Haddle's House Episode 9: Interview with Cinematographer Dustin Pearlman (@dustinpearlman). In this week's episode, I chat with Dustin Pearlman, and we discuss his career, our combative sibling-like relationship, and the nuances of filmmaking. We touch on topics including the impact of the environment on our mental health, the importance of staying disciplined in creative careers, and signs from the universe. Dustin shares personal stories about his upbringing, experiences with ghosts, UFOs, and philosophies he's stolen from other podcasts. He also loves his dog @easyontheiris - she's adorable.

[00:00] Introduction and Episode Overview

[01:25] Dustin's Career and Podcast Appearances

Dustin on 'Respect the Process'

Dustin on 'H-Wood'

[07:03] Dustin's Background and Early Life

[11:28] Career Path and Cinematography

Dustin's Family Film Edit

My 'Poor Things Was Not for Me' Essay

[16:59] Advice for Aspiring Cinematographers

[23:27] Mental Health and Career Decisions

[30:48] Philosophies and Personal Insights

[33:42] Ghost Stories and Supernatural Beliefs

[36:39] Signs from the Universe

[41:38] Self-Talk and Personal Growth

[42:55] Dating Dynamics and Toxic Traits

[55:45] Reflections on Relationships and Self-Awareness

[01:04:03] Concluding Thoughts and Future Aspirations

Haddles' House Episode 8: A Deep Dive with Shayna Jackson.

This week I spoke to Shayna Jackson (@shayjack) my long time friend who is a corporate attorney based in LA. We delve into her journey, from her childhood in Oregon to her academic pursuits at Occidental and USC, and her successful career in corporate litigation. Shayna gets deep about her family dynamics, personal growth, and the challenges she faced while relentlessly pursuing her her goals. We also talked about Shayna's personal philosophies, attachment style, love languages, and the usual Haddles' House nonsense.

[00:00] Introduction and Guest Overview

[01:50] Starting the Interview: How We Met

[02:53] Shayna's Background and Family

[05:51] Life After College and Career Path

[16:17] Challenges and Reflections on Law School

[27:18] Advice for Aspiring Lawyers

[30:02] Alternate Career Paths

[33:14] Advice to My Younger Self

[35:51] Embracing Rejection and Optimism

[40:49] UFO Sightings & Signs from the Universe

[44:49] Hidden Talents

[49:46] Bad Dates & Navigating Queer Dating

[52:10] Understanding Attachment Styles

[57:12] Love Languages and Acts of Service

[01:01:03] Paradigm Shifts

[01:05:46] Asking for Help

[01:06:56] Goodbye for Now!

Haddles' House Episode 7: A Conversation with Ellie Gordon. This week, I dive deep with my cousin, artist and homeless youth services provider Ellie Gordon. We discuss Ellie's gender identity journey, childhood in Minnesota, and experiences navigating life's challenges. Ellie shares insights on their career, profound life advice, and supernatural encounters, including ghost stories and UFO sightings. They also touch on the importance of community, mental health, and their aspirations to open an art space in LA.

[00:00] Introduction

[02:25] Exploring Gender Identity

[09:42] Ellie's Life Story

[13:53] Working with Homeless Youth

[20:35] Ghost Stories and Supernatural Experiences

[26:41] Attachment Styles

[28:12] Understanding Love Languages

[30:25] Discussing Toxic Traits

[32:50] The Importance of Asking for Help

[33:36] The Role of Community in Society

[43:33] UFO Sightings and Beliefs

[47:50] Favorite Songs and Harmonica Skills

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