Real talk. It is very challenging for many of us to put our selves out there and be vulnerable and open in the dating world especially if we have not had a chance yet to feel secure and safe within our selves and other lovers. To potentially open up and put our selves out there to experience uncomfortable feelings such as rejection, disrespect, bread crumbing, inconsistency etc, it is very scary! I know first hand how dysregulating and discombobulating this experience can be! With so much love and gratitude,annaCorrina (Corri T) Safety in Relationships Meditation: https://youtu.be/bCCL_G5ISxg?si=jxoM_E6fqL7weY6OFind out your attachment style: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/21 Day Increase Self Love and create positive self view workshop free!: https://youtu.be/ik4ZOlDLY5s?si=2hoQUuYeNkk3pUIh21 Day Heal Anxious attachment workshop free!: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcwofK7nJzkS0m9yeNAHtySbRZWALoLAa&si=tOmcs4xGbxoesg4rAccepting Donations to the Channel Gracefully here: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=786U6BK8MT5D4Click here for private sessions: https://mendingheartscounselling.as.me/Follow me on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annamorfidis?_t=ZM-8w3Fw7vY7Md&_r=1Email me privately: annamorfidis@gmail.com

We do have the power to choose our thoughts. That awareness was not always there for me but once I learned that I have a choice in what thoughts I engage in or what thoughts I want to predominately have occur in the first place in my head was a game changer. Thoughts drive our emotions/feelings which in turn drive our behaviours. By having full control of our thought pattern, we can have control over what emotions and or feelings we feel and therefore have control over the behaviours that we engage in. Thank you so much for watching this video to understand how to do so!!! Change your thoughts, change your life!With all my love and gratitude,annaAccepting Donations to the Channel Gracefully here: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=786U6BK8MT5D4Click here for private sessions: https://mendingheartscounselling.as.me/Follow me on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annamorfidis?_t=ZM-8w3Fw7vY7Md&_r=1Email me privately: annamorfidis@gmail.com

I had spent my entire life putting others on a pedestal and seeking their approval and trying very hard to be accepted and validated and understood. I learned through going to school to become a clinical counsellor that I had an anxious attachment style (take the quiz here to find out yours: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/) that is the only of the attachment styles that leads to a negative self view and a positive self view of others, therefore the concept of why we are needing that validation. Essentially we are reverting back to our inner child recreating and hoping for that parental experience that will allow for a positive self view through our adults relationships. Good news! We can reparent our selves and change that self view, or self concept or core beliefs as they are referred to:) All links to references in video below:Thank you for taking the time to watch!With all my love and gratitude, anna21 Day Heal Anxious attachment workshop free!: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcwofK7nJzkS0m9yeNAHtySbRZWALoLAa&si=tOmcs4xGbxoesg4r21 Day Increase Self Love and create positive self view workshop free!: https://youtu.be/ik4ZOlDLY5s?si=2hoQUuYeNkk3pUIhMeditation by Corri T to heal anxiety in relationships free!: https://youtu.be/bCCL_G5ISxg?si=p4QuIu4erXShkH3LCore beliefs listed below that are possible running your system creating that negative self view:I am helpless. I am powerless. I am out of control. I am weak. I am vulnerable. I am needy. I am trapped. I am inadequate. I am ineffective. I am incompetent. I am a failure. I am disrespected. I am defective. I am not good enough. I am unlovable. I am unlikeable. I am undesirable. I am unattractive. I am unwanted. I am uncared for. I am bad. I am unworthy. I am different. I am not good enough to be loved by others. I am bound to be rejected. I am bound to be abandoned. I am bound to be alone. Accepting Donations to the Channel Gracefully here: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=786U6BK8MT5D4

Knowing what is in your consciousness which is your conscious and unconscious mind, means you have a map to your reality and life experience. Our subconscious mind runs the majority of our nervous system and has a story that it has learned through our life experience so far that keeps playing. The movie of our life, is always what narration we give it now as adults. What story do you tell? What beliefs or circumstances have influenced that story? And most importantly, what story do you really want to live?I love you,You've got this,With so much gratitude,anna

It is a true fact that we experience our world through our lenses of perception. And our lenses of perception are dictated by the the thoughts that run our consciousness. Change your Thoughts, Change Your Life. Remembering that our consciousness is mostly made up of our subconscious mind other wise known as the unconscious mind and what is in our unconsciousness we are not aware of and therefore cannot change. So become aware of your internal system in order to change it and literally create the life that you always wanted! You run the ship!!!I love you,You've got this,With so much gratitude,anna

Nothing worse than feeling the pain of a break up in my experience when one has not healed their inner child yet and is still yearning and looking for that love they have been missing for their whole life. And yet this very painful experience of that dream not being fulfilled is the catalyst to the inner child to be healed. This video will cover many topics including attachment styles and the self views they come with and how they contribute to all the pain, along with how to start doing the work.Core Beliefs Video: https://youtu.be/-h72qEOOjdU?si=51UYYCmLnf7H5WuTI love you,You've got this,With so much gratitude,anna

Very often if not always, the pain that arises from our romantic or even platonic relationships that we feel for example when we are not chose, or rejected etc, is the very marker that is being triggered by that situation that is needed to be be erased. Please watch to understand how and why this happens and how to start transmuting that pain and giving your self the chance to experience something more in alignment of what you really want to feel in any relationship or dynamic such as feeling wanted, chosen, desired, etc.

Core Beliefs Video: https://youtu.be/-h72qEOOjdU?si=51UYYCmLnf7H5WuT

I love you,

You've got this,

With so much gratitude,

anna

Other people are very often a mirror to what is alive inside of our own nervous system and subconscious mind that we cannot see unless it is highlighted by others actions and or words. So essentially any uncomfortable and hurtful experiences we have with others, has the tendency to hold a key in unlocking internal freedom of negative core beliefs about our selves that are holding us back and essentially keeping us stuck in these cycles and recycling these feelings and patterns that we are used to and have been part of our blueprint since childhood.

With all my love and gratitude,

Anna