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Originally published as an ebook that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. 

Dr. Robert Glover has coined the "Nice Guy Syndrome" for trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. 

He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential. 

©2000, 2003 Robert Glover (P)2017 Recorded Books

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Perfect book for all men

A powerful book to improve the life, sex and love of any guys who feel lacking some part of them.
Perfect.

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Mind-blowing, life-changing. A must read.

Despite having already changed a lot of things that I didn't like in my life and having already read a lot of essential books about self development, this one contains gems and unique insights to help you get better.

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  • Charles Mckeever
  • 25/03/2018

Nailed me right between the eyes

As a 46 year old male, ex-Marine, and self professed “nice guy” I finally understand that all this time, I have been causing my own pain. It hasn’t been my career, my spouse, my friends, my environmental conditions. The common factor in all those things has been me. No more Mr. nice guy described many of my own internal feelings like someone was reading my mind. Things that I’ve never told anyone. Now that I have clarity on these issues, I now have a way to work through them to be set free. I’ve already applied some of the techniques with immediate results. Mainly because the change started with me, which then encouraged positive responses from others. So basically, now I’m in the process of reviewing all of my thoughts and actions to challenge and change the defaults. If you even think this book might help you, take a chance. I did and I’m so very thankful to the author.

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  • throttle
  • 05/02/2018

literally fixed me

I struggled to find the answer to why my marriage failed and my ex girlfriend cheated on me. the book cured me of my condition. real help inside. actionable and practical.

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  • MatthewFF
  • 04/07/2018

This book changed my life

Absolutely the worst best thing to ever happen to me. Finding this book saved my life. If you have ever been called a nice guy too much or consider yourself a nice guy read this book!

The first chapter was a punch to the gut and a knee to the face. my world was turned upside down immediately for the better. don't take my word for it. Get this book!

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  • N. Howard
  • 28/04/2018

Almost returned it halfway through.. glad I didn't

"Self-help for Cucks" was my initial impression of this title early on, and in a way, it is. The first half basically introduces the beta personalities that will be used as references and examples later on. The author is obviously a talented psychologist, and his motivations for writing this book admittedly stem from helping himself, and eventually groups of others deal with loveless, sexless, toxic relationships and personalities. Personally, I was having a difficult time and a little bit of buyer's remorse when trying to relate to the cases featured, as many others may experience. His insights and way of dissecting human behavior resonated with me just enough though, so I kept going.

The second half was where I found gold. I would like to point out that although the title and narrative is aimed at men, the insights into subconscious human "hangups" and motivations scattered throughout the book transcend gender, class, race, and any other "ism" that you may come into this pre-loaded with. Personal growth as a human being requires understanding the side of yourself that you probably aren't aware of, and he does an excelent job of pointing you in the right direction. Do not let your ego distract you from really listening, I promise that it's worth it.

Many of the psychological tactics employed here are lost on myself, and probably a lot of other people that are familiar with them... letting go of mental baggage, affirmations, etc. However, there is merit to these exercises, and they will do a world of good for the core audience that the book is aimed at. For others that are further along on your path, there are more than enough gems here to justify the digging. All in all, a very valuable book in terms of personal growth and understanding, and I highly recommend it.

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  • Bjorn Thorkelson
  • 30/12/2017

Practical guide for people pleasers

This book really resonated with me. It details many of the reasons and solutions for overcoming toxic shame. This is the updated version of the book. I’m not sure if the previous version had a pdf, but this one doesn’t. Tough to practically implement the recommended exercises without that.

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  • Aaron
  • 06/11/2018

Great insights every man should read

I’ve read lots of personal development books and thought I’ve heard it all but I learned so much from this book.

I learned a lot about certain behaviors I do and how they may not be conducive to getting what I want. He also has practical exercises to help you change.

Read it.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01/11/2018

Life changing

it is impressive how when you find out the core of your problems and behavior, you can't help to actually want to change for the better.

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  • The Adventure Medic
  • 26/10/2018

Life Changing

Every man needs to read this book. Period.
It's everything you missed growing up, and everything you need to be a happier and better man than you ever thought possible.
There's no clearer way to say this, do not skip this book. It literally saved my life, my relationships, and opened the door to a life I never dreamed was possible for me.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 26/10/2018

A fantastic book for the right audience.

This book is great, with one caveat. If you are a so-called "Nice Guy", this book will do you a tremendous service. However, if you're not a nice guy, you will get limited value from this book. Most of the book covers topics that will tremendously help nice guys break out of their toxic cycle but for anyone else, the value-add is limited.

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  • domlafleur
  • 08/10/2018

Very insightful

I’m looking forward to implementing the exercises with my husband and working towards a happier relationship.

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  • Matty
  • 22/07/2018

One of the best books on its topic

I wäre of this book sometime ago and since then it's name did stick to my mind. Now I got it and listened to the complete audio book in almost no time. It was so good and on point. What I mean is the topic is probably deeper than one expects and Dr Glover doesn't beat around no bush and hits many targets straight and clear. This will be helpful for almost anybody in or off relationships, not just 'nice guys'. I would recommend this to anyone (men, straight or gray doesn't matter) looking for blind spots in their sex life, relationship or lack thereof.

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  • Amazon Kunde
  • 01/11/2018

Just great.

Besides from the ear-pleasing voice of Dr. Glover the content of this book is just great. The nice guy Syndrom is a way to look at the subconscious programm may people are run by.
Not only naming it the author also explains the actual “how” these programmes developed and work. Mind opening.
I encourage everyone to read the book or better listen to the authors nice voice.

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  • Florian Ell
  • 31/08/2018

Viel Inhalt

Der Autor und Vorleser lässt seinen großen Erfahrungsschatz in der Therapie von Nice guys mit in dieses Buch einfließen. Jeder Betroffene findet mit Sicherheit den ein oder anderen Beispielpatienten von Dr. Glover mit dem er sich identifizieren kann.
Meiner Meinung nach fehlt lediglich der Punkt, dass eine Prägung in Richtung Nice Guy eben auch später im Leben (späte Schulzeit/Pubertät ) und von außerhalb der Familie kommen kann.
Ob es dem Leser hilft ist vermutlich von diesem selbst abhängig in wieweit er die "activities" umsetzt, raus geht und die bewusste Entscheidung sein Leben zu ändern trifft. Dr. Glover hat jedenfalls einen guten Job gemacht.

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  • Amazon Kunde
  • 28/07/2018

Not suited for listening

Although it had many truths to it, this book was too repeatable. In order for it to be an good audiobook it has to be rewritten with such purpose in mind.
The beauty of audiobooks is that you can be doing things like walking while enjoying good book. Sometimes there is no possibility to pause, sit down and write some things down.
It was very much like listening to an exercise book. Not the best experience.

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  • ice
  • 19/05/2018

Sehr redundant und inhaltslos...

... Außerdem weitgehen banale Fakten.
So ich brauche jetzt noch 4 Wörter alsp schreibe ich....

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