• Ep 14 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Happy Pride. Open Hearts, Open Relationships. Love Isn’t Linear
    Jun 10 2025

    In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian celebrate their 50th episode while reflecting on personal experiences and current events affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the significance of Pride Month, the importance of community support, and the complexities of navigating relationships, including open and polyamorous dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for vigilance in the face of adversity while also recognizing the beauty and joy in life. The episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion about healing relationships and the unexpected moments of connection that can arise.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025

    Keywords: podcast, LGBTQ+, relationships, Pride Month, personal growth, community support, open relationships, polyamory, current events, emotional well-being Takeaways This is our 50th episode! It's important to acknowledge the technical glitches we face. Pride Month serves as a reminder of ongoing struggles for LGBTQ+ rights. Community support is crucial during difficult times. Navigating relationships can be complex, especially after coming out later in life. Open and polyamorous relationships require strong communication and trust. Love is not finite; relationships can take many forms. Healing relationships is possible, even after separation. It's essential to find joy and beauty in life despite challenges. You never know when a positive connection will show up in your life.

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    44 min
  • Ep 13 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Celebrating Pride: Time for Reflection. LGBTQ Self Care & Growth
    Jun 1 2025

    In this episode of the Coming Inside Out Podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo discuss various themes surrounding Pride Month, including personal updates, reflections on safety at Pride events, the significance of coming out, and the current political climate affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They also explore the importance of self-reflection and healing journeys, sharing profound questions to ask oneself for personal growth.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025

    Keywords - Pride Month, LGBTQ+, coming out, safety, activism, self-reflection, political climate, community support, healing, personal growth Takeaways: Pride Month is a time for celebration and reflection. Safety concerns at Pride events are increasingly relevant. Coming out is a personal journey that varies for everyone. It's never too late to come out and support the LGBTQ+ community. The commercialization of Pride can detract from its roots as a protest. Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth and healing. Understanding the political climate is essential for community support. Bravery in coming out should be recognized regardless of timing. Engaging with LGBTQ+ news sources helps stay informed. Community support groups provide valuable resources for individuals.

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    33 min
  • Ep 12 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Navigating Fatherhood and Gay Culture: An Emotional LGBTQ Journey
    May 6 2025

    In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian share personal updates, including Mark's recent move and the emotional challenges that come with it. They discuss the complexities of coming out, financial struggles, and the importance of embracing change. The conversation shifts to listener questions about pride events and experiences in the gay community, revealing both the joys and challenges faced. They reflect on fatherhood, share songs that resonate with their coming out journeys, and celebrate the growth of their podcast and its impact on listeners.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory

    Keywords: coming out, gay fathers, true to oneself, gay community, loneliness, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, my coming out story, gay bar Takeaways: Mark shares his emotional journey of moving into his own place. Brian discusses the struggles of financial challenges and authenticity. The importance of embracing change during difficult times is emphasized. Listener engagement is highlighted with questions about pride experiences. The hosts reflect on the complexities of gay culture after coming out. Mark and Brian share their first experiences in gay bars. Fatherhood is described as both a gift and a challenge. Songs play a significant role in their coming out journeys. The podcast has reached listeners in 56 countries, showcasing its impact. The importance of community and finding one's tribe is discussed.

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    48 min
  • Ep 11 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - From Silence to Strength: Coming Out Courageous and Resilient
    Apr 29 2025

    In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and Mark welcome their first guest, Shaun Williams, who shares his powerful journey of coming out as a gay man after decades of living a different life. Shaun discusses the challenges he faced, including mental health struggles and the importance of seeking help. He emphasizes the significance of community and connection among men, particularly those who identify as LGBTQ+. The conversation highlights the need for safe spaces where individuals can express their feelings without judgment. Shaun's story serves as an inspiration for others navigating similar paths, showcasing the resilience and strength found in embracing one's true self.

    Guest - Shaun Williams - Proud Father to 4 amazing kids, Founder of Gay Fathers Worldwide and Bent Couch Counselling - bentcouch.com.au

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory

    Keywords: coming out, gay fathers, true to oneself, gay community, loneliness, dating apps, relationships, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, my coming out story

    Takeaways: Shaun came out in 2019 after decades of living another story. He emphasizes the importance of community and connection for men. Mental health struggles often accompany the journey of coming out. Creating safe spaces for men to talk is crucial. Shaun's coming out story was not pretty, but it was necessary for his healing. He encourages men to share their feelings without fear of judgment. The power of talking and being heard can change lives. Resilience is key in navigating the challenges of being true to oneself. Shaun's work with Gay Fathers Worldwide provides support for men in similar situations. Embracing authenticity is a journey that requires courage and support.

