(aka the one where your inner rich bitch meets your inner wounded child—and they both get what they want)

You’ve manifested. You’ve journaled. You’ve tried to “receive.”

But are you actually letting life ravish you?

In this no-bullshit, wildly permission-slathered episode, I sit down with Dasha Barsukova—founder of Skoda Mystery School, mischief priestess, and walking transmission of “WTF magic is real”—to talk about what happens when you stop settling for crumbs and start expecting dessert first.

This is an exorcism of shame, scarcity, and every part of you that still thinks you need to “earn it.”

We go hammmm on:

💸 Why “being spoiled” is triggering AF—and the frequency hack no one’s teaching

🧍‍♀️ Inner child sabotage, nervous system glass ceilings, and why your launch meltdown is probably just a portal

🧠 “The Moneyrexia” relapse cycle (and how to catch yourself before you cancel the damn party)

🎀 Dasha’s Paris origin story: from $2 squat toilets to silk corsets + synchronicity discounts

🤐 The secret no one talks about: most successful women can’t hold more without imploding

And yes, we get spicy:

💥 What to do when your shame says “you can’t have this” and your soul says “try me”

💥 Why your spiritual glow-up still feels like a grind

💥 How to get off on your own damn magic (without burning out, selling out, or numbing out)

If you’re feeling stuck, blocked, or like you’re “too much” for this world and still somehow not enough—this one’s for you.

✨ Connect with Dasha:

IG: @iamdashabarsukova

Facebook: Dasha Barsukova

Join her free experience, Get Spoiled by Money

YouTube Channel

If this episode cracked you open, triggered you, turned you on—or all three:

Sext it to your ride-or-die

Post it on IG + tag us: @lexidangelo + @iamdashabarsukova

Leave a 5-star review so more baddies can come get spoiled!!

(aka the episode where you realize intuition is cute, but Pussy is the oracle, priestess, queen BADDIE).

You’ve heard of heart-centered and soul-centered. But have you ever heard of pussy-centered?!

In this yummmmm paradigm-smashing episode, I sit down with Jenny Braxton—somatic sexuality coach, founder of the School of Pussy-Centered Living, and host of the Pussy-Centered Living podcast—to talk about what happens when you stop outsourcing your power and start listening to the truth pulsing between your legs.

We go deep into:

• Why Pussy (not yoni, not womb, not divine feminine) was the word that changed everything for Jenny
• What Pussy-Centered Living actually is—and why it’s the last terrain most women dare to walk
• The difference between intuition and pussy-wisdom (and why most spiritual women are still playing it safe)
• What to do if you feel numb, disconnected, or grossed out by your pussy (spoiler: you’re not broken, you’re conditioned)
• How Jenny moved from postpartum pain and low libido into 🔥 transcendent connection with her husband (17 years in and hotter than ever)
• The truth about long-term love, resistance, and why your partner doesn’t need to be doing the “work” with you
• How community changes everything when you’re on the path of erotic reclamation

And yep—we go there:

💥 Disgust wound

💥 Feeling “too much” for the spiritual world and “not enough” for the pleasure priestess spaces

💥 The exact practice that helped Jenny reclaim her own turn-on (and why it might make you squirm—in the best way)

Whether you’re brand new to pussy work or decades in, this convo is a remembering. A reclamation. A reckoning. And a PARTY.

You don’t have to do it alone.

Pussy doesn’t want to be centered in secret—she wants a throne.

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✨ Connect with Jenny:

• IG: ⁠@pusssy.centered.living⁠
• Facebook: Jenny Braxton
• Podcast: Pussy-Centered Living
• Join Jenny’s live workshop in June: “How to Want Sex Again”: https://jennybraxton.mykajabi.com/longterm-sxy-workshop

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If this episode stirred something in you—text it to a friend, share it on your stories, or leave a review. That’s how we spread the gospel of wild, sacred turn-on, babyyyy!

📸 Tag us: @lexidangelo @pusssy.centered.living

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Pssst!! If your sex life feels stale, distant, or performative…

• 🚫 You’re not broken.
• 🚫 Your partner isn’t hopeless.
• 😉 And your relationship isn’t over.

You’re just out of alignment with your truest erotic signature.

There are 12 Eros-Scope™ Signs...each with a totallllly different turn-on style. 😱

When you’re not clear on and connected to yours, nothing works.

BUT! There’s a version of you who knows exactly what she wants—and how to ask for it.

