Épisodes

  • A Lemonade Serenade
    Apr 6 2023

    "They say music can alter moods and talk to you." Which sets the stage perfectly for the season finale of Scars and Lemonade. In the finale Abi and Patrick take a deep dive into the music that surrounds us and shapes us (some of it being far more recent than others!) Is it an uplifting beat, a meaningful lyric, what is it that catches your ear and puts you in a good mood when you hear a particular song? Your wonderful hosts try and explain what reaches them while sharing songs and artists that have become part of their soundtrack of resilience and songs of optimism. Thanks for supporting the first season of Scars and Lemonade and we hope you enjoy the songs that have helped shape it!


    Please share this AMAZING podcast with anyone you've ever seen, talked to, or emailed... or at least someone you think could benefit from some laughter and positive vibes!


    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade


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    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com


    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)


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    41 min
  • A Refreshing Splash
    Mar 14 2023

    What does resilience look like? What about optimism? Join Pat and Abi as they travel back in time to conversations with Scars and Lemonade guests Bea, Grace Pineda, and Carolyn Colleen to get their answers to these important questions and more.

    Share this episode with your loved ones, your liked ones, and the ones you feel meh about!

    Grace’s IG: @egracepineda86

    Carolyn’s website: https://www.carolyncolleen.com/

    Carolyn’s IG: @carolyncolleen

    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade

    Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com

    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com

    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)

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    23 min
  • FIERCE Action with Carolyn Colleen
    Feb 28 2023

    Content Warning: Mentions of physical and sexual abuse, suicide attempt

    We’ve got a fierce episode coming at you this week! Our guest on the pod is Carolyn Colleen, the founder of the FIERCE network, a collective of resilience-building and empowerment services that help women on their life journeys. Carolyn shares her own scars and lemonade journey beginning with her challenging childhood (challenging is an understatement) in which she experienced abuse and neglect, and how it shaped her relationship with love and self-love. She shares how making changes and surviving then thriving for 5 minutes at a time and borrowing love helped her to break the cycle of abuse with her own children and go on to want to help other women by creating the FIERCE Network. She talks to Pat and Abi about the importance of making self-care a daily part of her routine, letting go of the need to do everything herself, and asking for help. They round out the episode with a 2-for-1 games sesh, playing A Slice of Hollywood and Lemonade Stand.

    Share this episode with your friends, your family, and your friends’ families!

    Carolyn’s website: https://www.carolyncolleen.com/

    Carolyn’s IG: @carolyncolleen

    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade

    Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com

    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com

    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)

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    1 h et 6 min
  • Underwhelmed, Overwhelmed, and Just, Like, Whelmed
    Feb 14 2023

    Happy Valentine’s Day…or whatever! In this Valentine’s episode, Pat and Abi profess their undying love for romantic comedies. In theory, this genre is the bond that ties this episode together, but like any good entry in the rom-com canon, it is full of obstacles trying to throw our central duo off course. In this particular set of shenanigans, it’s Abi and Pat getting pulled from movie tangent to pop culture tangent and back again while trying to make the case that the character arcs we know and love in the rom-com format are consistent with those of the stories shared by Scars and Lemonade guests. Both are full of resilience and glass-half-full optimism! So enjoy this outing full of the chaotic, screwball energy we love from all of our favourite rom-coms before they bring it all back on track for a warm and fuzzy ending dream casting their fantasy rom-coms.

    Share this episode with your Valentines, your nemeses, and your Uber driver or passenger!

    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade

    Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com

    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com

    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)

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    34 min
  • Food for the Soul with Grace Pineda
    Jan 31 2023

    This week’s Scars and Lemonade episode is coming to you from the middle of the polar vortex. Pat and Abi talk trying to stay warm and remaining optimistic when the temperature drops below -30C. (For American listeners, they tried to do the math and estimate that it’s the equivalent of -1000F. That can’t be right, can it?) This week’s guest is Grace - a chef, parent, and friend of the pod. She joins Abi and Pat to talk about her experience of growing up around family violence. She shares how that has impacted her relationships as an adult, what dating after a separation has been like for her, and how she is doing her best to not let generational trauma negatively impact her parenting. She shares with us her mental health journey of depression and anxiety, talks about therapy, and lets us know how she’s doing the continuous work of awareness, understanding, and self-compassion while learning the importance of asking for help. See if you can pick out the Lemon Seeds throughout the episode and be sure to listen until the end for this week’s game of Scars or Lemonade!

    Share this episode with your loved ones, your therapist, and the person working the front desk at your nearest community center!

    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade

    Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com

    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com

    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)

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    1 h et 14 min
  • A Journey, Not a Destination with Bea
    Jan 17 2023
    Scars and Lemonade returns this week with an episode that’s pure fire! This episode is coming at you with some big pop culture energy, so Pat and Abi challenge you to pick out all of the references. Amidst the Devon Sawa of it all (there’s your first pop culture freebie), they sit down with Bea to have a personal, engaging, candid conversation about substance abuse, body image, and recovery. Bea generously shares details about her recovery journey from the struggles of online meetings during the early days of the pandemic to finding the recovery model that works for her in order to be more aware, prepared, and compassionate as she moves through the world. She also talks to Abi and Pat about her catalyst for starting her recovery, mental health, self-care, and deciding who to share her stories with while being mindful of her audience and avoiding “trauma dumping”. Bea also lets us in on how she’ll share her experiences with her children when the time comes. And of course, they play Lemon Seeds throughout the episode and end their time with Bea by playing a new game, Lemonade Libs! Share this episode with your family, your friends, your pets, and the cashier at your local grocery store. Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)
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    52 min
  • Year-End Bonus
    Dec 20 2022

    This week’s Scars and Lemonade episode is all about year-end bonuses. Year-end bonus content, that is! We’re bringing you the bonus questions that we’ve been hyping up throughout the season. So sit back, relax and listen as we revisit time spent with Sarah Simpson, Myrna Scales, and Fatima C. Oliver to find out their answers to these three questions: What does resilience look like for you? What does optimism look like for you? What pop culture has resonated or provided a bright spot for you on your resiliency journey? We also play Two Truths and a Lie with each of our amazing guests. Enjoy, share this episode, kick back and relax, revisit Pat and Abi’s answers to these same questions from the A Fresh Squeeze episode, and just do you.

    Myrna’s YouTube Channel: Myrna Scales

    Myrna’s Instagram: @myrnascales

    Fatima’s Website: fatimac.com

    Fatima’s Instagram: @fatimaoliver1975

    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade

    Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com

    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com

    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)

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    28 min
  • Achille-ing This Game
    Dec 6 2022

    Compliments of the season to you! The Scars and Lemonade debut podcast season that is. In this episode, Patrick and Abi are taking some time to reflect on their podcast journey thus far. They talk about what they've learned from their first 3 guests on the pod, including how gratitude is helping Abi cope with her torn Achilles tendon, and express how grateful she is for Keanu Reeves. They discuss guilt as it relates to productivity and how they're trying to shift focus from being productive to being constructive for their mental health journeys. They also share what works in progress they're bringing to their resilience and optimism toolkits in 2023. While you're listening, see if you can pick out their Lemon Seeds words then stick around as they finish out the episode playing games. Send your ideas for their song lyrics game name and place your vote for their movie scene game!

    Follow Scars and Lemonade on Instagram: @scarsandlemonade

    Check out the podcast website: www.scarsandlemonade.com

    Email us: scarsandlemonade@gmail.com

    Scars and Lemonade music by Evan Dysart (Dysaart on Spotify and Bandcamp)

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    36 min