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    Editors Select, November 2013 - Like most, I don't believe in lying, but I've never been opposed to the occasional white lie when I felt it was warranted. So I was pretty intrigued when I heard about this essay from Sam Harris, in which he argues that all forms of lying are inherently detrimental to our lives and relationships with others. From false encouragement to omission, Harris dismisses the notion that any kind of lie is truly harmless - often using insightful, true stories as examples. It's a short listen that is definitely worth checking out for anyone interested in psychology, human behavior, or self-improvement. I predict I'll be choosing my words wisely when I open a gift I don't love this holiday season! —Sam, Audible Editor

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    As it was in Anna Karenina, Madame Bovary, and Othello, so it is in life. Most forms of private vice and public evil are kindled and sustained by lies. Acts of adultery and other personal betrayals, financial fraud, government corruption - even murder and genocide - generally require an additional moral defect: a willingness to lie.

    In Lying, bestselling author and neuroscientist Sam Harris argues that we can radically simplify our lives and improve society by merely telling the truth in situations where others often lie. He focuses on "white" lies - those lies we tell for the purpose of sparing people discomfort - for these are the lies that most often tempt us. And they tend to be the only lies that good people tell while imagining that they are being good in the process.

    ©2013 Sam Harris (P)2013 Sam Harris

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    "This essay is quite brilliant. (I was hoping it would be, so I wouldn't have to lie.) I honestly loved it from beginning to end. Lying is the most thought-provoking read of the year." (Ricky Gervais)
    "Humans have evolved to lie well, and no doubt you've seen the social lubrication at work. In many cases, we might not think of it as a true lie: perhaps a 'white' lie once in a blue moon, the omission of a sensitive detail here and there, false encouragement of others when we see no benefit in dashing someone's hopes, and the list goes on. In Lying, Sam Harris demonstrates how to benefit from being brutally - but pragmatically - honest. It's a compelling little book with a big impact." (Tim Ferriss author of the number-one New York Times best sellers The 4-Hour Body and The 4-Hour Workweek.)
    "In this brief but illuminating work, Sam Harris applies his characteristically calm and sensible logic to a subject that affects us all: the human capacity to lie. And by the book's end, Harris has compelled you to lead a better life because the benefits of telling the truth far outweigh the cost of lies - to yourself, to others, and to society." (Neil deGrasse Tyson, Astrophysicist, American Museum of Natural History)

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    Insightful

    This book explores the benefits of living a truthful life.

    And given that it's read by the author, it ensures that the scripts are read as intended.

    Would recommend to anyone

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    very good, but short

    to be honest i would have liked to go more into detail. but its definitely a good book

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    • Douglas
    • 29/11/2013

    "Telling The Truth...

