I had spent my entire life putting others on a pedestal and seeking their approval and trying very hard to be accepted and validated and understood. I learned through going to school to become a clinical counsellor that I had an anxious attachment style (take the quiz here to find out yours: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/) that is the only of the attachment styles that leads to a negative self view and a positive self view of others, therefore the concept of why we are needing that validation. Essentially we are reverting back to our inner child recreating and hoping for that parental experience that will allow for a positive self view through our adults relationships. Good news! We can reparent our selves and change that self view, or self concept or core beliefs as they are referred to:) All links to references in video below:Thank you for taking the time to watch!With all my love and gratitude, anna21 Day Heal Anxious attachment workshop free!: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcwofK7nJzkS0m9yeNAHtySbRZWALoLAa&si=tOmcs4xGbxoesg4r21 Day Increase Self Love and create positive self view workshop free!: https://youtu.be/ik4ZOlDLY5s?si=2hoQUuYeNkk3pUIhMeditation by Corri T to heal anxiety in relationships free!: https://youtu.be/bCCL_G5ISxg?si=p4QuIu4erXShkH3LCore beliefs listed below that are possible running your system creating that negative self view:I am helpless. I am powerless. I am out of control. I am weak. I am vulnerable. I am needy. I am trapped. I am inadequate. I am ineffective. I am incompetent. I am a failure. I am disrespected. I am defective. I am not good enough. I am unlovable. I am unlikeable. I am undesirable. I am unattractive. I am unwanted. I am uncared for. I am bad. I am unworthy. I am different. I am not good enough to be loved by others. I am bound to be rejected. I am bound to be abandoned. I am bound to be alone. Accepting Donations to the Channel Gracefully here: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=786U6BK8MT5D4