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Situationships: the space between "what are we?" and "I guess we're something." In this episode, we're diving headfirst into the gray area. We're talking about what a situationship really is, why some people love them, why they can feel so safe and exciting, and the very real reasons they usually fall apart. We're sharing our own experiences, the confusion, the heartbreak, and the accountability that comes with choosing vibes over titles. Do we actually like situationships? Or are they just emotional limbo dressed up as "go with the flow"? Grab a drink and let's unpack it all.

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Dating is not what it used to be -

In this episode of The Four O'Clock Pour, we're breaking down all things dating and how it's evolved over the years. From meeting people "outside" to sliding in DMs, dating apps, and social media doing the absolute most, we're unpacking what modern dating really looks like.

We get into the unspoken rules of dating- texting back too fast (or not fast enough), who should pay for the date, and how social media has completely changed the way we communicate, connect, and sometimes confuse each other.

If you've ever wondered:

- Are there dating rules?

- Does texting back too fast really matter?

- Who should be paying for the date in 2025?

- Is social media helping or hurting dating?

This episode is for you. Pull up, pour something cute, and let's talk about dating in this wild era.

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As the year comes to a close, we're pouring one last glass for 2025. In this episode of The Four O'Clock Pour, we reflect on the highs, the lessons, the unexpected plot twists, and the growth that shaped our year. From love and friendship to motherhood, work, and everything in between, we're talking honestly about what 2025 taught us - the good, the hard, and the moments that changed us.

We also get real about what we're leaving behind as we step into a new chapter. And of course, we end the episode looking ahead to 2026 - what we're manifesting, what we're carrying forward.

Consider this our end-of-year happy hour: reflective, healing, a little funny, and full of intention. Pull up, pour something good, and let's close out the year together.

Cheers to growth, clarity, and what's next!

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Is it really Christmas if you are not trying to convince yourself you won't overspend? This week on The Four O'Clock Pour Podcast, we're unpacking the holiday delusions we all fall into in honor of Christmas. From swearing we'll stick to a budget (and immediately breaking it), to navigating gift-giving expectations, traditions old and new, and the very real question: what kind of gift giver are you?

Are you practical- necessity items only- or do you lean into the magic with all the glitter, surprises, and vibes? Nothing was off the table as we poured into how we "Christmas" at work, the pressure to show up festive on the clock, and the unspoken rules of office holiday cheer.

Pour up, laugh with us, and see just how delusional (or disciplined) your holiday season really is.

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Holiday gatherings: where the food is good (supposedly), the vibes are questionable, and somebody always has questions they shouldn't be asking.

In this episode, we're pouring into all the holiday chaos- from family drama that starts before dessert, to that one person who won't stop asking about your relationship status, kids, or "what's next."

We talk surviving awkward conversations, dodging intrusive questions, and keeping your peace when the holidays come with side-eyes, unsolicited advice, and messy group chats. Because the holidays are supposed to be about joy... not defending your life choices over a plate of mac and cheese.

Grab your drink and join us for a much-needed holiday vent session.

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Tune in as we discuss the time we had at Classic Weekend in Orlando, Florida! From the car ride, to the events, to the drinks, to Ki being trampled, to Chanel being drugged (for fake) in the club! Classic Weekend: 1, The Four O' Clock Pour: 0.

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In this pour, we're talking about representatives- you know, that version of yourself you present when dating someone new.

But is showing up as your representative a red flag.. or just human? We're breaking down whether it's better to lay everything on the table from day one or whether some things should be revealed only when they're earned.

We also get into the truth nobody likes to admit: sometimes when people change after six months, it's not because they were being fake-it's because the dynamic shifted. They got comfortable. The relationship shifted into real life. And comfort doesn't always mean deception.

Join us as we sip and spill on first impressions, emotional pacing, when to open up, and how to show up authentically without oversharing.

If you've ever wondered, "Was that their representative... or just their honeymoon phase?" - this pour is for you.

Hey Sis! Tell us what you think.

Let's be real- a lot of us have been there- Staying in situations that no longer serve us because we're scared of starting over, too deep in to walk away, or holding on to potential that never quite shows up.

In this pour, we're getting into why women settle- from the fear of being alone, to the time we've invested, to believing someone's potential over their reality.

But most importantly, we're talking about how to stop settling: by choosing yourself first, taking accountability for the times you ignored the signs, and doing better moving forward. Because when a red flag shows up red... believe it the first time.

Grab your glass and tune in as we sip, spill, and remind you that peace is worth more than potential.