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  • ✨Manifestation Special ✨ How Your Emotional State Is Secretly Creating Your Reality
    May 6 2026

    In this Manifestation Special episode, Davina dives deep into the emotional and energetic side of manifestation and the “secret weapon” most people completely overlook when trying to call in more love, money, success, opportunities, confidence, and aligned relationships.

    This episode explores how your nervous system, emotional state, thoughts, and energetic patterns shape the reality you continue to experience and why manifestation is about so much more than vision boards and positive thinking.

    Inside this conversation, Davina shares:
    • Why your emotions are actually a built in alignment GPS
    • How your emotional state impacts what you attract into your life
    • The connection between embodiment, nervous system safety, and manifestation
    • Why your body must feel safe to receive the things you desire
    • How your thoughts and attention influence your energetic reality
    • The difference between manifesting from alignment vs anxiety
    • Why “the better it gets, the better it gets”
    • The role of self awareness in shifting emotional and energetic patterns
    • How to begin creating new neural pathways through intentional focus and embodied awareness
    • Why pleasure, aliveness, and emotional honesty matter in manifestation work

    This is a grounded, candid, and deeply expansive conversation for anyone wanting to better understand the relationship between their inner world and the reality they are creating around them.

    If you’ve been feeling stuck in cycles of stress, fear, overthinking, or emotional overwhelm while trying to “manifest” a different life… this episode will completely shift the way you view the process.

    Instagram: @davvyxx



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    22 min
  • From Anxious to Securely Attached: How I Learned to Feel Safe & Soften Into New Love 🌹
    Apr 9 2026

    In this episode, I share my journey from anxious attachment to becoming securely attached, and how that has completely changed the way I experience love.

    After years of doing the inner work, spending time alone, and learning how to truly meet myself, I have stepped back into dating in a very different way.

    What has surprised me the most is not just the connection I have created, but who I am within it.

    This episode is a raw and embodied reflection on what it feels like to feel safe in love, stay grounded in your body, communicate your needs clearly, and soften into a relationship without losing yourself.

    I also share the key shifts that supported me in moving from anxious to secure, and why this kind of love feels so different to anything I have experienced before.

    IN THIS EPISODE
    • My journey from anxious attachment to secure
    • What it feels like to be securely attached
    • The nervous system shift that allows you to feel safe in love
    • How I stopped abandoning myself in relationships
    • The 5 lessons that made dating feel calmer and more aligned
    • Why softness comes from safety
    • How doing the work alone changed everything

    If you are in a season of doing the work or learning to come home to yourself, this episode is for you In this episode, I share my journey from anxious attachment to becoming securely attached, and how that has completely changed the way I experience love.

    After years of doing the inner work, spending time alone, and learning how to truly meet myself, I have stepped back into dating in a very different way.

    What has surprised me the most is not just the connection I have created, but who I am within it.

    This episode is a raw and embodied reflection on what it feels like to feel safe in love, stay grounded in your body, communicate your needs clearly, and soften into a relationship without losing yourself.

    I also share the key shifts that supported me in moving from anxious to secure, and why this kind of love feels so different to anything I have experienced before.

    ✨ IN THIS EPISODE
    • My journey from anxious attachment to secure
    • What it feels like to be securely attached
    • The nervous system shift that allows you to feel safe in love
    • How I stopped abandoning myself in relationships
    • The 5 lessons that made dating feel calmer and more aligned
    • Why softness comes from safety
    • How doing the work alone changed everything

    If you are in a season of doing the work or learning to come home to yourself, this episode is for you.

    Instagram @davvyxx
    www.theupgradebydavina.com


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    36 min
  • Juicy Permission Slips: Boundaries in Dating, Leaving Friendships & Curating Your Social Media
    Mar 5 2026

    In this episode, I’m sharing some of the most powerful permission slips I’ve learned as an embodiment coach.

    So many people stay stuck in situations that drain them because they feel guilty leaving, speaking up, or changing.

    But growth often requires us to make decisions that other people might not understand.

    We talk about:

    • Why your social media should be a space that supports your wellbeing
    • The truth about “cringe” and why you should still post the content
    • How to recognise when friendships are no longer aligned
    • Boundaries in dating and noticing what someone brings out in you
    • The difference between relationships that activate your inner child vs your caretaker
    • Why you are allowed to leave jobs, relationships, or environments that no longer feel right
    • The power of reinventing yourself at any moment

    This episode is your reminder that you don’t need approval to live a life that feels authentic.

    Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is give yourself permission.

    https://www.theupgradebydavina.com/

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    25 min
  • Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body: The Missing Piece of Healing
    Feb 8 2026

    In this deeply embodied and expansive episode of The Upgrade Edit, I’m in conversation with my beautiful friend Hilary as she guides me through my own personal journey of healing, embodiment and energetic sovereignty - moving beyond mindset work and into the body, the womb and the nervous system.

    Together, Hilary and I explore what real self-healing actually looks like when we stop living life as a “floating head” and start listening to the intelligence of the body.

