Ever look at your life and think, “Everything is working… but I don’t feel good”?
That’s not failure — it’s misalignment. Let’s fix it fast.

In this episode of Just Human, Jay Boykin talks with Nell Derick Debevoise Dewey (Nell3D), author of Going First, about how high performers can feel empty even with the title, money, and momentum. Nell shares her powerful story (including a wake-up-call car crash) and introduces a simple framework to diagnose what’s off — without blowing up your whole life.

You’ll learn Nell’s Lead in 3D model (ME / WE / WORLD) and how it connects to purpose, wellbeing, relationships, and integrity. Then she breaks down her systematic subtraction approach: Stop, Drop, Roll — a practical way to create capacity, reclaim autonomy, and rebuild energy in a nonstop world.

If this helped you, like, subscribe, and comment: Which dimension is lowest for you — ME, WE, or WORLD?


CONNECT WITH NELL 3D
SUBSTACK: https://nell3d.substack.com/guestpass
LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nell3d/
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/nelldd/

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What do you do with an idea when you don’t feel ready?
What do you do when the only honest words are: “I’m trying”?

In this episode of Just Human, Jay Boykin sits down with #1 New York Times bestselling author Kobi Yamada (President & CEO of Compendium Inc.) to talk about why his books look like children’s books… but land in a much deeper place for adults. If you’re building a business, leading a team, or wrestling with self-doubt, this conversation will hit you right in the chest—in the best way.

Kobi shares how picture books can speak to both kids and adults, why our inner critic makes problems feel like identity threats, and how fear quietly blocks creativity, chances, and momentum. He also breaks down the role of mentorship, the power of leaving “space” for the reader, and why creativity is birthed in boredom—something modern scrolling is stealing from us.

👍 If this helped you, like, subscribe, and comment: Idea / Problem / Chance / Trying — which one are you living right now?

Connect with Kobi Yamada

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stories/livethegoodstuff/

Shop: https://live-inspired.com/

Kobi Yamada | Penguin Random House
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/2338428/kobi-yamada/


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Most leaders think leadership means being first: first to speak, first to decide, first to act.
But what if the move that changes your culture isn’t being louder… it’s being later?

In this episode of Just Human, Jay Boykin sits down with U.S. Marine Corps Major Olaolu Ogunyemi, author of Lead Last, to unpack a leadership philosophy that flips the script: “He who leads last leads best.”

You’ll hear how Olaolu learned leadership through real-world responsibility—walking into his first role in charge of 80 Marines—and why humility is often the missing ingredient in high-performing teams. We dive into why self-awareness for leaders is the starting point, how to build trust like an emotional bank account, and the most common “withdrawals” leaders make without realizing it—like not listening.

We also explore the difference between a well-intended open door policy and why it can fail in practice, plus what it really takes to mentor emerging leaders, prepare the next generation, and leave a legacy that’s bigger than a title.

If you lead people (or want to), this conversation will challenge you—in the best way.

Connect with Olaolu Ogunyemi
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olaolu.ogunyemi/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olaolu-ogunyemi-465ba453/
Website: https://parent-child-connect.com/