    is being aware of what the truth is in any given moment..." This is perhaps the most pivotal line in Sam Harris' challenging essay on lying and truth telling. We must first be perfectly honest with ourselves before we can be honest with others. (Consider Emily Dickinson's "...we hide ourselves behind ourselves..." or a line from the sitcom "Community:" the biggest lies are told six inches from the bathroom mirror...") Then it all boils down to "do unto others." Harris very poignantly asked us how we would want people to deal with us on a daily basis. All, right, in way, we want politicians to "tell us what we want to hear," but if we go by rule one, being aware of the truth in any given moment, wouldn't we want the truth always given to us straight? Of course, where we are going to cringe is not with extramarital affairs, financial cheats and calculated harm, but rather with the everyday, work-a-day social lying. "Do I look good in this dress?..." "Does my son's behavior bother you?..." "Are you free to come to my party on Friday night?..." Harris makes a compelling argument--if one not all of us are probably going to run out and implement immediately--that the truth can be told in ALL situations, that these little social situations can be handled TACTFULLY, but that tactfully doesn't have to skirt the truth. In a writing class I teach based in Theories Of Morality, I tell this true story: One evening, I was teaching a five-hour block of college English classes, and it was 6:50, and I had not had any dinner and only a fairly sparse lunch. My only chance was to get to the student union and the commissary for a quick slice of dried out pizza before it closed at 7:00 and my next class started. I had ten minutes to cram some bad food in my mouth before pressing on to my next class, and a female student was leisurely strolling beside me, speaking to me about a personal manner of no earth-shattering import. I was trying to be polite and listen and respond appropriately, barely able to make out the words being spoken for the screams of hunger my body was giving forth. The student would not pick up the pace or pick up the silent visual cues that usually say "all right, got to get going! [we are done here]." And so, automatically, with no due calculation, I said, smiling gently and touching her on the arm, "you know, I have to hurry by the office to get some papers real quick before my next classes, can I catch you later?" With that, I darted toward Salish Hall, and then, when out of sight of the student, I made a mad dash for the union and got my pizza. At the time, I rationalized that this was simply sparing the student hearing, "getting a slice of crusty, sun-lamp desiccated veggie is more important right now than listening to you babble on!" But Harris says I was not being polite, but rather lazy. And it's true. I could have carefully and tactfully explained my situation to the student in the time it took to reroute to Salish and then back to the union. The small becomes the big after all, and we should not get too used to misrepresenting things, or, before long, we ]might take to George Costanza's immortal [immoral] advice to Jerry: "it's not a lie, if you believe it."

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    • Kazuhiko
    • 23/11/2013

    Confronting oneself

    I liked the way this book made me feel a bit uncomfortable. You don't hear or read these bluntly honest opinions about the type of lies that we often consider socially acceptable (if you think about it, as the author explains, they are harmful). I did not agree with some of his arguments, but the most important thing was that this book made me re-evaluate my approach to life. I also liked the last 30 minutes where he responded to readers' questions. When there are too many books out there in which the authors stretch and repeat the same points over and over again, this to-the-point style was also refreshing.

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    • Andrea Ivins
    • 09/01/2015

    Insightful - Will Read Again

    This is one that I knew I would agree with but fail to implement completely. I plan on reading many times in the future to gain the strength to change. Complete honesty in this society is tough. Loved this book.

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    • R. Calkins
    • 06/01/2015

    The truth as we don't want to see it.

    I love everything Sam Harris has written. This book is no exception. I really wish I could argue with some of his ideas, but he makes such a strong case that I often have to resign myself to accept the unacceptable.

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    • Dustin
    • 06/01/2015

    Amazing

    Amazing book/ essay yet again from the incomparable Sam Harris. Many of these ideas are familiar to us but Harris does what he does best and sheds light where many times there is none.

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    • randers1925
    • 26/05/2014

    Thought provoking for secular and religious alike

    Where does Lying rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    Very interesting read. I am a Christian and I am interested in learning about viewpoints that differ from mine. I thought this might be an "attack on religion" book. But I found it to be very well written and I was challenged with some very thought provoking ideas. And Sam Harris packs a lot into a relatively short work.

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    • Brock
    • 19/11/2013

    To tell the truth (or not)

    This was a really enjoyable, short reminder of the importance of telling the truth- always. Harris does a great job of explaining why he doesn't believe there's ever a good time to lie, even though it may seem like it's the best thing to do at the moment; like when a girlfriend asks if a dress makes her look fat. I know life is complicated, but I really like the straightforward way Harris makes his case that honesty really is the best policy.

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    • Coredapple
    • 02/01/2015

    The black and white truth on lying!

    How ethical are white lies? Sam Harris gives us reasons where even white lies can be detrimental to us or people around us. A very insightful read. The addition of his responses to readers' questions where saying the truth might not be an easy solution, and his responses to them are very welcome. Totally recommended for aspiring politicians!

