In this powerful episode of Man Talk, Real Talk, Iliad Pirasteh shares his remarkable story of resilience, transformation, and success. Discover how he overcame life’s darkest moments and built a thriving property portfolio and community impact that now inspires men to redefine their futures.

Key Topics

• Iliad’s childhood in Tehran and early influences
• The contrasting paths of career: shop owner vs. university graduate
• The childhood lessons of serving others first and respect
• The pivotal moment in Iran that sparked his ambitions
• The emotional low point in 2014 and its life-changing impact
• His decision to migrate to the UK at age 28
• The power of mindset shift: from scarcity to abundance
• The importance of community, education, and self-investment
• Creating value and giving back: future goals including community projects
• Maintaining a strong marriage through growth and mutual support
• Practical advice for men facing similar struggles

Resources & Links

Illiad Pirasteh

Evergrow Assets – https://www.evergrowassetspropertymanagement.co.uk/

Iliad Pirasteh – https://www.instagram.com/iliadpirasteh?igsh=MWV1ZzFhNXhnd3Q1OQ==

Audiobooks – Leverage listening for personal development

Des Morant

https://www.instagram.com/desmorantofficial?utm_source=qr&igsh=dXpxMjhiZGUxOXZk

https://www.tiktok.com/@desmondmorant?_r=1&_t=ZN-97Atj2VBVpe

www.youtube.com/@mantalkrealtalk

Email - des@mastermindacademy.co.uk

Final Message from Iliad

"Change your perspective, focus on adding value, and take control of your future. Remember, you are not alone in your journey, and your next breakthrough often begins with a decision to act."

Time Stamp

| 0:00 | Breaking free from financial bondage (existing) |

| 0:37 | Meet Iliad Pirasteh |

| 3:27 | Growing Up in Tehran |

| 5:55 | Two Paths: University or the Market? |

| 9:31 | The Uncle Who Inspired Him |

| 10:36 | Seeds of Ambition |

| 14:42 | Rock Bottom: £8.57 in the Bank |

| 15:46 | A New Life & a Harsh Reality |

| 18:26 | The Conference That Changed Everything |

| 21:26 | Going All In |

| 23:06 | Value Over Money |

| 24:46 | Building a Legacy |

| 27:09 | 16 Years of Marriage |

| 30:30 | Growing Together |

| 32:36 | Quick Fire Round |

| 35:45 | Connect with Iliad |

In this inspiring episode, Patrick Onyido shares his remarkable journey from childhood in Nigeria, overcoming adversity, prison, and challenges, to building a flourishing bakery business in London. His story exemplifies resilience, passion, and the power of mindset in transforming life's obstacles into opportunities.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• How a teacher's mentorship and the "circle of influence" shaped Patrick’s mindset
• The influence of prison experiences on his mental strength and business approach
• The origins and meaning behind Paddy Cakes, and its journey from a dream to a thriving company
• The importance of passion, authenticity, and flavor in creating standout cakes
• Practical advice for men facing adversity: resilience, focus, and staying true to your purpose
• The role of family, roots, and cultural influence in shaping his identity and business
• The significance of visualization and trusting the journey, even in uncertain times
• His message on overcoming stereotypes and redefining what it means to be a successful male baker

Timestamps:

• (00:00) - Introduction to Patrick Onido, the man behind Paddy Cakes
• (02:25) - The "circle of influence" and mindset for success
• (05:23) - Building flavors and creating a journey in baking
• (08:12) - Life lessons from family and early struggles
• (16:17) - The story of Paddy Cakes' inception and vision
• (22:42) - Overcoming stereotypes as a male baker and entrepreneur
• (28:18) - Navigating prison with purpose and mental resilience
• (36:32) - Lessons learned from incarceration and their impact on business
• (42:38) - The influence of mentors and role models in his life
• (57:27) - How adversity shaped his business growth
• (63:08) - The importance of faith, purpose, and staying motivated
• (70:46) - Encouragement to stay confident and relentless
• (77:23) - Quick fire questions: favorites and fun facts
• (83:55) - Connecting with Patrick and his future plans

Connect with Patrick Onyido

• Website
• Instagram | Paddy Cakes

Connect with Des Morant:

• website
• email: des@mastermindacademy.co.uk
• Instagram
• Tik Tok

Final thoughts:

Patrick's story is a testament to the power of mindset, perseverance, and authentic passion. His journey reminds us all that no matter the obstacles, with clarity of purpose and unwavering belief, success is within reach. Men out there facing their own battles – your breakthrough could be just a mindset shift away. Keep pushing, stay true to your purpose, and never underestimate the power of your story.

In this powerful Movember special, Leroy Harley joins Man Talk Real Talk to break open the real state of men’s mental health in the UK. With the government announcing new investment into male-focused mental health services, this episode asks the big question: Will the funding finally reach the men who need it most?

Leroy dives into the stigma, the silence, and the societal pressures that keep men from speaking up. From suicide prevention to support networks, fatherhood, community, and identity — this is the conversation every man needs to hear, and every woman should understand.

If you care about men’s wellbeing, national mental health reform, and the future of male mental health support, this episode is unmissable.

“If you’re a man who wants better for yourself or if you love a man who’s struggling listen to this episode. Man Talk Real Talk is where real men change the narrative.”

To continue the theme of black history month 🔥🔥 In this engaging conversation, Asari St. Hill shares his insights on the importance of fatherhood and community involvement. He discusses the impact of being present in children's lives, the role of fathers in shaping self-esteem, and the significance of building strong family and community ties. Asari emphasizes the need for positive role models and the power of encouragement in personal development.

Takeaways

- Being present in children's lives is crucial for their development

- Fathers play a significant role in shaping a child's self-esteem

- Building strong family and community ties is essential for personal growth

- Positive role models can have a lasting impact on young people.

- Encouragement and support are key to personal development

- The importance of addressing and overcoming past traumas

- The value of open communication and emotional expression

- The need for responsible parenting and relationship choices

- The impact of societal changes on family dynamics

- The power of love and affection in nurturing children

“What if your greatest hurt could become the start of your healing?” 🌱 Michael Kwakwa reveals his powerful H.E.A.L. framework to help you transform pain into purpose.

Part 2: concludes Michael's practical guide to move from pain to purpose and create lasting change. Learn how to reset, rebuild, and rise stronger with tools you can apply right now.

✨ What you’ll take away:

The meaning behind the H.E.A.L. framework

How to shift from surviving to thriving

Simple steps to apply healing and growth daily

Michael’s insight on breaking free from limiting patterns

Get ready to move from hurt to healing—and step into lasting transformation.

🚀🎙 SEASON 2

New Season. Same Purpose. Bigger Impact.

As we celebrate Black History Month, we’re spotlighting voices that inspire change, challenge mindsets, and build legacy. 🖤💛💚

Tap in and be part of the conversation.

Thank you for being part of the journey — bigger things are coming! 🙌🔥

“What if your greatest hurt could become the start of your healing?” 🌱 Michael Kwakwa reveals his powerful H.E.A.L. framework to help you transform pain into purpose.

It's a practical guide to move from pain to purpose and create lasting change. Learn how to reset, rebuild, and rise stronger with tools you can apply right now.

✨ What you’ll take away:

The meaning behind the H.E.A.L. framework

How to shift from surviving to thriving

Simple steps to apply healing and growth daily

Michael’s insight on breaking free from limiting patterns

Get ready to move from hurt to healing—and step into lasting transformation.

#HEALFramework #MindsetMatters #LevelUpYourLife #GrowthMindset #BreakthroughJourney #HealingToThriving #UnlockYourPotential #TransformationTalk #InnerStrength #NextLevelYou

In this recap special, we rewind to the roots of Man Talk Real Talk and spotlight powerful lessons from the early episodes. Packed with wisdom and energy, it’s the perfect chance to revisit the foundations that spark lasting growth and transformation.

Finding Strength in Vulnerability a candid conversation with Conor Lynch, the Working Men's Coach. Learn how nutrition fuels both life and business with Leon Morant.

Key Takeaways:

Real change begins with understanding your inner world.

The right fuel for your body can drive success in business and life.

Clear goals create focus, direction, and unstoppable momentum.

#ManTalkRealTalk #FoundationsForChange #MindsetShift #AuthenticityMatters #PositiveChange

In this special recap episode, we take you back through the highlights of the first three episodes of Man Talk Real Talk. It’s a chance to reflect, revisit, and reabsorb the powerful lessons that kicked off the journey.

00:33 ✨ Episode 1: Why Authenticity is important with Des and Jeff

10:49 ✨ Episode 2: Mindset that moves you. With Success coach Paul Becque

25:37 ✨ Episode 3: Say it right. Mastering communication coach with Reece Morant

🎙 Whether you’re catching up or tuning in again, this recap pulls together the wisdom, energy, and real talk that set the foundation for everything to come.