Tricia Rose Stone presents episode three of the Empowered Vision Series, focusing on visualization as a deliberate, trainable, science-backed skill rather than wishful thinking.

Inspired by Maya Raichoora’s book Visualize and supported by ideas she cites from Joe Dispenza, she explains that the predictive brain can’t easily distinguish vividly imagined experiences from real ones, making anxiety a form of unconscious negative visualization, and that deliberate visualization can create new mental patterns.

She shares personal examples of manifesting her husband after 7 months of focused visualization, and of manifesting an optometry practice in Boston after recognizing the city and finding a practice one block from a park she’d stayed near. She outlines outcome, process, and creative visualization, recommends a daily “ideal day” rehearsal, emphasizes small, consistent practice, self-belief, and writing down bold visions.

00:00 Series Setup

01:06 Why Visualization Works

02:42 Brain Prediction Patterns

05:32 Anxiety as Visualization

07:30 Athletes Proven Rehearsal

08:32 Manifesting True Love

13:25 Three Visualization Types

18:56 Boston Practice Manifestation

24:09 Daily Ideal Day Routine

27:34 Self-Belief Matters

29:53 Weekly Takeaways Outro

On “Her New Lens,” Tricia interviews Xanet, a sex and intimacy educator, coach, and author (and former healthcare lawyer/executive) who spent 26 years in a sexless marriage, left at 50, and then began a 15-year career helping individuals and couples rebuild connection.

They discuss how emotional safety underpins desire—especially for women—and how lack of safety, trauma, shame, and disconnection from the body can shut down libido, while men may feel emotionally safe after sex, creating a common mismatch.

Xanet explains what safety feels like (being heard without judgment or fixing), emphasizes that intimacy and sex are learnable skills, and highlights conflict repair as key to long-term relationships.

They address menopause and libido myths, noting bad or performative sex and “obligation sex,” and describe how new relationship energy can revive desire at any age.

Xanet shares guidance for singles on examining patterns and red flags, and introduces her books, “The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit” and “Living an Orgasmic Life,” offering lenses of pleasure and vulnerability.

00:00 Welcome and Setup

00:28 Meet Xanet

02:13 Her Turning Point

06:08 Safety Drives Desire

09:03 Men vs Women Safety

11:16 What Safety Feels Like

13:28 Intimacy Skills Learned

16:38 Menopause Desire Myths

17:15 Bad Sex and Obligation

19:06 Long Term Connection

20:21 Attunement Equals Safety

21:15 Attachment Wounds Explained

22:09 Preparing for New Love

25:09 Patterns and Red Flags

27:37 Relationships as Healing

28:39 Pressure to Pick Right

30:15 Healing Takes Time

31:43 Inside the New Book

34:06 Two Lenses to Try

36:37 Final Reflections

Tricia Rose Stone introduces season three of “Her New Lens,” titled “Empowered Vision,” and explains that the work begins before goals or vision boards with updating self-image—what you believe you deserve and what’s possible for a woman like you—drawing on Maxwell Maltz’s “Psycho-Cybernetics.” She contrasts “I’ll believe it when I see it” with Wayne Dyer’s “you’ll see it when you believe it,” arguing that proof follows an inner decision and that circumstances can’t outpace self-image, illustrated with examples from La La Land, Love Actually, and lottery winners. Stone shares her own journey from divorce and single motherhood to meeting her husband at 44 after years of visualization and identity work, and outlines three practices: an identity audit of inherited beliefs, a future-self letter, and seven days of daily mental rehearsal, drawing on neuroscience that shows vividly imagined experiences shape the nervous system.

00:00 Season Premiere Setup

00:38 Vision Before Goals

03:41 Believe Then See

07:15 Movie Proof Lala Land

09:32 Self Image Creates Life

11:22 Maxwell Maltz Explained

12:47 Why We Can't Hold It

15:17 Deposits Into Identity

17:10 Visualization Neuroscience

19:14 Inherited Beliefs Lens

21:51 Self Image Changes

23:53 Her Story: Divorce To Love

27:24 Decide To See Beyond

31:12 No Permission Needed

32:02 Three Practical Exercises

36:03 Wrap Up And Next Week

As this season comes to a close, there is a question quietly waiting beneath everything we’ve explored:

What lens will you choose now?

Throughout this season of Her New Lens, we’ve looked at the beliefs we inherit, the patterns we repeat, and the ways our past experiences shape how we see love, identity, success, and possibility.

But awareness alone is not the transformation.

Transformation begins the moment you realize that the lens you’ve been looking through is not fixed — and that a different way of seeing has always been available to you.

In this season finale, we step back and gather the deeper thread connecting these conversations:

how perception shapes emotional experience…

how identity shifts when we question old prescriptions…

and how choosing a new lens can quietly change the direction of a life.

We explore:

• why many of the lenses we live through were never consciously chosen

• how attachment patterns, past experiences, and unconscious beliefs influence what feels possible

• why clarity often arrives gradually, not dramatically

• how small internal shifts create meaningful external change

• what it means to begin seeing yourself — and your life — through a lens of possibility rather than limitation

You may find that nothing outside of you has changed — and yet everything feels different.

Because the moment the lens shifts, the landscape does too.

If this season has resonated, this episode offers a space to reflect, integrate, and choose how you want to move forward.

