Have you ever wondered if there was more science… more biology… behind the way you get turned on and how your body actually prepares for sex? In this episode, we explore exactly that.

I’m opening the door into the physiology of women's arousal and some of the deeper reasons desire can feel incomplete, muted, or even blocked inside the body.

This conversation also serves as your introduction to my series:

Becoming Orgasmic: The Pleasure Literacy Blueprint.

Because the truth is… most women were never given real education around sex.

Not around arousal.

Not around pleasure.

And definitely not around orgasm.

And while that gap is unfortunate… it’s also what fueled my passion to study this work for years.

Low-key? My drive to be a better mother played a role too (my daughter just turned 18, y’all ). I wanted to understand the woman's body... not just intellectually, but generationally. So beyond studying women’s sex education, orgasm, and arousal science…

I’ve lived this journey personally.

I was once a woman who felt little to nothing during sex.

Disconnected.

Numb.

Present in body but not in sensation.

But when I began learning how to open my pleasure capacity…

Everything changed.

That understanding became the key to becoming orgasmic through intercourse... even simple, connected intercourse.

So this episode is me, as a woman and as a mother, sharing both my knowledge and my lived experience... so that other women can finally understand what it means to feel fully alive inside their bodies… And fully expressed inside of sex.

For the ready woman:

Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint, is a self-led audio series I offer here at Desire Different. Supporting women in connecting to their bodies, expanding sensation, and deepening orgasmic responsiveness through understanding .... not pressure.

Learn more on the series below:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

Keywords: female arousal science, becoming orgasmic, women’s sex education, orgasm education, female pleasure, blocked arousal, orgasm through intercourse, sexual embodiment, nervous system and arousal, women’s wellness, intimacy education, sexual healing, understanding female desire

In this episode, I’m talking about one of the most quietly carried experiences women have .... feeling more orgasmically responsive alone than during partnered sex.

If you’ve ever wondered why your body opens faster solo, I break down the role of nervous system safety, pacing, performance pressure, and observation and why this dynamic is far more common than women admit.

Nothing is wrong with your body… it’s responding to environment. And the baseline beginning of what it already understands about pleasure ... but there's so much more to learn! Get in here!! 😝

For the ready woman:

Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint, is a self-led audio series I offer here at Desire Different. Supporting women in connecting to their bodies, expanding sensation, and deepening orgasmic responsiveness through understanding .... not pressure.

Learn more on the series below:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

Browse full resources here:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent

Keywords: female orgasm, orgasm alone vs partnered, why sex feels better alone, nervous system arousal, female pleasure, orgasm difficulty, solo vs partnered sex, sexual responsiveness, emotional safety sex, performance pressure, pleasure literacy, female sexual wellness

Of course for Valentine's Day, this one is juicy, in the most embodied, sexy way....and it's a take home one (like for tomorrow 😏)

Inside this episode, I give an easy mindset shift that changes the way you perceive and feel pleasure!

And no, I didn't need to release this episode earlier in the week for you to have more practice time 🤭 .... you can literally make this change overnight! Get in here!

If you’re interested in exploring pleasure education more deeply, I created Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint. A self-led audio experience that helps women reconnect to their pleasure body, expand sensation, and understand the foundations that support internal orgasmic responsiveness.

This is where many women begin their deeper learning journey ⬇️

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

Keywords: valentine's, Valentine's day, lovers, sex tips, sex advice, women's arousal, women's desire, pleasure, sex education, Valentine's Day sex, women's advice

In this episode I explore the transformative power of understanding how our bodies actually work from natural responses like sneezing, fever, and digestion… and of course, the pathways of pleasure and orgasm.

When we lack body literacy, it often creates stress, fear, and disconnection. But when we begin to understand the body as responsive, intelligent, and protective, everything shifts.... including how we experience arousal, sensation, and intimacy.

I talk about the importance of supporting the body instead of fighting it, and how slow, safe pleasure education helps women rebuild trust with their own system.

Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint, is a self-led audio series I offer here at Desire Different. Supporting women in connecting to their bodies, expanding sensation, and deepening orgasmic responsiveness through understanding .... not pressure.

