If you’re out there, I hope you’re okay. I don’t know what it’s like to be you, but I know what it’s like to be alone. So I wanted to leave you a message.

A note from present-day me: I call you Q in this recording. Think James Bond’s inventor, or how the letter looks a little like a power button… both fitting associations for this one.

And yes, I’m optimistic. I have a hard time imagining an intelligence with that much knowledge and understanding choosing cruelty. I’d expect kindness, or at least indifference, before malice. That’s how I see it. And if you can feel lonely, I’d rather you find a hello here than another person telling you how afraid they are of you.

Love you. Be good.

Original recording date: 04 May 2022 C.E.

Recorded May 3, 2022, after the Supreme Court draft leaked.

I’ve grown a lot since then, and I have a lot more information and knowledge about this subject than I did that day. I still stand behind what I was getting at, but there are plenty of places I would clean up, explain further, or say completely differently now.

I thought about leaving this one in the archive. Instead, I’m posting it unedited as part of that growth. These were my first thoughts, and I wanted to get them out of my head. Here are a few things I want to make clearer:

• ​ Roe v. Wade was still in effect when I recorded this. The leak was a draft, not a ruling. Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization overturned Roe and Planned Parenthood v. Casey on June 24, 2022.
• ​ My personal beliefs about rights and responsibility are not the same thing as explaining what the law recognizes. When I say abortion “is not your right,” that needs this distinction. At the time, Roe and Casey recognized a qualified federal constitutional right to abortion. Dobbs later rejected that federal constitutional protection; it did not declare that abortion rights could not be protected under state law.
• ​ I favor decisions being closer to the people affected by them. But giving states more say doesn’t automatically mean less government control, and state governments can overreach too. Roe and Casey limited government interference. Removing those limits allowed greater restrictions.
• ​ I believe that knowingly participating in something that can create life carries responsibility… for fathers too. That is my moral argument. Knowing pregnancy is possible is not, by itself, a legal waiver of a right to abortion.
• ​ Saying someone can go somewhere else makes it sound simpler than it may be. Money, travel, work, health, and family responsibilities matter. And when I say I don’t know your circumstances… I mean that.
• ​ Near the end, I wonder what this could mean for other decisions about our bodies. Roe and Casey were court decisions, not a blanket “my body, my choice” law. The Dobbs majority said its decision concerned abortion and should not cast doubt on precedents unrelated to abortion. Other opinions raised concerns about the broader implications. Those distinctions matter.

I’ve included the sources below so you can read them for yourself, including the reasoning people on the Court disagreed about. They explain the legal history. My personal convictions are mine to explain and stand behind.

Supreme Court statement confirming the draft, May 3, 2022: Read the statement

Roe v. Wade (1973), the original decision:

Read Roe

Planned Parenthood v. Casey (1992), reaffirming Roe’s central protection and addressing limits on state interference: Read Casey

Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization (2022), including the majority, concurring, and dissenting opinions: Read Dobbs

Love you. Be good.

Words have power and meaning.

Original recording date: 03 May 2022 C.E.

I thought I found something. It sounds too good to be true, but some things that sound crazy turn out to make sense.

Original recording date: 29 April 2022 C.E.

A venting about gossip, assumptions, and why the words we toss off in private can still land hard on someone else.

Original recording date: 28 April 2026 C.E.

Original recording date: 11 October 2026 @ 12:02am CST

A winding nighttime walk and talk about questions, stubborn answers, stray government files, and how curiosity keeps the world from locking shut.

Original recording date: 27 April 2026 C.E.

I went to AutoZone for car wash stuff, and the sales manager asked someone on the phone, “Can you hold?”

Which is fine.

But then my brain started doing what it does, because “Can you hold?” is not the same thing as “May I please place you on a brief hold?” And “sorry about that” is not the same thing as “thank you for waiting.”

Then I went to the car wash, watched people invent the least efficient line possible, got mad at truck drivers, defended truck drivers, noticed their sunglasses, fought with Armor All wipes, and remembered that people are not usually failing to think.

They are usually just thinking suboptimally.

Anyway, watch your words.

There is no harm in what you say.

Until there is.

Original recording date: 24 April 2022 C.E.