you’ve been taught to believe that fat loss is simple: eat less, move more, repeat until smaller.
but if that actually worked the way you think—why are you still starting over? why are you still white-knuckling through another “reset” that feels exactly like the last one?

this episode breaks down the truth about why most women get trapped in the same loop:

• chasing quick fixes and shrinking instead of training to actually build something

• confusing dieting for results with dieting for control

• mistaking effort for progress (and why the scale lies to you every single time)

• sabotaging yourself with the exact “solutions” you think will save you (like cutting carbs, adding HIIT, or flip-flopping between deficit and maintenance)

• clinging to comfort, timelines, and old metrics that don’t match the body you actually want

we talk about what real progress looks like when the goal isn’t just smaller—but stronger, tighter, and leaner. and why the thing you keep avoiding (slowing down, fueling properly, pushing harder in the gym, sitting in maintenance longer than you think you “should”) is exactly what’s holding you back from breaking free.

if you’ve ever thought: “i know what to do, i just can’t stick to it”—this episode will call BS on that belief and show you why sticking to “it” has never been the problem. your problem isn’t willpower. it’s the wrong game plan.

so if you’re sick of starting over, this is the wake-up call. it’s time to stop chasing smaller and start building different.

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most women think getting leaner means eating less forever. that’s the lie that keeps you stuck. the truth? you can’t diet your way to the body you want – you have to build it first. and that means fueling, training, and surviving the slow phase no one tells you about.

And not, its not reverse dieting. That won’t make you shredded. eating more won’t automatically build muscle. and no – you can’t just train harder and expect to wake up with the body you want. the missing piece? the phase of training no one wants to talk about – the slow grind that actually creates shape, strength, and a metabolism that works for you.

in this episode, i share:

• why chasing quick results is killing your long-term progress

• where most women go wrong with reverse dieting and “eating more”

• the mindset shift that finally lets you build the muscle you need to get leaner later

• how to know if you’re truly building muscle – or just spinning your wheels

• what makes THIS ONE PHASE the real key to lasting fat loss

this is the truth nobody else will tell you. it’s not sexy, it’s not fast, but it works.we’ll call out the patterns that have kept you stuck for years – and give you a clear path out of the yo-yo cycle.

5 things you can start TODAY

1. stop flipping between deficit and maintenance. commit to one phase long enough to see it through.

2. use your training performance as the progress marker – not just the scale.

3. fuel like you mean it – carbs aren’t the enemy, they’re the building blocks.

4. fall in love with the basics – boring training done with intent builds the body you want.

5. When you feel discomfort… learn to pause VS react and sabotage. And be patient with yourself here

getting leaner isn’t about chasing the scale. it’s about building the body underneath – and that means doing the thing nobody talks about: sitting in the slow, uncomfortable phase where muscle is built, not just dieting harder.

if you’re ready to stop sabotaging yourself and finally see progress that sticks, hit play. and if you’ve got questions, dm me – or come on the podcast to talk through your journey.

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• mention glycogen/water weight early to ease fear of scale jumps• touch on why fat loss phases should be short, building phases long• highlight why diet culture/anti-diet extremes both fail• reinforce that consistency > perfection, boring > flashy• include that eating more works only when paired with intent in training• plug next episode on anti-diet culture vs. diet culture

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you’ve been dieting forever. eating less. cutting carbs. chasing that next plan that promises to finally “work.” and yet… your body still feels stuck.

you’re training hard. you’re eating “healthy.” you’re in a deficit again. so why does nothing change?

because you’ve been sold the lie that dieting is the answer.

here’s the thing: dieting works the first time… maybe the second. after that, it’s just breaking down muscle, wrecking your metabolism, and making fat loss harder every single round. you’re not lazy. you’re not broken. you’re just stuck in a system designed to keep you small and stuck.

in this episode, we dig into why your body won’t change no matter how much you diet… and how that’s actually killing your progress. we talk about:

• why endless deficits destroy the very muscle you need to look lean

• how fear of carbs, lifting light, and “science-based” hacks keep you spinning your wheels

• what’s really happening with cortisol, hormones, and belly fat when you’re under-fueling

• the difference between losing weight vs actually changing your body

• why building muscle (and fueling for it) is the only way forward

this isn’t about another plan. it’s about shifting the way you think about progress entirely. if you’ve been chasing smaller, obsessing over the scale, or stuck in that “nothing works” frustration—this episode is going to hit hard.

if you want to know:

• the truth about carbs, cortisol, and why you can’t “out-diet” stress

• how science gets misused to validate bad approaches

• why building muscle is the thing diet culture never taught you

• what menopause, hormones, and belly fat actually have in common

• how to finally get off the fat-loss hamster wheel for good

• a clear understanding of why your body isn’t responding (and how to change that)
• a new way to see carbs and strength training as your best tools

this isn’t just about changing your body. it’s about taking back control of your health, your energy, and your future.

if this hits home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. and if you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels—let’s talk.

listen in, reflect on what’s been keeping you stuck, and ask yourself: what’s the real rush? because if you keep rushing, you’ll stay here forever.

if you want to chat about your own journey or struggles, reach out. i’d love to hear your story.

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