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Dave and Matt take you through the transformative journey of coming out in this deeply personal episode that balances heartfelt vulnerability with practical insights.

Dave reveals his experience of coming out at 42 after a military career, marriage, and fatherhood. "Every day since that point onwards I've been the true, authentic me," he shares, detailing how family reactions surprised him in the best possible ways. Meanwhile, Matt discusses coming out in his early twenties despite knowing he was different from childhood, and the complex feelings of regret that his supportive mother "always knew."

The hosts unpack fascinating statistics showing how coming out ages are shifting dramatically across generations - from 19-20 for millennials to 11-14 for today's youth. They explore why one in three LGBTQ+ adults never come out to their parents at all, examining the fears and societal pressures that keep people in the closet.

What makes this conversation especially valuable is their nuanced take on why authenticity matters not just for yourself, but for everyone in your life. "The pressure of staying hidden is far harder," they emphasize, while acknowledging that timing and circumstances remain deeply personal.

Whether you're contemplating coming out, supporting someone who is, or simply curious about LGBTQ+ experiences, this episode offers both emotional resonance and practical resources. Reach out to us through our socials or email if you need support - we promise a judgment-free conversation.

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