Overwhelmed by Which Fertility Clinic or Country to Choose? Here’s How to Decide with Confidence

Feeling overwhelmed by fertility clinics abroad? Not sure which country or clinic is right for you? You’re not alone.

In this solo episode, I break down why so many people feel stuck when deciding where to have fertility treatment and how to start narrowing down your options without overwhelm.

You’ll learn:

✨ Why too many options can actually make it harder to move forward

✨ The hidden reason most people get stuck - it’s rarely just the amount of choice, it's knowing how to assess their fit and suitability

✨ How these three steps will help to move you forwards and reduce overwhelm.

✨ How getting the right guidance and information can save you time, money, and stress

If you are considering fertility testing/treatment abroad, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and actionable steps to start moving forward.

💛 Take the next step with confidence:

• Sign up for my free training via the link below to get a step-by-step roadmap for choosing the right country and clinic for fertility treatment abroad

https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

• Or, if you want to find out what it’s like to work with me directly, how I can help you to choose the best fit clinics and countries for your needs, you can book a free, no-obligation 15-minute call to discuss your situation and next steps.

https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Before You Trust Advice About Fertility Treatment Abroad you need to know this

Episode Description:

Thinking about going abroad for fertility treatment? Before you make any decisions, there’s one question you need to ask - and it could completely change the way you approach your options, the experience you have and the results you get.

In this episode, I break down:

• Why so much advice about fertility treatment abroad isn’t as neutral as it seems
• How to spot when recommendations are influenced by commission, partnerships, or hidden incentives and even by well meaning friends or a stranger on the internet
• The common myths that can lead people to choose the wrong country or clinic
• How to protect your time, money, and emotional energy when exploring options overseas
• Practical steps and questions you can ask to make confident, informed decisions for your family

Going abroad for fertility treatment can be an incredible option for lots of people - but only when you have clear, unbiased information to make informed decisions every step of the way.

This episode will give you the tools to see through the noise and avoid mistakes that cost time, money, and hope.

Highlights & Watchouts Covered in This Episode:

• How some influencer and agency recommendations can be biased
• Why confident advice doesn’t always mean correct advice
• The hidden costs of choosing the wrong clinic or country abroad
• The simple “Who Benefits?” filter to apply before acting on advice
• How myths about fertility treatment abroad misleading and used as marketing
• How to work out what is education content vs marketing

Free Training:

If you want the full, no-nonsense truth about going abroad for fertility testing and treatment including the highlights and more importantly the watch outs, I’ve put together a free training just for you to tell you everything you need to know to make informed decisions that are right for you and to help to grow your family with confidence.

Get your free copy here - https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

Or book a 30 minute Pick My Brain call to get your questions answered honestly and without bias here - https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/pick-my-brain

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Things You Should Let Go of in the New Year (or Anytime)

People are losing time on their fertility journey in ways that can sometimes be controlled (even though it may not feel like it) and by doing things because they are overwhelmed, stuck or because it feels 'safe', 'easier' but actually aren’t actually serving them.

In this episode, I break down the habits, beliefs, and 'sensible' choices that quietly waste your time, money, and energy and sometimes even your chances.

From waiting loops and indecision, to relying on Google/AI/'free' platforms or friends to match you to clinics, to thinking fertility treatment abroad is a second-class options - it’s time to learn more and let go of what isn’t helping you move forward in the right direction for you.

If you’re ready to stop tolerating what’s keeping you stuck and take control of your fertility journey where you can. listen in.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why waiting and indecision can quietly cost you months (or years)
• Why 'easy' decisions - like choosing a local clinic aren’t always the best decisions
• The risks of relying on Google, AI, free platforms, or friends to match you to clinics
• Why accepting 'unexplained infertility' as a diagnosis or NHS options can hold you back
• How thinking of going abroad as 'second-class' can cost you opportunities
• Why winging it abroad is risky and how to do it right

Key Takeaway:

Work With Me:

If this episode resonates and you’re ready to move forward with clarity, guidance and support. I offer various services including work one-to-one for people who don’t want another year going in circles.

I have very limited availability remaining in January for 121, and all the details are below.

Links & Resources:

• Work with me: https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/work-with-me
• Free resources: https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/free-resources
• Instagram: www.instagram.com/Yourivfabroad

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

If this year has felt heavy, repetitive, or emotionally draining, it’s easy to wonder: What if next year looks exactly the same?

In this episode, I’m helping you pause, reflect, and consider how next year could look different - without pressure, guilt, or unrealistic resolutions.

Emma explores why patterns repeat, how fear and overwhelm can keep you stuck, and the quiet power of choosing one thing differently so you can step into the year ahead with clarity and confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to recognise patterns that may have kept you stuck this year
• Why repetition doesn’t mean failure or fault - it often signals a lack of clarity or support
• How to choose one to do one thing differently to create meaningful change
• Gentle ways to reflect on what this year has taught you and what you want to carry forward and what you want to leave behind

Your next step:

🌟 Looking for guidance and support to make changes in 2026?

Book a call with me to talk through your situation and see if working together is the right next step (from £397):

https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min?month=2025-12

🎧 Want more clarity on how going abroad for fertility treatment works first?

Watch my free training to understand the process, costs, timelines, and how to choose the right clinic abroad with confidence:

https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

Your IVF abroad is closed until 6th January and the podcast will resume from 13th January.

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

What to Do If You Expected to Be Pregnant by Christmas… and You’re Not

Christmas can feel totally joyful for some, but for those trying to conceive, navigating IVF, or planning fertility treatment, it can also be a season of grief, stress, and emotional triggers.

