After 39 years of marriage, Jamie and Zane Tarence from Alabama have learned that the secret to a lasting relationship isn't doing everything together — it's knowing when to give each other space. In this candid conversation, Julie and David sit down with Jamie, creator of the popular lifestyle brand Family Savvy, and Zane, an entrepreneur and investment banker, to talk about what almost broke them, what ultimately saved them, and how they built an independent but deeply connected partnership. From taking separate cars to events to navigating completely different personalities, this episode is full of honest, practical wisdom for any couple trying to figure out how to grow together without losing themselves.

Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

What You'll Learn:

• Why Jamie and Zane credit community, faith, and professional resources — not luck — for saving their marriage
• How understanding personality profiles (DISC, Enneagram) changed the way they see their differences
• The surprising habit that eliminated a major source of conflict in their marriage (hint: separate cars)
• Why healthy independence in a marriage is a strength, not a red flag
• How to meet your partner's top needs — and stop sweating the rest
• The story behind Family Savvy and Jamie's mission to empower women in their "second act"
• Why both spouses understanding family finances is essential, regardless of who earns the money

• The SavvyCast Podcast — available on all podcast platforms
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• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familysavvy/
• Email: letschat@familysavvy.com

• Website: thebulitts.com
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What does building a business have in common with building a relationship? More than you'd think.
Carla Biesinger is a business mentor and Instagram marketing expert who helps women create profitable online businesses — and she's coached over 10,000 clients worldwide to do it. Based in Lisbon, Portugal, Carla's journey started in Buenos Aires, where she co-built the city's #1 restaurant on TripAdvisor with her then-boyfriend — only to walk away with $12,000 after five years of work. That moment became her turning point: she would never be financially dependent again.
Today, Carla teaches women how to grow on Instagram, build an email list, and sell without feeling pushy — so they can create real income on their own terms.
Julie and David Bulitt talk with Carla about what it takes to rebuild after a relationship and a business fall apart at the same time, why financial independence matters in relationships, and how the same intentionality required to grow a business is the same intentionality every couple needs.
What You'll Learn:

How to grow on Instagram without a big following
Instagram Stories vs. feed posts — what actually drives sales
Building an email list that converts
How to sell authentically if you hate selling
Why financial independence strengthens relationships
The confidence gap holding women back from entrepreneurship

Connect with Carla Biesinger:
Instagram: @carlabiesinger
Free Webinar: Available in Carla's Instagram bio
Learn more about Julie and David at thebulitts.com

Julie and David Bulitt never expected a simple shower video to rack up over 20 million views — but it did, and the comments it unleashed revealed something far more profound than they anticipated. In this solo episode, Julie and David break down the three major waves of reaction to their viral Instagram and TikTok reel: the critics who found it uncomfortable, the couples who were inspired and saw themselves in it, and — most strikingly — the flood of men quietly confessing they've given up on intimacy in their marriages. Julie and David get personal about what it means to feel unseen in a long-term relationship, why staying intentional about attraction and appreciation matters at every age, and why one anonymous comment from a man in a sexless marriage stopped them both in their tracks.

📱 Watch the viral shower reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVV08f1AL0q/ 🌐 Website: thebulitts.com

Rob Scheer, founder of Comfort Cases and author of A Forever Family: Fostering Change One Child at a Time, joins Julie and David to share his deeply personal journey — from growing up in the foster care system himself, to adopting four children and witnessing firsthand that nothing had changed. When his kids arrived carrying trash bags, Rob didn't just feel the pain — he built a movement. In thirteen years, Comfort Cases has delivered over 300,000 backpacks filled with essential, dignity-restoring items to foster children across all 50 states, Washington D.C., and Puerto Rico. Rob shares what goes into every case (and why every detail matters), how he built a national organization powered by everyday people, and why he believes our legacy is defined by what we give — not what we take.

Learn more and donate at comfortcases.org Rob's podcast: Fostering Change Rob's book: A Forever Family: Fostering Change One Child at a Time

Join hosts Julie and David Bulitt as they explore an unexpected connection between body art and relationship healing with Tina Marie, founder of Tantric Tattoo in Sandy Spring, Maryland. From couples getting matching tattoos to commemorate their commitment, to paramedical tattooing that helps women reclaim their bodies and intimacy after breast cancer, Tina shares powerful stories of transformation and connection. Discover how the art of tattooing creates healing moments—whether it's reframing trauma through scar coverage, honoring lost loved ones, or helping couples rebuild intimacy after medical challenges. Tina's compassionate approach goes beyond ink; she creates a therapeutic space where clients process grief, celebrate resilience, and literally wear their healing journey on their skin.

Connect with Tina Marie: Email: tantrictattoos@gmail.com Location: Tantric Tattoo, Sandy Spring, Maryland

Learn more about Julie and David Bulitt: Website: https://thebulitts.com/

Join marriage therapist Julie Bulitt and divorce attorney David Bulitt as they launch their exciting "26 for 26" campaign - 26 creative dates throughout 2026 to keep relationships fresh and fun! In this candid conversation, the Bulitts share why consistent, intentional dating is crucial for long-term relationships and reveal their upcoming date plans including dance lessons, cooking challenges, speakeasies, and more. They discuss the neuroscience behind new experiences with your partner, offer budget-friendly date ideas, and invite listeners to join them on this year-long journey of rediscovering romance. Whether you've been together for 4 months or 40 years, this episode will inspire you to prioritize fun and connection in your relationship.

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David sit down with Rick Cognata, founder of Legacy of a Grandpa and author of "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time." Rick shares invaluable insights on intentional grandparenting, creating core memories, and building lasting relationships with grandchildren. From navigating boundaries to understanding the importance of presence over perfection, this conversation explores how to be the grandparent your grandchildren will cherish for a lifetime.

Rick discusses his journey from leadership developer to grandparenting advocate, the importance of starting early to build strong foundations, and practical strategies for long-distance grandparenting. Whether you're already a grandparent, soon to be one, or simply interested in multi-generational relationships, this episode offers wisdom, humor, and actionable advice.

Connect with Rick Cognata:
Instagram: @legacyofagrandpa
Website: https://legacyofagrandpa.com
Email: legacyofagrandpa@gmail.com
Book: "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time" (available on Amazon)

Connect with The Bulitts:
Website: https://thebulitts.com/
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