Malia Villarreal Staheli is 28 years old and is from a town called Othello, which is an extremely small farming community in Eastern Washington. She is a beautiful mix of a bunch of different cultures and identifies as Latina-Polynesian. Malia loves fashion, thrifting, food, traveling, listening to ABBA, anything to do with the beach. She also currently works as a marriage and family therapist.

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Malia, who shares her experiences as someone with both Latina and Polynesian heritage. We talk about racism, microaggressions, and the importance of representation for BIPOC communities. Malia reflects on her time in Argentina, the challenges of the Trump administration for minority groups, and how she balances her work as a family therapist supporting BIPOC individuals while also navigating her own fears. Her perspective offers a powerful reminder of both the struggles and the resilience that come with advocating for change.

We also dive into her marriage with Colton—a conservative white man with a very different background—and how the two of them have built a beautiful life together despite political differences. Malia shares how they’ve learned to grow alongside each other, even when they disagree, and how love and empathy can transcend partisanship. Through it all, she emphasizes resilience, growth, and the importance of paving the way for others. (Colton’s episode will be posted next week so stay tuned!)

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