If you imagined being pregnant by now, December can bring reminders of hopes unfulfilled, questions from friends and family members, and a constant comparison to other people’s pregnancies or announcements.

In this episode, Emma Haslam shares validation, guidance, and practical strategies to help you navigate the festive season with more confidence, peace, and emotional protection.

💬 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why Christmas can feel so emotionally heavy when you’re TTC or undergoing fertility treatment
• How to navigate things that trigger you, including the questions
• How to cope with seeing pregnancies or announcements around you
• Practical ways to protect your energy during gatherings
• How to plan ahead and how to create space for yourself
• When it makes sense to seek extra support in your network to provide back up and when to absent yourself

✨ Loved this episode?

Please follow the podcast, leave a review and also share this episode with someone who might need it this festive season.

Your support helps others feel seen, heard, and less alone during what can be an emotionally complex time.

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

The Awkward Fertility Questions You are not prepared for(And How to Answer Them)

There is never a good time for these questions, but I feel during any celebratory time like Christmas it can feel more overwhelming when you're TTC or navigating IVF. And while everyone else is talking about food, gifts and plans… you’re bracing for the questions - the ones that cut deeper than people realise and you deserve to protect your peace.

In this episode, Emma shares real, practical scripts you can use when family, friends or colleagues make comments about fertility, IVF, age, your body that are not helpful!

You’ll learn how to set boundaries that suit you, how to protect your emotional energy, and move through Christmas and other occasions like Thanksgiving, without feeling triggered, exposed or blindsided.

This is your toolkit for staying grounded, protecting your peace, and getting through the holidays or any family/friend gatherings - on your terms.

In This Episode You’ll Learn:

• Why seemingly innocent Christmas questions can feel so painful
  
  
  
• How to respond to:
  • “When are you having kids?”
  • “Why don’t you just relax?”
  • “Have you thought about adoption?”
  • “Should you be drinking alcohol if you’re trying?”
  • “Aren’t you getting too old for all this?”

Even if the intention is good and including what to say when the intention is not good!

• Polite, firm and shut-it-down scripts for every situation, plus a one liner that is easy to remember and a great distraction for most situations
  
  
  
• How to protect your emotional energy during the festive season
  
  
  
• Ways to navigate triggering conversations without over-explaining
  
  
  
• Other things to consider to make these situations more about thriving than surviving and on your terms

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

If you’re struggling to access the fertility medication, supplements, or HRT you’ve been prescribed—whether due to high costs or limited availability - this episode walks you through a safe, reliable way to get what you need privately.

Or maybe you suspect (or know) you are in peri-menopause or menopause but you are not being taken seriously by medical professionals, or you are on a long NHS waiting list to see a Consultant and are struggling with symptoms that are impacting on your daily life.

For many women in the UK and other countries like the USA the system can feel unpredictable:

• Meds are expensive and frequently out of stock
• HRT shortages happening without warning
• Menopause 'care' is dismissive for many or stuck behind long waiting lists
• Private menopause clinics that are expensive for most people

In this episode, you’ll learn exactly how to source genuine, fertility and HRT medication with availability and sometimes at a more accessible price too, no matter where your prescription was written, as long as it’s in English.

Whether you're trying to conceive, navigating IVF, managing symptoms of peri-menopause/menopause, or simply trying to follow your treatment plan without constant disruption, this is a practical guide to getting your medication safely and stress-free.

🌱 What We Cover in This Episode

• How to legally use a valid prescription from anywhere in the world
• Ordering medication privately even when your local pharmacy is out of stock
• Getting a quote for:
  • IVF meds
  • HRT (oestrogen patches & gels, progesterone, testosterone)
  • Fertility supplements
• How the process works step-by-step
• How to save money without compromising quality, safety, or regulation
• When it makes sense to book a consultation with a menopause specialist for private support

💊 Want a Price Quote for Fertility Meds, Supplements, or HRT?

Get a free, no-obligation quote from the partner pharmacy I recommend.

👉 Request your personalised price quote here:

https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-introduction

You’ll receive:

• A direct price comparison
• Confirmation of availability
• Fast turnaround
• Clear instructions for placing an order using your prescription

🌼 Need a Private Menopause Specialist to Review Your Symptoms, Treatment or Prescribe HRT?

Book a call with Emma who can talk you through the process so you can book a private online consultation with a menopause specialist.

👉 Book a call with Emma here:

https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

This is ideal if you need:

• a review of your current symptoms
• HRT for the first time or adjustments to your HRT
• advice on testosterone
• help accessing reliable private prescriptions
• support navigating complex or persistent symptoms

✨ Please follow the podcast, leave a review, or share it with someone who may be struggling to access their medication or

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

You’ve been trying to get pregnant for what feels like forever… and you’re exhausted and don't know what to do next or what options you may even have.

This episode is here to help you work out what to do next, without spiralling, Googling at midnight, or feeling like you’re somehow 'behind' everyone else.

Inside, I walk you through:

• Why trying is not failure or your fault

• When to consider changing things and what options might be available and why IVF isn't always the next step

• When to push for answers and when to look beyond the UK system

• How to finally get clarity on your next step so you don't feel stuck in limbo wasting time when you are ready for answers and a plan

If you’re stuck in limbo and the ‘just relax and keep trying’ advice is wearing thin, or you are not getting the help you need then this episode will give you a clearer, calmer path forward

🌟 Want personalised guidance on your situation?

Book a free no obligation call with me and let’s talk about what’s going on for you and whether working together is the right next step.

https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

🎧 Curious about fertility treatment abroad and how it actually works?

Watch my free training to understand the process, costs, safety, timelines, and how to choose the right clinic abroad with confidence.

https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally?
yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service

Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop