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  • Ep.5 Reasons for Transgressions
    Dec 20 2019
    Episode 5 – Reasons for Transgressions In Episode 5, Dr Wendy McIntosh PhD, from Davaar Consultancy recounts a Professional Boundaries scenario about a Police officer in a small town and the various events that led to his transgressions. You’ll hear how, in hindsight, it was clear that unresolved issues from his own history left him at risk of this particular boundary violation. Learn about how taking a candid look at our own history might give us hints about Red Flags warning us of likely vulnerabilities before problems transpire. Wendy also discusses Consistency or the lack of it, a particularly powerful Red Flag that usually deserves our immediate attention. This is the fifth part of a dialogue that be will be continued in the following episodes. Use the links above to subscribe, or click the play button to listen. There are 6 episodes planned in this first season of the Professional Boundaries Podcast and we hope you’ll be back to enjoy and learn from each of them. If you’ve ever wondered about your own boundaries in your Professional role, or been alerted about the risks of crossings or violations, this podcast will help you learn what to watch for, and ways to stay out the danger zones. Dr Wendy McIntosh welcomes both your interest and curiosity. Send Wendy questions at wendy@davaar.com.au or via Twitter, Instagram or Linked In In this podcast series, Dr Wendy McIntosh PhD shares insights and strategies about developing and maintaining professional boundaries. Professional Boundaries are not limited to the clinical or therapeutic arena. If you are in a professional role – a teacher, support worker, police officer, a prison officer, council worker, hairdresser. If you are a volunteer or belong to a theatre group, a choir, a sports club, there will be something in this podcast for you and the relationships you have with others. Setting boundaries in our life is necessary for our emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical well being. Setting boundaries is about our safety. Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD Since 2005 Wendy has been developing her knowledge and interest in the area of professional boundaries. Wendy delivers workshops on boundaries in Australia (where she now lives) and Internationally when invited to do so. She is continually integrating learning and insights she gains from the work she does in professional boundaries. Wendy comes from a nursing, and predominately psychiatric nursing, background. Wendy consistently receives feedback on her passion, knowledge, and creativity as a presenter and facilitator. Enjoy exploring boundaries in this podcast series as Wendy takes you on your own reflective journey on your professional boundaries. References: Sir Walter Scott Quote – https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12678303 https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/intrapsychic Thomas Gutheil, (1989). Borderline personality disorder, boundary violations and patient-therapist sex: Medico-legal pitfalls. American Journal of Psychiatry, 146, 597-602. The Drama Triangle – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_XSeUYa0-8 Recommended reading on Transference King, R.,& O’Brien. T. (2011). Transference and countertransference: Opportunities and risks as two technical constructs migrate beyond their psychoanalytic homeland. Psychotherapy in Australia, 17 (4), 12-17. Music clips in this podcast: “Lightless Dawn” by Kevin McLeod (Found at http://FreePD.com) & “Pond” by Rafael Kruz ((Found at http://FreePD.com Artist- https://www.orchestralis.net/) License: CC 0 BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/) Transcript: Podcast Five – Reasons for transgressions According to Aristotle – “All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion, desire.” Scenario He was a police officer, recently graduated from the police academy. As a child, he had witnessed and experienced domestic violence from his father to his mother. As a young child, he wished that he could have done something to stop the violence. He had hopes that someday his father would have an accident, an injury or would die so that he never came home again. As a young officer he accepted a posting to a rural and remote area, he was glad to leave the city behind. Glad to leave his trauma behind. His father was no longer alive he had died whilst driving home one night under the influence of alcohol. He assessed that his mother would be ok without him being there, they had regular phone contact and he always felt reassured at the end of the phone calls. He was a few weeks into his positing and he was enjoying his new role. He was taking some time to establish a network of friends. He was the only officer in the village, his colleagues operated out of the main station which was 50 kilometres away. One night he received an emergency call to attend a domestic disturbance in the village. He knew the address, he had met the young woman who lived there and he liked her....
