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Your Friend In Grief

Your Friend In Grief

De : Melinda Rubinger & Malani Macias Jones
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A safe space for conversations around grief and loss. Bringing these conversations out of the darkness and into the light.

© 2026 Your Friend In Grief
Hygiène et vie saine Psychologie Psychologie et psychiatrie Sciences sociales
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    • Vulnerability
      Jan 31 2026

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      What happens when safety disappears and the world suddenly feels too big? We explore the messy, necessary role of vulnerability after loss—how it can feel like standing in a storm without a coat, and how it can also be the only path back to joy. From the first shaky steps of doing taxes alone to braving hurricanes, frozen pipes, and unexpected animal encounters, we share the practical and emotional work of rebuilding confidence when every choice feels high stakes.

      Together, we map the tension between protection and openness: the same walls that keep hurt out will keep wonder out too. We talk about using balance as a daily practice, not a destination, and choosing words that keep us moving forward while honoring our limits. You’ll hear how honest grief can startle people, why some friends pull away when you tell the truth, and how the Ring Theory helps set boundaries so comfort flows in the right direction. We also examine scams that target widows, energy drains in our social feeds, and ways to protect ourselves without shutting down our hearts.

      Parenting through grief—and modeling real feelings—shows up as a powerful teacher. We reflect on letting kids see hard days so they learn their emotions are safe, and we affirm that progress can be as small as one step. Most of all, we reckon with the risk baked into love. Knowing how fragile life is, we still choose to love again, inviting connection with clearer boundaries and steadier courage. If you’re navigating loss and looking for language, tools, and companionship, this conversation offers both clarity and comfort.

      If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find these conversations. Your story matters—and your one step forward counts.

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      38 min
    • Microjoys In A Loud World
      Jan 31 2026

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      We sit with the heaviness of a chaotic world and talk honestly about collective grief, nervous system regulation, and finding relief without numbing. Small, intentional moments—our microjoys—become the sturdy way back to presence and care.

      • naming dysregulation and how grief lands in the body
      • relief vs avoidance and why regulation matters
      • microjoys that help—coffee, books, yoga, safe connection
      • returning to reading and creative outlets for calm
      • rest as a tool—taking PTO, sleeping, slowing down
      • balancing chores, workouts, and energy across the week
      • technology breaks and practicing slower living
      • mortality, aging, gratitude, and values
      • kindness to self and others as a steady compass
      • holding dual truths—heavy world and moments of joy

      “Reach out to us on Instagram. We answer every message that comes through.”

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      42 min
    • You Are Not Alone
      Jan 24 2026

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      Grief can pack a house and still leave you feeling like the only person in the room. We open up about the early days after loss—one of us held by an incredible web of support that handled meals, calls, and even the obituary, the other juggling paperwork, funeral logistics, and a move during COVID with a small circle and a full heart. Those contrasts reveal the same truth: “you are not alone” is both comfort and practice, something we have to learn to accept and also to request.

      We talk about the identity shift that follows loss—the way competence grows from necessity, how changing a shower head becomes a milestone, and why new friendships with people who never knew our person can feel both healing and strange. Capacity becomes our guiding word. “Peopling is hard” isn’t an excuse; it’s a nervous system setting. We share language that helps: “checking on you,” “I want someone here, but I don’t want to talk,” and “a grocery gift card would help more than a meal train.” For supporters, we offer simple, compassionate guidance: mirror the words the griever uses, avoid platitudes and imposed beliefs, bring specific help with no strings, and be okay with silence.

      There’s also the ache of the world moving on—school years continuing, holidays arriving—while your life feels paused. We found comfort in widow and loss groups where 2 a.m. makes sense, and where laughter and tears can share the same hour. Two things can be true: you can be devastated and still laugh; you can be grateful and still say no. We’re not experts; we’re sharing lived experience so you can borrow what fits—scripts for setting boundaries, ideas for showing up without adding weight, and reminders that choosing quiet is a valid choice.

      If this conversation helps you feel seen, we’d love to hear from you. Subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review with one sentence about what support actually helped you. Your words might be the “checking on you” someone needs today.

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      44 min
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