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    • Teri Ambrose
    • 05/01/2014

    Inspirational, quick read

    I'm writing this review months after listening. I enjoyed the book at the time, but what has me inspired to come back and write a review is the fact that the general premise of this book has stuck with me so well. I used to routinely tell seemingly innocent lies to grease the wheels of easy social interaction. Small things, not big boldface lies. Morality totally aside, the author contends that everyone would benefit from committing to being truthful. Personally, I now find that I really enjoy the authenticity of owning and saying the truth in even the smallest of circumstances. I don't mean hurting people's feelings or anything like that. There is certainly diplomacy and kindness to consider, too. This book argues for the premise that it's just plain smart, emboldening and genuine to be an honest, straightforward truth-teller.

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    • Benito
    • 10/08/2014

    Practical and thought-stimulating

    Where does Lying rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    Top 5, for sure.

    What did you like best about this story?

    Sam Harris does an excellent job of describing why lying does much more harm than good. The example scenarios he uses are not far-fetched, nor manufactured expressly to back up his own points. After listening, I have certainly re-examined my own thinking upon this matter, which is all I can ask for from a book. His ability to waste no words in getting his point across is most impressive - the book is a little over 1-hour long!

    If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

    Lying, not all it's cracked up to be.

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    • Batman Jr.
    • 28/10/2018

    Ein besserer Mensch sein

    Lügen beeinflusst einen wesentlichen Teil unseres Lebens und fast jeder tut es täglich, obwohl der allgemeine Konsens existiert, Lügen sei unmoralisch. Der Grund, warum fast niemand (mich eingeschlossen) diesem Prinzip folgt, ist vermutlich, dass viele nur eine schwammige Vorstellung davon besitzen, warum es unmoralisch ist und sich nicht bewusst sind, wie viel Schaden Lügen wirklich verursacht. Dies erschwert es in der Praxis, nicht zu lügen. Sam Harris Buch ist fortschrittlich, rational und bewusstseinserweiternd. Trotz der kurzen Hördauer, enthält es alles relevante und ist angenehmerweise nicht unnötig langgezogenen. Es hat mir die fundierte und konkrete Meinung ermöglicht, die nötig ist um nicht mehr zu lügen.

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    • OkayFair
    • 14/08/2019

    Amazing and absolutely worth the time and money!

    Awesome content. Fantastic Delivery. Superb Q&A at the end. Loved every bit of it. Thank you Sam Harris!

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    • Renzo Mancinelli
    • 04/09/2019

    Excellent

    I enjoyed both the content and its presentaron very much.
    Sam Harris is a fenomenal author.

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    • we
    • 25/12/2018

    Bestes Hörbuch für ein halbes Guthaben

    Das bis jetzt beste Hörbuch für ein halbes Guthaben welches ich gehört habe. Empohlen, hörenswert. Gg

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    • Jan Neumann
    • 28/03/2018

    Sam Harris is a genius of our time

    As stated above Sam Harris' ideas are gripping, thought inducing and mind opening to say the least

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    • Markus Steinmann
    • 24/11/2017

    Surprisingly great book

    Very short, but great food for thought. Motivated me to think more deeply about lying and ethics.

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    • Airhead
    • 03/07/2021

    Excellent thoughts on lying

    This could be one of those books that have the power to divide ones life into a before and after.

    Sam Harris is one of the most clear and independent thinkers of our time and this short and insightful book should be uncontroversial even for those who might disagree with Sam on some of his other standpoints.

    Highly recommended!

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    • Michael
    • 16/05/2021

    Great Audio Book

    Great book to rethink lying even in difficult situations! Highly recommended for everyone who is thinking about a change in his/her life.

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    • Maria B
    • 07/03/2021

    Pretty good

    Well it's a very short book and for that it's content is good. I think the speaker sounds a bit bored or tired and the book could be so much more interesting with more real cases and a more personal approach that contains more emotion and empathy. But as I said, for what it offers it's a good read!

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    • Sarah
    • 27/10/2020

    Important thoughts

    This made me change the way I thought about white lies. Sam Harris convincingly expounds the harmfulness of lying, especially in everyday situations.