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    1 h
  • Ep.6 Strategies to Set and Repair Boundaries
    Feb 19 2020
    Episode 6 – Strategies to Set and to Repair Professional Boundaries In Episode 6, Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD, from Davaar Consultancy, shares a Professional Boundaries scenario set in a child care centre. Although the lure of becoming friendly with the parents of the children who are cared for each day is attractive, it can be a pattern that can be tricky to reverse. Wendy describes steps to remedy this awkward situation and some hints on ways to help refocus the attention back on the customer and their child, rather than the staff member’s family. Also discussed are strategies for establishing better boundaries in collegial relationships, and how it’s important that front office staff also exhibit a unified boundaries front. This is the final episode of Season One, and rounds up our first season of the Professional Boundaries Podcast. Use the links above to subscribe, or click the play button to listen. Get access to all episodes here. Stay tuned for the Season Two, coming soon. There are 6 episodes in this first season of the Professional Boundaries Podcast and we hope you’ll both enjoy and learn from each of them. If you’ve ever wondered about your own boundaries in your Professional role, or been alerted about the risks of crossings or violations, this podcast will help you learn what to watch for, and ways to stay out the danger zones. Dr. Wendy McIntosh welcomes both your interest and curiosity. Send Wendy questions at wendy@davaar.com.au or via Twitter, Instagram or Linked In In this podcast series, Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD shares insights and strategies about developing and maintaining professional boundaries. Professional Boundaries are not limited to the clinical or therapeutic arena. If you are in a professional role – a nurse, a teacher, support worker, doctor, police officer, a prison officer, council worker, healthcare worker, or hairdresser. If you are a volunteer or belong to a theatre group, a choir, a sports club, there will be something in this podcast for you and the relationships you have with others. Setting boundaries in our life is necessary for our emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical well being. Setting boundaries is about our safety. Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD Since 2005 Wendy has been developing her knowledge and interest in the area of professional boundaries. Wendy delivers workshops on boundaries in Australia (where she now lives) and Internationally when invited to do so. She is continually integrating learning and insights she gains from the work she does in professional boundaries. Wendy comes from a nursing, and predominately psychiatric nursing, background. Wendy consistently receives feedback on her passion, knowledge, and creativity as a presenter and facilitator. Enjoy exploring boundaries in this podcast series as Wendy takes you on your own reflective journey on your professional boundaries. References Alaric Hutchinson – https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/present-moment Brooke Deterline – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzicXbnmllc- Adam Fraser – The third space – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpk_dssZXqs Cambridge Dictionary – https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/recalibrate Music clips in this podcast: “Arcadia” by Kevin McLeod (Found at http://incompetech.com) & Savannah Sketch” ” by Kevin McLeod (Found at http://incompetech.com) License: CC 0 BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/) Transcript: Podcast Six – Strategies for Setting and Repairing Boundaries Scenario She worked with children at a child care centre. She had been used to sharing details of her own family including information about her children with parents whose children attended the centre where she worked. Initially, she had thought nothing about this self-disclosure. She assessed that sharing information about herself and her children assisted the parents to feel comfortable about leaving their children in her care. However, she had become aware that she was uncomfortable about sharing such intimate information with some parents. Being curious about this, she started to question her actions. She read about professional boundaries and discussed questions she had about her self disclosure with friends. With greater awareness and appreciation about boundaries, her concern grew about the patterns of interactions she had established in her relationships with the parents at the centre. She experienced increased discomfort with parents who would start each day asking her about her children. She realised that the focus had become about her and her children – the roles had reversed. She wanted to create greater separation between her home and work. She wanted to be able to leave her children at home where they belonged not in her workplace. How could she protect them, when she had been so disclosing of their experiences growing up. She felt a pang of disquiet that she had transgressed her children’s rights to confidentiality ...