⁠⁠Take the Eros-Scope™ Quiz to find her 🥵⁠⁠

(+ give your partner a map to meet you there ❤️‍🔥)

(aka the one where you stop withholding sex as leverage and start using it as sacred lovership)

In this soul-punch of an episode, I sit down with Emma Galland—somatic sex coach, founder of Tantric Awakenings, and creator of The Warrior’s Calling—a 12-month brotherhood guiding men through the seasons of their sexual lives. And let me tell you… this one cracked me open in the best way.Because I was that woman.

The one with all the spiritual tools and all the resentment.

The one who weaponized her emotions, withheld sex, blamed her man for everything…

And called it “conscious relating.”

But what if...👉🏼 Withholding sex is like telling a man, I don’t love you?👉🏼 His premature ejaculation is actually a nervous system collapse, not a lack of care?👉🏼 Every time he shuts down, he’s silently begging to be met without judgment?

In this conversation, Emma reveals:

• Why almost all men are stuck in “Summer Mode”—chasing climax, release, and then disappearing
• How porn has desensitized not just their cocks, but their hearts
• The truth about men and vulnerability (hint: they’re not shallow. They’re scared.)
• What’s really happening when your man can’t get hard—or comes too fast
• The hidden damage of spiritual superiority + the “high priestess trying to fix her king” energy
• How to stop using your power to control—and start using it to invite
• The 4 erotic seasons of male sexuality
• Why your praise, presence, and softness are the most potent alchemy on the planet

This one is for the women who say they want to be met…

But haven’t realized they’ve never actually made it safe for their man to show up....It might just change how you see men forever 😉

PLAY WITH EMMA HERE:

https://tantric-awakenings.com/

https://www.instagram.com/tantricawakenings/

Pssst!! If your sex life feels stale, distant, or performative…

• 🚫 You’re not broken.
• 🚫 Your partner isn’t hopeless.
• 😉 And your relationship isn’t over.

You’re just out of alignment with your truest erotic signature.

There are 12 Eros-Scope™ Signs...each with a totallllly different turn-on style. 😱

When you’re not clear on and connected to yours, nothing works.

BUT! There’s a version of you who knows exactly what she wants—and how to ask for it.

⁠Take the Eros-Scope™ Quiz to find her 🥵⁠

(+ give your partner a map to meet you there ❤️‍🔥)

(aka the one where the red flags were just palo santo-scented and you stop confusing “spiritual” with “emotionally unstable in linen pants” 😵‍💫)

What if the conscious, grounded, wildly devoted man you’re longing for… doesn’t drink cacao, doesn’t quote Rumi, and has never once said the word “Shakti”?

In this episode, I’m telling the truth about the sneaky spiritual performance traps we fall for—the ones that keep us dismissing real devotion because it doesn’t match our curated vision boards or the “conscious relationship” reels we’ve saved on Instagram.

I share the real moment when I thought Jake—my lacrosse-playing, ex-frat, reinsurance-working husband—couldn’t meet me anymore. And how everything changed when I stopped needing him to look spiritual…and started seeing the ways he embodied something deeper than any man-bun-in-Bali ever could.

We talk about:

• The difference between performing spirituality vs. practicing devotion
• Why some men can quote David Deida but can’t hold your truth
• Myths that keep you from recognizing the real thing when it doesn’t come in your prefered packaging
• The 5 quiet but potent traits of true spiritual masculinity
• What to do if you feel like your partner isn’t “doing the work”
• How to stop confusing sacred aesthetics with actual capacity

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If you’ve ever felt the fear of outgrowing your partner... or wondered where all the “conscious men” are... this one’s for you.

This isn’t about lowering your standards. It’s about elevating your discernment.

Because devotion doesn’t always look sexy on Instagram.

But it feels safe, hot, and holy in your nervous system.

Pssst!! If your sex life feels stale, distant, or performative…

• 🚫 You’re not broken.
• 🚫 Your partner isn’t hopeless.
• 😉 And your relationship isn’t over.

You’re just out of alignment with your truest erotic signature.

There are 12 Eros-Scope™ Signs...each with a totallllly different turn-on style. 😱

When you’re not clear on and connected to yours, nothing works.

BUT! There’s a version of you who knows exactly what she wants—and how to ask for it.

Take the Eros-Scope™ Quiz to find her 🥵

(+ give your partner a map to meet you there ❤️‍🔥)

—aka the one where you stop blaming your partner and start flirting with yourself like the lil minx you are 🐆

I see you over there boo—waiting to feel turned on by your partner, your life, your purpose…

In this raw, fiery, and soul-slapping episode, I’m diving into one of the biggest lies women in long-term relationships have been sold:
That desire should just happen.
That passion should feel effortless.
That if you’re not dripping with arousal 24/7… something’s wrong with you (or them).

Here’s the truth:
✨ Turn-on is a practice.
✨ Turn-on is a choice.
✨ Turn-on is your responsibility.

