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Ever found yourself fixated on everything that went wrong while completely missing what went right? That's exactly where I found myself after hosting my fifth anniversary luncheon. Despite months of careful planning, unexpected challenges arose, creating what felt like chaos behind the scenes. As I lay in bed that night, mentally cataloging every imperfection, God's gentle but firm voice cut through my frustration: "Don't be ungrateful."

Those three words stopped me in my tracks. While I had been obsessing over logistics that didn't flow perfectly, I'd completely overlooked the beautiful community that had gathered to support me. My daughter wisely observed, "Mom, you have community." Women had shown up, paid for tickets, offered help, and received value from the event—yet I couldn't see past my dashed expectations to appreciate these blessings. The event speaker even commented on the warm welcome she'd received and the obvious love from my team of women.

This powerful lesson reminds us that gratitude isn't just about being thankful when everything goes right—it's about recognizing God's hand at work even amid disappointment. Scripture tells us to "give thanks in everything," which requires an intentional shift in focus. Where are you today? Are you dwelling on unanswered prayers and failed plans, or can you see how God is showing up in unexpected ways? An attitude of gratitude doesn't mean immediately feeling thankful during difficult moments, but it does mean eventually acknowledging that God accomplishes His purposes even when our plans fall short. I'm learning that this perspective change doesn't just honor God—it transforms our hearts and allows us to be fully present in the moments that matter most.

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Colette’s Bio

Colette Lawrence is an author, dynamic motivator, life coach, and personal development Trainer. She is the author of the book Positioned for Purpose: The Journey and its accompanying devotional and Journal.
She dived headfirst into her passion and purpose of impacting women's lives through
motivation, empowerment, and encouragement. She believes in using the gifts God has given her to help women be who God has called them to be, to see God in their story, and to live their life's purpose.

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