    I share openly about my journey from anxiety, suppression and disconnection into deeper embodiment and self-trust. We talk about how emotions live in the body, why suppressing feelings keeps us stuck, and how learning to sit with sensation — rather than avoiding it — becomes one of the most liberating practices a woman can access.

    We dive into somatic processing, generational healing, throat and womb energy, and why healing isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about remembering who you were before conditioning taught you to disconnect.

    This conversation is raw, honest and deeply activating. It’s for women who are tired of intellectualising their healing and are ready to feel, move and embody their life force.

    In this episode, Hilary and I explore:

    • Why so many of us live disconnected from our bodies
    • How anxiety, grief and emotion want to move through the nervous system
    • What happens when you stop distracting yourself and choose to sit in sensation
    • The link between the throat, the womb and suppressed truth
    • How somatic processing prevents trauma from being stored in the body
    • Self-forgiveness and compassion for past versions of yourself
    • Why healing doesn’t need to make sense to be effective
    • The power of pleasure, receiving and nervous system safety
    • How embodiment changes relationships, work and self-worth
    • Why investing in yourself ripples out to heal generations
    • The difference between forcing growth and allowing expansion
    • How following intuition creates unshakeable inner stability


    This episode is a reminder that your body is not the problem — it’s the portal.

    Healing doesn’t come from doing more.
    It comes from feeling more, trusting more and allowing energy to move.

    If you’ve ever felt afraid of your emotions, disconnected from your power, or unsure how to truly come home to yourself, this conversation is for yo

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    55 min
  • The 2026 Upgrade: Celibacy Szn Is Over (But the Work Is Just Beginning)
    Feb 4 2026

    The Upgrade Edit is back for 2026 baby, and celibacy szn is officially over!

    But the real work? That’s just getting started.

    In this episode, I’m sharing a real-life update on stepping back into dating after close to three years of celibacy, what this re-entry is teaching me about myself, my patterns, and the way my nervous system shows up in connection.

    We talk about why nervous system regulation is non-negotiable in this season, how growth work actually gets tested in real relationships, and what it means to integrate the healing — not just intellectualise it.

    I also share what’s coming up for 2026, including:

    • The retreats I’m hosting this year
    • Heading back to the Amazon for my first co-branded retreat with Arkana Spiritual Centre
    • My word for 2026 and what I’m consciously calling in
    • How you can bring more intention and awareness into your year too

    This episode is for anyone re-entering the dating world, integrating deep personal work into real life, or intentionally upgrading how they move through relationships and the year ahead.

    Press play if you’re ready to meet 2026 with more presence, regulation, and next-level self-awareness.

    Chapters

    • 00:00 The Return and Reflection
    • 05:22 Reentering the Dating World
    • 13:42 Embodying Power and Authenticity
    • 21:38 Emotional Processing and Resilience
    • 30:00 Future Plans and Connection
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    27 min
  • Why resting could actually be your biggest power move 🧘🏽‍♀️✨
    Jan 5 2025
    This is a look back at some of the early lessons of Who? Me with Davina Rankin Head back to season 4 to hear the full episode 🌹
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    8 min
  • Relationships & Parenting Mini Series | How to maintain your identity and not get ‘lost’ within motherhood ✨ With Kris Byrnes
    Nov 19 2024
    Welcome to episode 1 of our 6 part mini series with the wonderful Kris Byrnes. In this ep we will be opening up about one of the most challenging, yet often overlooked, aspects of parenthood: maintaining self-identity amidst the demands of family life. How do you stay true to yourself while giving so much to your children, partner, and the roles you’re expected to play? We dive deep into our personal journeys of becoming mothers , the struggles of balancing individuality with family dynamics, and the societal pressures that often push parents to lose themselves in their roles. This episode also features tips for creating space for personal growth and boundaries within the chaos of parenting, a discussion about the importance of modeling self-awareness to your children, and a reminder that your own dreams and identity matter. It’s not just about being the best parent—it’s about being the fullest version of yourself. Tune in for an honest, raw, and inspiring conversation that sets the tone for this six-part series on navigating parenthood while staying grounded in who you are. Perfect for: Parents grappling with identity shifts. Soon-to-be moms looking for advice on what to expect. Anyone craving a balance between self and family life. Stay connected as we take you on a journey through topics that empower parents to stay rooted in their values while rising to meet life’s ever-changing demands. I hope you enjoy! Xx
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    28 min
  • ‘What if it turns out better than I could have ever imagined’ ✨The lighter side of separation & solo parenting with Emma Ceolin
    Jul 28 2024
    This episode makes me so happy & proud! My beautiful friend Emma Ceolin is in the studio with me reflecting on the past year, and just how far we’ve both come. We both went through huge life transitions around the same time and it’s so beautiful to come together now and be able to talk about the journey & now be at the light on the other side. Both being solo mumma’s we get very vulnerable with the struggles & hurdles but the overall censuses is that: We now see why we had to go through it all & all the hard decisions were so worth it! This is the chat I wish I heard when I was at my crossroads to give me hope that it all ends up working out for the best & to have faith & trust the journey. Sending lots of love to anyone who is going through a tough time at the moment - hopefully this episode reminds you of just how strong, resilient & capable you really are!
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    38 min