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    46 min
  • SPECIAL EPISODE – Boundaries and COVID-19
    Apr 6 2020
    SPECIAL EPISODE – Boundaries and COVID-19 It’s April 2020 and the world is in the grip of a global pandemic. During this trying time, each of us needs help navigating this crisis. In this special episode Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD, from Davaar Consultancy, discusses tapping into your support networks, the pressures of being at work during the COVID-19 pandemic, and the immense challenges of maintaining safe Professional Boundaries when we’re all operating under additional pressures. Wendy also talks about the stresses of working from home, teaches us how to use Box Breathing to get some relief, and how to use The Third Space model to use the shift between work and home to find a little peace, even when work and home are in the same location. Use the links to the right to subscribe in your favourite Podcast app, or click the play button to listen. Visit our Podcast page to see all episodes. We hope you’ll enjoy our Professional Boundaries Podcast and learn from each episode. If you’ve ever wondered about your own boundaries in your Professional role, or been alerted about the risks of crossings or violations, this podcast will help you learn what to watch for, and ways to stay out the danger zones. Dr. Wendy McIntosh welcomes both your interest and curiosity. Send Wendy questions at wendy@davaar.com.au or via Twitter, Instagram or Linked In In this podcast series, Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD shares insights and strategies about developing and maintaining professional boundaries. Professional Boundaries are not limited to the clinical or therapeutic arena. If you are in a professional role – a nurse, a teacher, support worker, doctor, police officer, a prison officer, council worker, healthcare worker, or hairdresser. If you are a volunteer or belong to a theatre group, a choir, a sports club, there will be something in this podcast for you and the relationships you have with others. Setting boundaries in our life is necessary for our emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical well being. Setting boundaries is about our safety. Dr. Wendy McIntosh PhD Since 2005 Wendy has been developing her knowledge and interest in the area of professional boundaries. Wendy delivers workshops on boundaries in Australia (where she now lives) and internationally when invited to do so. She is continually integrating learning and insights she gains from the work she does in professional boundaries. Wendy comes from a nursing, and predominately psychiatric nursing, background. Wendy consistently receives feedback on her passion, knowledge, and creativity as a presenter and facilitator. Enjoy exploring boundaries in this podcast series as Wendy takes you on your own reflective journey on your professional boundaries. Music clips in this podcast: Easy Lemon by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3697-easy-lemon License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ References: Dr. Adam Fraser: The Third Space TED Talks: Kelly McGonigal – Make Stress Your Friend Box breathing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJJazKtH_9I WHO on Twitter: https://twitter.com/WHO?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor ICN on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ICNurses?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Transcript: Special Episode – Boundaries and COVID-19 Hello to all our listeners, wherever you are in the world. Welcome to this special boundaries podcast – boundaries and Covid 19. My first message is that I trust you, your loved ones, colleagues and friends are staying safe. As safe as you can be in this rapidly changing scenario that our world and peoples of the world are currently experiencing. I never in a million years envisaged that I would do an episode on professional boundaries and viruses, yet here I am. You would be correct to wonder – really Wendy where are you going with this one? Boundaries and virus that’s a new one. True there is so much “new” happening in the world just now. I will trust that whatever emerges from my writing for this episode is what is required to be shared. My purpose for this episode is not to discuss the realities that are Covid 19. Information and updates on Covid 19 are well covered in much detail through many sites including media, government and health sites (country, state and territory specific), professional group sites and the World Health Organisation sites. It is good to find a couple of reliable sources that you trust for those updates. I follow twitter leads for the WHO and the International Council of Nurses – the ICN. I have given links to those two organisations at the end of the transcript of this episode. Transcripts for all our podcasts are available on our website: www.davaar.com.au No, my purpose for this episode is to yarn with you about boundaries during this current climate. Specifically, I will interweave my ideas about the potential for increased risk of transgressions (over and under involvement) during...
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    39 min