—aka the one where you stop blaming your partner and start flirting with yourself like the lil minx you are 🐆

I see you over there boo—waiting to feel turned on by your partner, your life, your purpose…

In this raw, fiery, and soul-slapping episode, I’m diving into one of the biggest lies women in long-term relationships have been sold:
That desire should just happen.
That passion should feel effortless.
That if you’re not dripping with arousal 24/7… something’s wrong with you (or them).

Here’s the truth:
✨ Turn-on is a practice.
✨ Turn-on is a choice.
✨ Turn-on is your responsibility.

Not because you need to perform or "be sexy" for someone else.
But because your aliveness, your eros, your life force is yours to tend to.

We talk about:

• Why waiting for your partner to turn you on is a trap (and low-key a form of self-abandonment)

• What it actually means to seduce yourself like a stranger

• How “not feeling turned on” is often your body’s way of begging for more truth, more presence, more YOU

• Practices to revive your desire without needing anyone else to change

This episode is your permission slip to stop waiting for things to feel sexy and start creating your own erotic life force—moment by moment.

❤️‍🔥 Ready to go deeper?
If this episode lit a fire in your soul (or your panties), you’re gonna LOVE my signature program Deep + Spicy—a 12-day game to reignite desire, deepen intimacy, and bring back the holy-hot-magic to your relationship.
🎲 Think: truth-or-dare meets spiritual awakening meets "omg I forgot how alive and in love we could feel!!" It's getting a sexy lil revamp right now so when you DM me "DEEP + SPICY" on the gram I'll send you a special 50% off code (it's going poof! soon).

💌 Or DM me @lexidangelo to explore private 1:1 coaching or couples work.

✨READY TO MEET YOUR TURN-ON SIGN?✨

Sure, you know your Sun sign…But do you know your Eros sign—the one that reveals what actually turns you on?

Enter: the ⁠Eros-Scope Quiz ❤️‍🔥⁠

It’s free. It’s freakishly accurate.And it might just change everything you thought you knew about desire. 🥵

🔥 Take the quiz now at ⁠lexidangelo.com/quiz.⁠