The Man's Guide to Women

Great advice from the Love Lab again

If you want to develop your communication methods and create a stronger relationship, then this is an excellent choice. The term Zero and Hero are used often, and I like to think you might as well sum it up as how not to be an asshat. I was raised mostly by women and thought I had a decent grasp. This book tied together a lot of parts and pieces of the right things and behaviors floating about in my brain.

Even if you're in a good relationship you can still gain from the insights held within.

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We Want to Be Heroes For Our Wives

This book was a-mazing! As men, we are expected to know how to love women correctly for life but that is impossible,in my opinion, without some serious help. How can we understand women when they are so different? I think many men learn trial by fire and by failing and not understanding why or what went wrong. This book allows us to be heroes by studying up, reading up versus giving up and has practical steps to make us more empowered in relationships. Who really wants to fail in love?

This book will help men (us) to get it right or as close to right as possible. I will recommend this guide to every male friend, relative, mentee and even future sons-in-law so they have a proven guide to make their wives happy. Thank you Gottmans and Abrams!

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Invaluable

Gottman is on his game with this one. It's not about what men do wrong, or about being ashamed of shortcomings- it's about reconciling differences and learning to be together. If you want a healthy relationship, if you want to know how healthy women operate, listen to this book for a guideline.

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Is there a "woman's guide to men"?

I thought the book was incredibly insightful but after listening to it I feel waited down with an overwhelming job that can never be met. I've made uneducated attempts to accomplish these things with two prior marriages but feel that just like this book describes all time, services, resources go from men to women I would like to hear if there's some sort of balance. It also seemed to me that the more I tried to provide these suggested tasks the higher the requirement became until there was nothing left of me except a spineless man surveying an endlessly demanding woman until I needed to escape to have any vestige of a life of my own where I had some control of my time, my resources, and my own goals.

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Perhaps the best relationship book

I have recently gone through a breakup and have taken it upon myself to read as many relationship books as possible. This book provides actionable advice and many golden nuggets. Also recommend reading the book "Attached" with it

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Totally relevant information

I felt like this book was written for me. Every chapter has value. Be sure to bookmark!

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OK - if you are an idiot

Would you try another book from the authors and/or Eric Michael Summerer?

I will pass on these authors in the future.
The narrator did a fine job, considering what he had to work with.

What could the authors have done to make this a more enjoyable book for you?

For men who are idiots or know absolutely NOTHING about women, this book is OK. The book was written to such a sophomoric level as to make it actually painful to listen to. Most of the time, I was shaking my heading and thinking . . . . seriously? I got absolutely nothing out of it. Frankly, I couldn't wait to get to the end, and did so only because I paid for it.

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should be mandatory

if you love a woman, get this book. ATTUNE works immediately. there are some assumptions steeped in traditional role definitions at the end, toward the sexuality section. these may or may not apply to your relationship. either way, the content and the concept are worth a listen.

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Not for Veterans

This book has great advice, but seems to be written with an audience in mind of those in the initial stages o my a relationship. I have been married for 7 years, though this was helpful, it was not intended for me.

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Very basic info on how not to be an a-hole.

Could be helpful for the most obtuse clueless lot but not for the average good guy.

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