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  • ASEXUALITY, INTIMACY, INTIMACY AVOIDANCE FEAR OF AND RISKS OF INTIMACY FEAR OF LOSING THE SELF (FLS) VERSUS FEAR OF LOSING THE OTHER (FLO)

    ASEXUALITY, INTIMACY, INTIMACY AVOIDANCE FEAR OF AND RISKS OF INTIMACY FEAR OF LOSING THE SELF (FLS) VERSUS FEAR OF LOSING THE OTHER (FLO)
    Sep 16 2026
    Randolph Pitts graduated as a National Merit Scholar from Washington-Lee High School and after that graduated Summa Cum Laude from the University of California Berkeley with degrees in Social Psychology and Near Eastern Studies (Ancient) with a minor in Greek (ancient). He was a Regents Graduate Fellow in Near Eastern Studies and concurrently organized seminars on ancient Coptic literature at the Graduate Theological union in Berkeley. Subsequently he studied Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law at UCLA which declined to award him a degree. He also studied law at California State University Los Angeles. He did advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship\s dynamics. He was a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He was also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association and of the American Composers Forum. He served as Distinguished Visiting Professor at Chapman University. As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor, “Fresh” starring Samuel L. Jackson (winner of the top prize at the Sundance Film Festival) and “Touch” featuring Christopher Walken and Gina Gershon and directed by Paul Schrader. Was a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He was the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. His music compositions include a concerto for string orchestra, a string sextet, a piano sonata; a piano concerto; “Der Schatten Eines Traumes” for vocal soloists and large orchestra based on the writings of Karoline von Günderrode, Gilles Deleuze, Walter Benjamin, Christoph Friedrich Heinle and Ingeborg Bachmann; and Das Buch der Blauen Rose for three sopranos, chorus, speaker, orchestra, organ, tape and electronicsIn addition to THE UGLY PERSON’S GUIDE TO HOW TO GET LAID Randolph Pitts is the author of three novels and a book of poetry and other writings entitled EYES OF A DREAMER. BEYOND THE PLEASURE PRINCIPLE is the first volume of Randolph Pitts’ tetralogy of novels. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Along the way we travel to India and discover the Siddhis (Sanskrit: सिद्धि siddhi; fulfillment, accomplishment), which are material, paranormal, supernatural, or otherwise magical powers, abilities, and attainments that are the products of yogic advancement through the practices of Tantra. Also into this world enters the contemporary practice of Voudou in Brooklyn, New York.TRUST is the second of Randolph Pitts tetralogy of novels. It introduces a character, a national television personality whose tag line is “You’ve gota’ trust me on this one,” who is revealed to have psychic powers. We discover that others are similarly “time-free”, a phenomenon which comes in useful in foiling a diabolical plot by the ultimate villain, deranged but brilliant scientist Dr. Werner Ganzfeld, “The Brain In The Plastic Bubblez”, whom we first encountered at a “Swinger’s Resort” in BEYOND THE PLEASURE PRINCIPE.STARVE A FEVER (in two volumes) is third of Randolph Pitts’ tetralogy of novels. A Brooklyn, NY Police Detective finds himself on the trail of Nazi terrorists while a group of dedicated women in powerful (and not so powerful( places endeavor to save the planet from disaster. Meanwhile mysterious images from a lost culture wash ashore in many places. They may convey the secret…
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    2 h et 2 min
  • Forbidden Secrets of LEFT HAND TANTRA: How Maximum Pleasure brings Maximum Enlightenment plus Maximum Empowerment

    Forbidden Secrets of LEFT HAND TANTRA: How Maximum Pleasure brings Maximum Enlightenment plus Maximum Empowerment
    May 27 2026
    You may have heard whispers about "left hand" Tantra, as if it is a forbidden topic, not to be talked about in polite company. Well finally, here it is. Out in the open, premiering today, Tuesday, May 26, 2026. This thorough, comprehensive, no holds barred episode will send you down a path of heretofore undreamed of Pleasure, Spiritual Enlightenment and Personal Empowerment. You will not be the same person after you experience this episode. Unbounded Love, Passion and Wisdom will enter your life. You will learn about how in the Left Hand School of Tantra there is One Way to achieve Enlightenment. And it also happens to be something most adults really enjoy doing! Look forward to a Whole New You. Topics covered include: Tantra, Maithuna, Yoga, chakra puja, kundalini shakti, Kularnava Tantra, Ganesha, Goraksha Samhita, Birhat Tantrasara, mahā-mantra-sādhana, yogini, vashikarana, Vijnana Bhairava Tantra ,Cult of the Cemetery, Yeshe Tsogyel, Svadhishthana
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    2 h et 7 min
  • KABBALAH and TANTRA - A Comparison

    KABBALAH and TANTRA - A Comparison
    Jan 6 2026

    This episode is a largely academic/scholarly comparison of these two mystical/spiritual traditions, Kabbalah and Tantra.
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    1 h et 56 min
  • NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES + Sex, Love and Longevity

    NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES + Sex, Love and Longevity
    Dec 31 2025
    Have you ever had a near-death experience? What was it like, being near death and then coming back -- changed? In this episode of my acclaimed podcast I talk about my personal near-death experiences as well as looking at such experiences from a psychological philosophical perspective. What does the research tell us?Quite a lot that will surprise you! ALSO: What is the relationship between sex, love and longevity? Does sex help you live longer? Ring in the New Year with Ecstatic Sensuality!(Life, Death and Sex illuminated by philosophers and psychologists including Jean-Paul Sartre, Ernst Becker, Martin Heidegger, Otto Rank and others. Plus: Want to live longer? Having pleasurable sexual intimacy may help!)
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    1 h et 41 min
  • CONSTANCE DOWLING: a story of Love, Sex, and Death

    CONSTANCE DOWLING: a story of Love, Sex, and Death
    Dec 21 2025

    This episode is about Constance Dowling, Doris Dowling, Cesare Pavese, The Moon and the Bonfires, Death Will Come and Will Have Your Eyes, Elia Kazan, Artie Shaw, suicide, John Lilly, LSD, Dolphins, TheActors Studio, impotence, NelsonEddy, Ivan Tors, Flipper, Belasco Theater, Shelly Winters, Goldwyn Girls, Knickerbocker Holiday
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    1 h
  • WOMEN: Great Sex can Lengthen Your Live by 23 Years!

    WOMEN: Great Sex can Lengthen Your Live by 23 Years!
    Dec 18 2025

    It's true! The memory of Great Sex can help you live longer by twenty-six years! It's not marriage, it's not being in a relationship... It's sex! Find our more by watching this titillating promo for our upcoming episode: "Sex and Death/Near Death Experiences" here on your podcast, Explore Ecstatic Sensuality! With your host, "Mr. Sensuality", Randolph "Gabby Cadaver" Pitts.

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    6 min
  • PSYCHEDELICS, SPIRITUALITY & SEX - 9000 BC TIL THE PRESENT

    PSYCHEDELICS, SPIRITUALITY & SEX - 9000 BC TIL THE PRESENT
    Oct 11 2025

    In a literature overview entitled Psychedelics and sexual functioning: a mixed‑methods study in the open access journal “Scientific Reports”, researchers from The Department of Medicine, Centre for Psychedelic Research, Imperial College London, and the Psychedelics Division, Neuroscape, Department of Neurology, University of California San Francisco, begin by asking the following question:

    Do psychedelics affect sexual functioning postacutely? Anecdotal and qualitative evidence suggests they do, but this has never been formally tested. While sexual functioning andsatisfaction are generally regarded as an important aspect of human wellbeing, sexual dysfunction is a common symptom of mental health disorders. It is also a common side effect of selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), a first line treatment for depression. Naturalistic use of psychedelics was associated with improvements in several facets of sexual functioning and satisfaction, including improved pleasure and communication during sex, satisfaction with one’s partner and physical appearance. Convergent results were found in acontrolled trial of psilocybin therapy versus an SSRI for depression. In this trial, patients treated with psilocybin reported positive changes in sexual functioning after treatment, while patients treated with the SSRI did not.Despite focusing on different populations and settings, this is the first research study to quantitively investigate the effects of psychedelics on sexual functioning. Results imply a potential positive effect on post-acute sexual functioning and highlight the need for more research on this. The most significant changes seen as a result of the use of psychedelics were in seeing sex as a spiritual or sacred experience, satisfaction with one’s own appearance, satisfaction withone’s partner, and experience of pleasure.

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    3 h et 8 min
  • ROMANTIC REJECTION - Its Physical and Psychological Effects

    ROMANTIC REJECTION - Its Physical and Psychological Effects
    May 24 2025
    As eminent psychologists Roy F. Baumeister and Dawn Dhavale told us back in 2001 almost no one in the world escapes the craving, depression, fear, and rage that rejection can create. Among college students at Case Western Reserve University, 93% of both sexes reported having been spurned by someone they adored. Moreover, 95% said they had rejected someone who was deeply in love with them. We have addressed almost every aspects of love, relationships and intimacy on our five years doing this podcast but thus far not this one. So let’s dive into this subject and see what other researchers and prominent authorities have to tell us. There are two types of “love” we are going to discuss: First, one person has a crush on someone that is not returned; and second where one person in a relationship decides to end it when the other does not wish to – in other words, a relationship breakup initiated by one party. Here again there are two sides: The person in the role of the person being (as it were) “rejected” – the “rejectee” as it were; and the person doing the “rejection” – the rejecter. Have you ever played either of these roles? Or perhaps both? Statistics say that you probably have. How did you navigate this difficult situation? What effects did it have on you? Were aware of what the effects were in your brain and in your heart – your actual heart, not your metaphorical heart? Then this episode is for you. As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the third quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Pulitzer Prize." #rejection #romance #romantic rejection #breakups #rejection sensitivity
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    1 h et 35 min