Not because you need to perform or "be sexy" for someone else.
But because your aliveness, your eros, your life force is yours to tend to.

We talk about:

• Why waiting for your partner to turn you on is a trap (and low-key a form of self-abandonment)

• What it actually means to seduce yourself like a stranger

• How “not feeling turned on” is often your body’s way of begging for more truth, more presence, more YOU

• Practices to revive your desire without needing anyone else to change

This episode is your permission slip to stop waiting for things to feel sexy and start creating your own erotic life force—moment by moment.

❤️‍🔥 Ready to go deeper?
If this episode lit a fire in your soul (or your panties), you’re gonna LOVE my signature program Deep + Spicy—a 12-day game to reignite desire, deepen intimacy, and bring back the holy-hot-magic to your relationship.
🎲 Think: truth-or-dare meets spiritual awakening meets "omg I forgot how alive and in love we could feel!!" It's getting a sexy lil revamp right now so when you DM me "DEEP + SPICY" on the gram I'll send you a special 50% off code (it's going poof! soon).

💌 Or DM me @lexidangelo to explore private 1:1 coaching or couples work.

✨READY TO MEET YOUR TURN-ON SIGN?✨

Sure, you know your Sun sign…But do you know your Eros sign—the one that reveals what actually turns you on?

Enter: the ⁠Eros-Scope Quiz ❤️‍🔥⁠

It’s free. It’s freakishly accurate.And it might just change everything you thought you knew about desire. 🥵

🔥 Take the quiz now at ⁠lexidangelo.com/quiz.⁠

—aka the one where we burn down the guilt altar and let desire have the mic. Likeeee I desire being worshipped sea-side in Greece, being finger-fed mangoes. 🥭👅

You have the home. The partner. The business.

You’ve ticked the boxes. Manifested the vision board. Done the work.

And still...

💭 “Is this it?”

💭 “Why do I feel numb, irritated, or disconnected—even when nothing’s technically wrong?”

💭 “Who am I to want more when so many people have less?”

This episode is for the multidimensional, spiritually-aware, Type-A-but-also-tantric women who secretly have a tab open titled: “Why does my life look so good… but feel so beige?”

In this episode, we go there. Into the tension between gratitude and hunger.

Into the shadowy corners where your “unreasonable” desires have been hiding out like exiled little goblins whispering:

“Don’t rock the boat… don’t ask for more… you should be happy with what you’ve got.”

But here’s the truth most people don’t say out loud:

Desire doesn’t make you ungrateful. It makes you alive.

And guilt? Is the glue that keeps you stuck in someone else’s story of “enough.”

Inside this episode, you’ll hear:

• 🖤 Why gratitude can become a cage (even when it’s well-intentioned)
• 🖤 How to tell the difference between soul desire and escape fantasy
• 🖤 Why craving more doesn’t make you broken—it makes you brave
• 🖤 What happens when you stop editing your longings to make them “reasonable”
• 🖤 Tangible steps to start claiming your “too much” desires… without blowing up your life (unless that’s the vibe, in which case, pass the matches)

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You don’t need to justify your longings.

You don’t need a gratitude journal to cancel them out.

And you sure as hell don’t need to shrink into a palatable version of yourself just to keep shit “peaceful.”

💥 We’re not here to settle for “fine.”

We’re here to devour the life that turns us the f*ck on.

And that starts by getting radically honest about what you actually want.

Even if it’s messy.

Even if it’s not what you should want.

Even if it terrifies you.

(Especially if it terrifies you.)

👀 If this episode had you screaming “YES OMG,” subscribe, share it, rate it, and tag me @lexidangelo—I wanna know what desire you’re reclaiming!!

✨READY TO MEET YOUR TURN-ON SIGN?✨

Sure, you know your Sun sign…
But do you know your Eros sign—the one that reveals what actually turns you on?

If sex has started to feel like another task on your to-do list, you’re not broken. You’re just missing your personal pleasure constellation.

Enter: the Eros-Scope Quiz ❤️‍🔥
It’s astrology’s sacred, sluttier cousin—here to decode the 12 turn-on archetypes, from the ones who want sex to feel like a prayer to the ones who want to be absolutely defiled.

It’s free. It’s freakishly accurate.
And it might just change everything you thought you knew about desire. 🥵

🔥 Take the quiz now at lexidangelo.com/quiz.
Your stars are horny for you, babyyy. Time to find out why. 😜

aka the I’ve explained it 87 times and he still doesn’t get it one 😛

You’ve tried everything—

You’ve tried saying it calmly.

You’ve “consciously communicated” your needs with the clearest intentions…

And when that didn’t work…you got louder.

You criticized. You threatened.

...and he still didn’t get it.

It’s enough to drive you crazzzzy.

But before you throw another passive-aggressively worded voice note into the void, please tune into this episode ;)

This episode is for every woman who’s ever felt the frustration of explaining her needs a thousand times in a thousand different ways—and still feeling unheard.

I’m pulling back the curtain on the very real moments in my own relationship where I thought I was doing everything “right”—explaining, justifying, spelling it out—and still not feeling met.

I’m sharing the exact moment everything shifted for me—not when I got better at explaining, but when I stopped altogether...and started revealing the real, raw truth underneath it all.

Inside this episode, we talk about:

• Why “conscious communication” doesn’t always create intimacy—and what does
• The difference between expressing from the wound vs. revealing from the heart
• How I stopped micromanaging, over-explaining, and emotionally performing—and did ONE thing totally different (that changed everything)
• Real AF examples of what this shift looks like so you can get ideas for how to bring this gift into your own relationship
• Tangible practices so you this isn’t just another episode you listen to but don’t do anything with (you can shift the dynamic in your relationship TODAY, k?!)

✨ Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this episode will shift how you express your emotions and show up in your fullest, most embodied truth. MMM, BABY!!! Yes please 😛

🔥 Pssst—WANT A RIDICULOUSLY JUICY (+FREE) GIFT THAT JUST MIGHT CHANGE EVERYTHING?! 🥵💋

Something in your life could be juicier, richer, fuller, deeper—but something’s not clicking. You’re this close to a breakthrough, but you need a real shift.

💥 Enter: Your FREE Personalized Power Move.

No fluff. No generic advice.

I’m giving you a completely customized coaching assignment, tailored exactly to what you need most. This is bespoke coaching magic, delivered straight to your DMs.

Here’s how to claim yours:

1️⃣ Subscribe to the podcast—because obviously you don’t want to miss what’s coming.

2️⃣ Leave a review—tell me what’s hitting, what’s resonating, and what’s blowing your mind.

3️⃣ Screenshot yourself tuning in & share it on IG—tag me ⁠@lexidangelo⁠ so I can see it!

4️⃣ DM me the #1 thing you’re struggling with right now—whether it’s in love, business, self-expression, sexuality, confidence, or just feeling stuck as hell.

💥 Then…BOOM. You’ll get a totally personalized (and FUN!!) assignment from me that will shake shit up and shift you into action. 💥

You could ignore this...

Or you could actually do it.

Because...what if this changes everything? 😈❤️‍🔥👅

aka the I’ve spent years shaming this part of me and now it’s the key to my magic?! one 🪄

Who would've thought a wildly difficult, gross, uncomfortable wrestle with my own face and body would be my portal to wild liberation and self-love? Not I. Not me. But lo and behold, it has been. And while I’m still very much in it, I’ve been cracked open in ways I’ve been waiting my whole damn life to feel.

Would this have been my preferred initiation? No. Absolutely not. But apparently, the goddess had her own mischievous ideas in mind. And I don’t hate it. I mean, I hate that I’m still dealing with it—but fuuuck do I love who I’m becoming.

A lil warning—this episode is deeply personal, messy, and unfiltered. I speak freely about my experience with body image, insecurities, and the full spectrum of emotions that have been moving through me. If that feels like a tender topic for you, maybe skip this one. Or if there’s even the slightest feeling that there might be something in here for you…there probably is. ;)

I love you. Let’s dive in.

🔥 Pssst—WANT A RIDICULOUSLY JUICY (+FREE) GIFT THAT JUST MIGHT CHANGE EVERYTHING?! 🥵💋

Something in your life could be juicier, richer, fuller, deeper—but something’s not clicking. You’re this close to a breakthrough, but you need a real shift.

💥 Enter: Your FREE Personalized Power Move.

No fluff. No generic advice.

I’m giving you a completely customized coaching assignment, tailored exactly to what you need most. This is bespoke coaching magic, delivered straight to your DMs.

Here’s how to claim yours:

1️⃣ Subscribe to the podcast—because obviously you don’t want to miss what’s coming.
2️⃣ Leave a review—tell me what’s hitting, what’s resonating, and what’s blowing your mind.
3️⃣ Screenshot yourself tuning in & share it on IG—tag me @lexidangelo so I can see it!
4️⃣ DM me the #1 thing you’re struggling with right now—whether it’s in love, business, self-expression, sexuality, confidence, or just feeling stuck as hell.

💥 Then…BOOM. You’ll get a totally personalized (and FUN!!) assignment from me that will shake shit up and shift you into action. 💥

You could ignore this...

Or you could actually do it.

Because... what if this changes everything? 😈❤️‍🔥👅