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    58 min
  • Ep 10 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Past Relationships and Emotional Healing in the LGBTQ+ Experience
    Apr 22 2025

    In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian explore themes of gratitude, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. They reflect on their personal journeys of coming out, the struggles of feeling stagnant in life, and the importance of self-love. The conversation delves into the dynamics of open relationships, the impact of past relationships, and the evolving norms of love and connection. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the community and share their experiences as the hosts prepare for future discussions.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory

    Keywords: coming out, Facebook, gay fathers, guilt, shame, cheating, rejection, financial challenges, gay community, loneliness, dating apps, relationships, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, gratitude, open relationships, dating, my coming out story

    Takeaways: Gratitude plays a significant role in personal growth. Coming out experiences can vary greatly among individuals. Self-discovery often requires introspection and patience. Relationships can evolve, and it's important to define them on our own terms. Open relationships require clear communication and trust. Self-love is crucial for personal happiness and fulfillment. Past relationships can impact current emotional states. Community support is vital for navigating life's challenges. The dynamics of dating in the LGBTQ+ community are complex. It's essential to allow oneself to feel and process emotions.

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    46 min
  • Ep 9 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Loneliness, Connection, and Self-Discovery in the LGBTQ+ Journey
    Apr 14 2025

    In this episode, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the complexities of life changes, loneliness in the gay community, and the challenges of meeting new people. They discuss the impact of dating apps, the pain associated with coming out, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the reflections on personal growth amidst the challenges of living authentically.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory

    Keywords: coming out, therapist, Facebook group, gay fathers, guilt, shame, cheating, rejection, financial challenges, true to oneself, gay community, loneliness, dating apps, relationships, self-discovery, LGBTQ, connection, personal growth, my coming out story

    Takeaways: Life changes can bring a mix of emotions. Loneliness is prevalent in the gay community. Meeting new people can be challenging. Connection is often sought beyond hookup culture. Dating apps can complicate relationships. Coming out can be a painful process. Self-discovery is an ongoing journey. Relationships can be complex and multifaceted. Community support is crucial for personal growth. Growth can come from both pain and joy.

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    43 min
  • Ep. 8 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Empowerment Through Coming Out and Navigating the LGBTQ Journey.
    Apr 8 2025

    In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the impact of their podcast, personal coming out experiences, and the importance of building community. They explore the representation of gay men in media, the political climate affecting LGBTQ rights, and the significance of authenticity in personal and professional lives. The conversation also touches on generational differences in coming out, the role of vulnerability, and the journey of self-discovery. Mark shares his experiences with a naked drawing meetup, emphasizing body positivity and self-acceptance. The episode concludes with a call for listener engagement and feedback.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, gay men, podcast, empowerment, community, representation, political climate, self-expression, identity

    Takeaways: The podcast has received positive feedback from listeners. Sharing personal stories can help others in their coming out journey. Media representation of gay men is evolving. Political affiliations can complicate LGBTQ identities. Coming out is a continuous process throughout life. Generational differences impact the coming out experience. Building community is essential for support and connection. Authenticity leads to personal empowerment. Self-expression can manifest in various forms, including fashion and music. Vulnerability is a strength in the journey of self-discovery.

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    42 min
  • Ep 7 - Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Personal Stories.
    Apr 1 2025

    In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark discuss their personal journeys of coming out, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the significance of vulnerability, political diversity, and the need for authentic expression in leadership. The conversation also touches on the emotional complexities of navigating relationships and the journey of self-discovery. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their identities and support one another in their journeys.

    Mark Dembo: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/from-suppressing-leading-journey-wholeness-mark-dembo-1ewke/?trackingId=Ep9IQtrESfOGGXesF67TdA%3D%3D

    Jim Fielding: https://jimsfieldnotes.beehiiv.com/p/the-privilege-of-difficult-choices

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, community support, political diversity, personal stories, vulnerability, leadership, emotional challenges, identity, connection

    Takeaways: This podcast is a passion project for both hosts. Community support is vital for those coming out later in life. Vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with others. Political diversity should be embraced within the LGBTQ+ community. It's important to create safe spaces for civil discourse. Authenticity in leadership involves being true to oneself. Understanding the difference between hiding and lying is crucial. Loneliness can be a part of the journey after coming out. Expressing one's identity can lead to newfound freedom. Focusing on the journey and controlling what you can is essential.

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    50 min