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  • 42. Breaking the Silence: Suicide Awareness Month
    Sep 15 2025

    Summary


    Hung Dao, co-founder of Vital Apparel (vtlapparel.com⁠), joins Allison for a special episode. In this conversation, Hung and Allison delve into the significance of Suicide Awareness Month, exploring personal stories of mental health struggles, the impact of cultural backgrounds, and the importance of therapy. They discuss the role of social media in shaping perceptions of mental health, specifically the effects of smear campaigns, and navigating the complexities of relationships. They emphasize the necessity of support systems, open dialogue, and the journey towards healing, offering advice for those silently suffering.


    Sections


    00:00 Understanding the Importance of Suicide Awareness Month

    04:13 Personal Stories of Struggle and Healing

    07:07 The Impact of Cultural Background on Mental Health

    10:22 The Role of Therapy in Recovery

    13:15 Navigating Relationships and Mental Health

    16:27 The Effects of Social Media on Mental Health

    19:23 Dealing with Smear Campaigns and Personal Growth

    22:13 Understanding Personality Assessments and Self-Reflection

    25:30 The Cycle of Hurt and Healing

    28:23 Creating Safe Spaces for Discussion

    31:07 The Importance of Community and Support

    37:16 Understanding the Duality of Human Experience

    42:33 Navigating Relationships and True Friendship

    45:49 The Impact of Childhood on Adult Relationships

    50:34 Healing Through Open Dialogue

    58:17 Building a Brand with a Purpose

    01:02:33 Finding Light in Dark Times


    Resources

    If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat 988lifeline.org to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.


    For more information and how to get involved:

    https://www.nami.org/get-involved/awareness-events/suicide-prevention-month/



    Follow us on social media | @vital_apparel @hungdao_

    @unfckyourhealth @biggie_alz


    Get 15% off your purchase at Vital Apparel with code: ALLISON15 (a portion of your purchase goes to brain and mental health awareness)

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    1 h et 13 min
  • 41. Paige Lynch, N.P. - Functional vs. Conventional Medicine & Nervous system dysregulation
    Feb 5 2025

    Our bodies are remarkable. They tell us when we're sick or when something is wrong while simultaneously working on how to bring it back to equilibrium. Being aware of what our bodies are telling us is important. This episode encompasses many aspects of the health realm.


    It was great to get to know Paige and hear her story. She started her career as a firefighter/paramedic and after experiencing her own health crisis, Paige shifted from conventional medicine to functional medicine. As a nurse practitioner and a certified functional medicine practitioner, she works with patients to help uncover root causes and in creating a plan specific to the patients' needs.


    Show Notes:

    Paige and I cover a range of topics such as:


    - Differences between functional medicine and conventional medicine

    - Nervous system dysregulation and the role of cortisol in our bodies

    - Hormones

    - Importance of being aware of our bodies


    Interested in connecting with Paige on one or more of the topics discussed? Click here or visit her functional health & wellness webpage here


    Follow her on Instagram | @paigeslynchnp


    Stay tuned for an upcoming episode where we'll dive deep into hormonal replacement therapy (HRT).





    Thank you for listening! Without your support, none of this would be possible. Please like, follow and share this show, I greatly appreciate it!


    Follow me on Instagram | @unfckyourhealth & @biggie_alz


    Do you have a story you'd like to share that has changed your health through mind, body and/or spirit? Would you like people to be aware of it in hopes to help others who may be going through something similar? Email unfckyourhealth@gmail.com.

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    1 h et 3 min
  • 40. Kira Ostergaard - Inner Peace & Ending Toxicity
    Dec 6 2024

    Today's episode brings my friend, Kira, who is like a little sis to me. Kira also shares her new adventure of starting her own business and her reason for success. As my mini me, she also shares an appreciation for getting outside and grounding oneself with nature. We discuss what healthy means to each of us and the importance of staying true to who you are.


    Additionally, we talk about the importance of ridding ourselves of toxic relationships and that it's ok to cut out family members or friends who don't provide you that peace. We specifically give credit to our moms, Asian immigrants, and how they are the strongest women we know and discuss our dynamics now that we are estranged from our fathers by choice.



    Show notes:


    Books mentioned:

    "But First, Inner Peace: A practical guide to manifesting a peaceful life and the new beginnings that come with it" By Case Kenny


    "Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members: Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut" By Sherrie Campbell, PhD


    Follow Kira on IG | @keeruh_o @ko_creativemedia @kira_biologics


    Thank you all for listening! Without your support, this would not be possible. Please share, like and follow this show. Follow on IG | @unfckyourhealth @biggie_alz


    For more book recommendations mentioned in the episodes, click here.




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    1 h et 51 min
  • 39. UPDATE: Megan LaCosse - Navigating Holidays & IFBB Pro Card
    Nov 27 2024

    She's back and with a new title, IFBB Pro!! Megan joined me early on when I first started this show and she came on to join me to share what she's been up to since the last time she shared her journey with you all!


