answer to why my marriage failed and my ex girlfriend cheated on me. the book cured me of my condition. real help inside. actionable and practical.

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  • Moises Hdez
  • 25/02/2019

Unsatisfying

This book has some very good insights that help me realize the ways that someone may think to be honest when truly isn't. It unvcovers some mindset on how we may fool ourselves and pretend to be or do something we aren't. That's why I gave it a 3. other than that, the author takes too much without actually talking about something in concrete and does a lot roundabouts on what are you going to achieve and do without actually saying something. It's like that movie that you keep expecting something to happen and actually never does. I heard it until the end and concluded with an unsatisfaction of not getting anywhere.

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  • Justin Cain
  • 29/01/2019

amazing book

listened to it multiple times. cant say enough about how its helped me, in my personal and professional life. this contained innumerable revelations about why I do the things I do, and how to better myself in those situations.

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  • The Adventure Medic
  • 26/10/2018

Life Changing

Every man needs to read this book. Period.
It's everything you missed growing up, and everything you need to be a happier and better man than you ever thought possible.
There's no clearer way to say this, do not skip this book. It literally saved my life, my relationships, and opened the door to a life I never dreamed was possible for me.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09/08/2018

Only for nice guys!

Overall, this book tries to explain the origin of the nice guy and why he acts like he does. Some good excercises to help overcome nice guy syndrome, but I only recommend this book if this is your first read on the topic.

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  • david rocabado
  • 06/08/2018

Very insightful...

Upon listening to the book, I listened the sample and from there it started describing certain things that made sense in describing the type of person I may be. So now I want to learn more in which I did, but it definitely takes another listen. So much information about what you can learn from being too passive and explains just enough for you to understand ways to control your niceness. I'm hoping to learn more the second time around, so I can better understand myself and how I treat others... thank you!

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  • Bjorn Thorkelson
  • 30/12/2017

Practical guide for people pleasers

This book really resonated with me. It details many of the reasons and solutions for overcoming toxic shame. This is the updated version of the book. I’m not sure if the previous version had a pdf, but this one doesn’t. Tough to practically implement the recommended exercises without that.

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  • David Rivera
  • 16/01/2019

dissatisfied with life? buy the book

exellent book! it helps you see, how you in childhood from not getting your needs met, adapted to patterns of not making a lot of trouble, not asking for things and putting other people needs before your own (to deserve love, attention or whatever you need ), and how that's making it difficult getting your needs met as an adult.
it forces you to see your darker, disfunctional sides and how you sabotage for yourself. it's hard and felt heavy sometimes, but in the end I think it's worth it.
it encourages you to seek support and help from safe people, therapist or join a support group, to help you through your problems and help you get your needs met. there are 45 different exercises with questions to help you see and change your behavior. I will listen to this book again and do all of them. thanks for a great book!

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  • MatthewFF
  • 04/07/2018

This book changed my life

Absolutely the worst best thing to ever happen to me. Finding this book saved my life. If you have ever been called a nice guy too much or consider yourself a nice guy read this book!

The first chapter was a punch to the gut and a knee to the face. my world was turned upside down immediately for the better. don't take my word for it. Get this book!

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  • Matty
  • 22/07/2018

One of the best books on its topic

I wäre of this book sometime ago and since then it's name did stick to my mind. Now I got it and listened to the complete audio book in almost no time. It was so good and on point. What I mean is the topic is probably deeper than one expects and Dr Glover doesn't beat around no bush and hits many targets straight and clear. This will be helpful for almost anybody in or off relationships, not just 'nice guys'. I would recommend this to anyone (men, straight or gray doesn't matter) looking for blind spots in their sex life, relationship or lack thereof.

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  • K
  • 13/01/2019

Absolutely insane good book

One of the best books I've ever read in my life! Read it! Take the time. It will be an incredible experience

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  • Alex L.
  • 18/05/2019

Excellent!

This book does not only help nice guys, but can help people pleasers in general. I really enjoyed the many examples, so many concrete cases of self-sabotage and manipulation dysfunctions in which I found myself reflected. I contemplated a lot how I am doing those. With an open mind, this book is worth thousands.

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  • Amazon Kunde
  • 28/03/2019

Recommended

If the title catches your attention, this book is exactly what you need to improve your life

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  • Amazon Kunde
  • 01/11/2018

Just great.

Besides from the ear-pleasing voice of Dr. Glover the content of this book is just great. The nice guy Syndrom is a way to look at the subconscious programm may people are run by.
Not only naming it the author also explains the actual “how” these programmes developed and work. Mind opening.
I encourage everyone to read the book or better listen to the authors nice voice.

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  • Florian Ell
  • 31/08/2018

Viel Inhalt

Der Autor und Vorleser lässt seinen großen Erfahrungsschatz in der Therapie von Nice guys mit in dieses Buch einfließen. Jeder Betroffene findet mit Sicherheit den ein oder anderen Beispielpatienten von Dr. Glover mit dem er sich identifizieren kann.
Meiner Meinung nach fehlt lediglich der Punkt, dass eine Prägung in Richtung Nice Guy eben auch später im Leben (späte Schulzeit/Pubertät ) und von außerhalb der Familie kommen kann.
Ob es dem Leser hilft ist vermutlich von diesem selbst abhängig in wieweit er die "activities" umsetzt, raus geht und die bewusste Entscheidung sein Leben zu ändern trifft. Dr. Glover hat jedenfalls einen guten Job gemacht.

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  • Amazon Kunde
  • 28/07/2018

Not suited for listening

Although it had many truths to it, this book was too repeatable. In order for it to be an good audiobook it has to be rewritten with such purpose in mind.
The beauty of audiobooks is that you can be doing things like walking while enjoying good book. Sometimes there is no possibility to pause, sit down and write some things down.
It was very much like listening to an exercise book. Not the best experience.

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  • ice
  • 19/05/2018

Sehr redundant und inhaltslos...

... Außerdem weitgehen banale Fakten.
So ich brauche jetzt noch 4 Wörter alsp schreibe ich....

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