In this unfiltered episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey dive into some of the biggest misconceptions, myths, and home remedies circulating in the HS community — especially those that impact men. From the false belief that HS is caused by weight, to the widespread (and damaging) idea that HS only affects women, the guys break down what the science actually says and share real-life experiences of living with HS as men.

They also tackle home remedies head-on — the helpful, the questionable, and the downright wild. From hot compresses and meditation to onions, Vicks, garlic cloves, celery juice, and crushed ibuprofen “pastes,” nothing is off-limits. With honesty and humor, they discuss where these ideas come from, what can actually support healing, and why so many people in pain are drawn to “miracle cures.”

This episode also includes a conversation about snake oil salesmen — those who prey on the HS community’s vulnerability and desperation by selling fake cures and unproven treatments. Parish and Joey explain how to spot red flags, protect your wallet, and make informed decisions about your health.

Whether you're newly diagnosed or have been living with HS for years, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and a reminder that men with HS deserve representation, compassion, and real information.

For trustworthy HS education, resources, and support, visit hsconnect.org.

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In Season 2, Episode 6 of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey get real about what it means to be an HS warrior both in and out of the workforce. This honest, vulnerable, and deeply relatable conversation explores the challenges men face when trying to balance chronic illness, work responsibilities, financial pressures, and personal identity.

Joey shares what it’s like to continue working full-time while managing unpredictable HS flares, the mental load of staying focused in a public safety role, and how supportive coworkers and accommodations have helped him keep going. Parish opens up about the emotional and financial reality of having to leave the workforce due to HS—and what it took to rebuild his confidence, rediscover purpose, and transition into advocacy.

Together, they unpack:
– The pressure men face to “push through” even when their bodies are struggling
– Embarrassing moments, stigma, and the fear of being misunderstood at work
– How to communicate with supervisors and advocate for accommodations
– The mental health toll of lost income, isolation, and identity changes
– The hope found in community, purpose, and reclaiming your story

This episode is for every man who has ever felt torn between showing up for others and taking care of himself, and for anyone who wants to better understand the reality of HS in everyday life.

🔗 Listen, share, and find community resources at: hsconnect.org

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Parish and Joey join Brindley and Cyd for a deep, unfiltered conversation about what it means to be a man living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa. This crossover episode pulls back the curtain on the experiences most men carry silently—including the pressures of dating, showing up in relationships, managing health setbacks, and redefining what strength really looks like.

Inside this conversation, they dive into:
• The truth about dating with HS and deciding when to disclose
• Intimacy struggles men rarely admit—including fear, shame, and ED
• Losing independence and learning to accept help
• Challenging the idea that “providing = masculinity”
• Why the HS Brotherhood group matters—and how it’s creating a safe space for men to finally talk openly

If you’ve ever felt isolated or like no one understands what you’re carrying, this episode is a reminder: you’re not alone, and your story matters.

Learn more about HS Brotherhood and community resources at hsconnect.org.

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