    We discuss how to navigate the holidays and staying on track with macros as well as updates on life. Megan and I also touch base on gut health importance and how if we really want to succeed in our nutrition and fitness goals, we need to have a different mindset and no we don't mean "balance."


    Follow Megan on IG | @meganlacosse.ifbbpro


    Thank you for listening and supporting this show! I wouldn't be doing it if it wasn't for all you amazing listeners! Please don't forget to review and follow us on IG | @biggie_alz & @unfckyourhealth

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    1 h et 48 min
  • 38. Ann & Lo - Minny Hustlers
    Oct 9 2024

    Chatting with the Minny Hustlers was something I looked forward as they are truly the embodiment of being their true authentic selves and practicing what they preach. What started as a side hustle in sharing their passion for fitness and overall wellness, soon became a phenom many know as Minny Hustlers.


    These two best friends encounter what building a brand really entails and the importance of doing something you love and are passionate about. Seeing how much they've grown this side hustle on top of their careers is my definition of bada$$ boss babe vibes.


    This was definitely a fun interview getting to know these genuine hustlers and also fellow Tommies (ROLL TOM!).



    SHOW NOTES:


    The book mentioned throughout the episode, aka the hustlers' fitness bible, "Thinner Leaner Stronger: The Simple Science of Building the Ultimate Female Body" by Michael Matthews can be found here.


    Available on Amazon - Kindle unlimited or order a hard copy at the link above.



    Interested in joining the Minny Hustlers community? Or maybe you're just starting out on your fitness journey? Perhaps you want to change up your current routine?

    Check out Ann & Lo's 30 Day Challenge here!


    Follow Ann & Lo on TikTok and IG | @minnyhustlers

    Website: ⁠www.minnyhustlers.com⁠



    Thank you for your support and following! Please don't forget to rate and review so we can continue sharing raw conversations with real people.


    Follow me on Instagram | @unfckyourhealth

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    1 h et 20 min
  • 37. My Mom is a Superhero
    Sep 20 2024

    Today I talk about the start of my mom's journey with Ovarian cancer and all throughout the years of her being a 12-year survivor. Sometimes, it's hard to articulate exactly how I felt and how my mom did throughout this journey. No one can ever prepare you enough for being a care taker and what to expect when a loved one is diagnosed with cancer.


    To learn more about Ovarian cancer, click here.


    To support and create awareness, be a part of Team "Sevie's Egglets" here. Donations small or large help create a better test for early detection.


    Thank you in advance for your love, thoughts and prayers during her journey!


    Follow me on IG | @unfckyourhealth and @biggie_alz

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    37 min
  • 36. Dr. Rachel Allyn - Pleasure & Intimacy in Relationship
    Jul 29 2024
    Dr. Rachel Allyn joins me today and we touch base on types of pleasure, intimacy in relationships and the importance of accepting our bodies. Dr. Allyn is a licensed clinical psychologist, certified yoga instructor, public speaker and author of, "The Pleasure is All Yours" which we also discuss. Not only does she help others through her practice, she also has written numerous articles as a relationship columnist and has been quoted in books and magazines including Psychology Today, Cosmopolitan, Yoga Journal, Good Housekeeping and Women's Health. Throughout the episode, she shares the value of bodyfulness and defines what a healthy relationship is not only for ourselves as individuals but also with a partner. Dr. Allyn and I share the affect shame from others on our sexual relationships, body image and intimacy can have on us. Show notes: Learn more about Dr. Allyn | https://www.drrachelallyn.com Follow her on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/drrachelallyn?igsh=MTAxeDN6eGdqdXFmbQ== @drrachelallyn Interested in reading her book? https://www.thepleasureisallyoursbook.com/! For more information on her next retreat | https://www.drrachelallyn.com/retreats-with-rachel in Joshua Tree, CA November 1-4, 2024. Would you like to learn more on Dr. Allyn's scope of practice? https://www.drrachelallyn.com/therapyandcounseling Have a wellness or health journey you'd like to share with others in hopes to know they're not alone or to create awareness? Email me at unfckyourhealth@gmail.com or send a message on Instagram to https://www.instagram.com/unfckyourhealth?igsh=MTJyN2JiNDkzcW14aQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Please rate and review if you like my show. I appreciate your support and don't forget to follow along for new episodes! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/allison-alejo/support
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    1 h et 10 min
  • 35. I Value Safe Relationships
    Jul 8 2024

    I've had my fair share of unhealthy relationships and a rocky marriage. I've dealt with many insecurities and feeling undervalued and not worthy of love. This episode shares what I have learned and how I can now appreciate who I am and what I bring to a relationship. Laughter, core values and safety are some of the biggest things I want and now have in a relationship with my partner.


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    Follow me on IG | @unfckyourhealth and @biggie_alz



    Have questions or want my opinion on a particular topic? Send them to unfckyourhealth@gmail.com





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    31 min