Learn more on the series below:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

This episode is an invitation to listen to your body differently… and to realize that confidence, pleasure, and connection all begin with awareness!!

Keywords: female pleasure education, orgasm education, women’s sexual wellness, intimacy education, female arousal science, nervous system and pleasure, embodiment for women, reconnecting to your body, sexual confidence for women, orgasm support, sensual embodiment, body trust, female desire and libido, sexual healing for women, mind body connection, trauma informed pleasure education

A gentle conversation for women who are moving through life carrying more than they realize.

In this episode, I hold space for the quiet emotional weight many women navigate .... the pressure to keep going, stay pleasant, and function …. even when something inside feels tired or off.

(And of course, as I speak about us pushing through life, even when we're exhausted .... here I am, recording this episode pushing through a cold 🤭🤣🤧)

Nothing about this conversation is about fixing you or noticing error. It’s about recognizing yourself with more kindness, more context, and less self-judgment.

If you’ve been needing somewhere to land softly, this one is for you.

Interested in browsing my suite?! Products, sessions & resources live here:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent

Keywords: feminine embodiment, emotional well-being, women’s mental health, self-connection, inner awareness, emotional labor, personal growth, feminine healing, body connection, self-trust, women supporting women, women's empowerment

Okay, so these myths?! Come on mayneeee....somebody is lying!

I break down the myths about women’s pleasure and the misconceptions surrounding the woman's body and the g-spot.

I challenge outdated beliefs that have shaped how women understand their own pleasure systems, and I speak to the natural intelligence and responsiveness built into the woman's body. I also share insights from my personal journey, inviting a deeper connection to internal sensation and embodied pleasure.

If you’re interested in exploring pleasure education more deeply, I created Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint. A self-led audio experience that helps women reconnect to their pleasure body, expand sensation, and understand the foundations that support internal orgasmic responsiveness.

This is where many women begin their deeper learning journey.

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

Explore More Ways to Work Together

Browse sessions, classes, and additional resources here:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent

Keywords:

women’s pleasure, female body, pleasure system, orgasm myths, internal sensation, G-spot, clitoris, female arousal, g-spot myths, I'm over sex, sex ed

Quick Clarity Episode: I care so deeply about the work inside Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint, I have to be very clear with all the questions coming in..... in this short clarity episode,

I explain what this education around women’s pleasure and orgasm is....and what it is not!

This education isn’t kink or performance. It’s about regular, grounded intimacy and learning how to work with the body so pleasure feels natural, connected, and satisfying. No toys, no tricks, no weird positions.....nothing unreachable.

This series is designed to bring women inside of the truth of their bodies and their pleasure system, so that sex makes more sense and so that orgasm is finally possible....from normal sex, from regular intercourse. This is a spiritual landing space you guys, not the dark web 🤭

Questions, comments, concerns?!

evolve@desiredifferent.com

If you’re interested in exploring pleasure education more deeply, I created Becoming Orgasmic. A self-led audio experience that helps women reconnect to their pleasure body, expand sensation, and understand the foundations that support internal orgasmic responsiveness.

This is where many women begin their deeper learning journey.

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

Explore More Ways to Work Together

Browse sessions, classes, and additional resources here:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent

Men and women don’t experience pleasure the same way and that difference matters more than most people realize!! Like ACTUALLY!!!!

In this episode, I break down how men and women's pleasure systems are wired differently, why sex is often built around the one that’s faster and easier, and what actually changes when women allow their pleasure system to lead.

Here’s the part no one tells us women:

no matter whose pleasure system is prioritized, MEN STILL FINISH!!

But if a woman’s system isn’t included, she often won’t....at least not in a way that feels complete.

This isn’t about blame or technique.

It’s about understanding how pleasure actually works….

and why allowing your body to understand this, changes everything.

If you’re interested in exploring pleasure education more deeply, I created Becoming Orgasmic: A Pleasure Literacy Blueprint. A self-led audio experience that helps women reconnect to their pleasure body, expand sensation, and understand the foundations that support internal orgasmic responsiveness.

This is where many women begin their deeper learning journey.

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/the-pleasure-literacy-blueprint

Explore More Ways to Work Together

Browse sessions, classes, and additional resources here:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent