In this premiere episode, Dr. Dave Anderson and Dr. Caroline Mendel dive into one of the most common questions parents ask: How can I get my child to behave better?
From toddlers to teens, they explore what really works when it comes to promoting positive behavior — and why quick fixes and harsh discipline aren’t the answer. Instead, they break down a proven, evidence-based approach that starts with the foundation of a strong parent-child relationship.
Guest: Dr. Caroline Mendel, Former Senior Director of Clinical Services at the Child Mind Institute
You’ll learn:
- Why quality time matters more than you think
- How to “catch them being good” — and why that phrase is more than a cliché
- What the behavior pyramid is (and how to use it)
- Why consistency beats intensity every time
- What actually makes time-outs effective
- And how to handle common behavior challenges like sibling conflict and screen time battles
This episode is packed with realistic strategies, expert insight, and personal stories that remind us: there’s no magic solution — but there is a better way.
Resources Mentioned
From the Child Mind Institute:
- Positive Parenting, Thriving Kids Guide to Good Behavior
- Complete Guide to Managing Behavior Problems
- Behavior Problems Resource Center
Books We Recommend:
- Raising Human Beings by Dr. Ross Greene
- The Everyday Parenting Toolkit by Dr. Alan Kazdin
- Evidence-Based Parenting Books – Behavioral Collective
Parenting Programs & Online Tools:
- PAXIS Institute School-Based Programs
- Incredible Years Parenting Course
- FAST Resources for Parents – Seattle Children’s Hospital
- Caregiver Handout on Supporting Teenagers – Seattle Children’s
- Encouraging Positive Behavior: Tips – Raising Children Network
- Encouraging Positive Behavior – Children’s Hospital of Orange County
- Mental Health Minute Series – American Academy of Pediatrics
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