🎧 Short Description:
In this episode I explore 10 common beliefs about success, worth, and happiness that we often accept without questioning—and how pausing to notice them can help you feel more content, confident, and present today.
📖 Full Show Notes (SEO Optimized):
Have you ever noticed how much of life we live on autopilot, believing things without ever questioning them? I had one of those moments recently while scrolling through my camera roll: the photos that made me smile weren’t achievements, awards, or milestones—they were ordinary, messy, human moments with friends, family, and nature. It made me realise that the life I thought I was striving for was already here.
In this episode, I reflect on 10 common beliefs that quietly shape our lives—from “striving equals worth” and “contentment comes after achievement” to “external validation matters” and “I’ll enjoy life later.” I share how these beliefs can limit us and how asking simple questions like “Does this truly serve me?” can shift perspective and create more joy in everyday life.
I also explore practical ways to reclaim presence, trust yourself, and celebrate what’s already here. We talk about learning from younger generations, embracing ease instead of struggle, wanting less without losing ambition, and appreciating your body as a source of experience, not a problem to fix. This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and notice the joy that’s available in ordinary moments.
💡 Key Takeaways:
- Striving doesn’t equal worth.
- Contentment lives in the present, not the next milestone.
- Internal validation is more reliable than external praise.
- Your body is a gateway to experience, not a project to fix.
- Choosing “enough” can be freeing without being unambitious.
🔗 Resources & Links:
- Listen to my episode on internal validation and self-worth: Internal Validation: How to Build Self-Worth When Praise Starts to Fade
- Connect with me on Instagram: @bethgoodrham
✨ Why Listen:
If you’ve ever felt pressured to strive, chase validation, or wait for “later” to enjoy life, this episode offers gentle, actionable insights to pause, question old beliefs, and rediscover the joy and presence that’s already around you.