The lens you choose now becomes the life you begin to live.

The script uses an optometry exam as a metaphor for how people live with “inherited” psychological lenses—beliefs about worth, relationships, and desire formed early in life from the emotional climate of the home and cultural expectations.

Drawing on attachment theory (internal working models; Bowlby and Ainsworth), it explains that these prescriptions were absorbed before we could question them and become the default way we interpret life. The speaker shares her own lens shaped by parental addiction, abandonment, fear, instability, and feeling responsible for others’ emotions, and describes how her divorce revealed long-held expectations about marriage.

She outlines emotional effects of wrong prescriptions (self-doubt, people-pleasing, fear of visibility, imposter syndrome) and introduces the “New Lens method” to identify beliefs, trace origins, test usefulness, and write a truer lens, ending with five reflection questions.

00:00 The Lens Clicks In

01:13 The Prescription You Inherited

02:04 Where Our Lenses Come From

03:33 The Science Behind It

05:09 My Inherited Blueprint

09:09 When My Lens Broke

11:48 Symptoms of Wrong Lenses

13:54 The New Lens Method

15:52 Five Reflection Questions

16:45 Seeing Life Clearly Again

17:18 Closing and Next Steps

If you’ve ever wondered why some relationships feel easy while others feel confusing, tense, or emotionally draining, this conversation may change how you see them entirely.

In this episode of Her New Lens, we explore how misunderstanding — not incompatibility — often sits at the heart of relationship tension. Together, we look at difference through a softer lens, moving beyond labels and into deeper awareness, compassion, and connection.

We talk about why we so quickly make meaning out of behavior, how easily we take things personally, and what begins to shift when we understand how differently people move through the world. Because often what feels like resistance is simply a misunderstanding.

This conversation with Marita Littauer offers a calmer, more spacious way to understand conflict — not by changing others, but by changing how we see.

If you take one thing from this episode, let it be this:

👉 The people in your life are not difficult. They are different.

Learn about Marita Littauer here.

00:00 Origins of Personality Work

02:05 Identity and Baggage

03:38 Finding Your True Self

05:23 Types and Color Wheel

06:48 Words and Definitions

08:23 Using Type for Growth

12:01 Strengths Not Excuses

14:02 Marriage and Opposites

18:53 Reading People Without Tests

24:23 Do Personalities Change

25:28 Applying Your Type Today

28:20 A New Lens for Peace

32:21 Closing Takeaway

Tricia Rose Stone discusses a viral video of Punch, an abandoned baby monkey clinging to a stuffed animal, to explore how humans seek secure attachment rather than just love. She explains why secure love can feel unfamiliar or “boring” to people conditioned to equate love with emotional intensity, noting that nervous systems may associate uncertainty and stress with attraction. Drawing on attachment theory research by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth’s “Strange Situation,” she outlines secure, anxious, and avoidant patterns and how early bonding becomes a lifelong blueprint. She contrasts dopamine-driven romantic highs with oxytocin-based bonding in secure relationships, describes markers of secure attachment (safety, consistency, curiosity, repair), shares her own history of avoidant partners and family alcoholism, and emphasizes that neuroplasticity and inner work can shift attachment toward security.

00:00 Punch and Attachment

01:42 Why Secure Feels Boring

04:17 Familiarity and Nervous System

05:54 Attachment Theory Basics

09:23 Stress Mistaken for Love

11:37 Signs of Secure Attachment

13:21 Tricia Personal Story

16:00 Healing and Neuroplasticity

17:17 Reflection Questions

19:19 Closing New Lens

Host Tricia Rose Stone welcomes June Edward, a bestselling author, psychic medium, and creator of the Relationship Mastery Program, to discuss how shifting inner perception influences relationships. June explains that relationships are chosen before birth for soul lessons and can be romantic or non-romantic, with patterns repeating until the lesson is understood. She describes energy as vibration and says people attract partners on the same “frequency,” advising singles not to chase relationships but to raise their vibration to attract healthier connections. Drawing on her near-death experience, June emphasizes that fear blocks connection to the soul and states that love is the highest vibration and never dies. She outlines how karma and love intersect, describing karmic relationships as uncomfortable and lesson-driven and soulmate relationships as supportive and not necessarily ending once lessons are learned; people can have multiple karmic and soulmate relationships simultaneously, including within family. June recommends proper meditation (20 minutes, three times a day) to connect to intuition and offers instructions via email. She also shares a couples tip from her program: during conflict, avoid triggering questions and instead mirror the partner and use open-ended statements. The episode closes with a suggested “lens of happiness,” noting that happiness and laughter raise vibration, and directs listeners to juneedward.com and triciarosestone.com for further resources.

00:00 Welcome to Her New Lens

01:12 Meet June Edward

01:39 Relationships Are Chosen

03:15 Stop Repeating Patterns

04:41 Attract Dont Chase

05:43 Heal Your Vibration

07:18 Near Death Insights

08:25 Love Karma Explained

10:38 Karmic vs Soulmate

12:28 Meditation For Intuition

13:37 Dream Visits From Beyond

14:20 Relationship Mastery Tools

16:01 Mastery And Self Power

17:18 Love Never Dies

20:01 Lens Of Happiness

21:07 Closing And Next Steps