I think judgment of others can be a byproduct of spiritual bypassing. All us self-helpers… lean in.

Basically, spiritual bypassing is when we paint negative experiences as "spiritually positive” before we’ve actually felt the very human, negative feelings. Because we are secretly judging ourselves for having not very pretty or “spiritual” emotions and experiences.

And the offshoot of self recrimination is that you become really f*cking JUDGY with others.

That’s one of the most harmful parts of spiritual bypassing—that everything gets categorized as either “spiritual” or “not spiritual.” TV? Not spiritual. Resentment? Very unspiritual.

But when you start loving your human, “negative” behaviours more… you become MUCH COOLER to other people. It’s pretty simple. LOVE THE GNARLY WITHIN—and you know what happens? You become a more Loving person.

So… get in, loser. We’re dropping the judgment on our way to unity consciousness.

In this episode:

• How judgment stems from spiritual bypassing
• The difference between discernment and judgment
• Community is medicine
• The cost of categorizing everything as “spiritual” or “not spiritual”
• A compassionate look at why judgment might just be self-rejection in disguise

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