This week, award-winning BBC broadcaster, journalist and author Emma Barnett joins us to challenge everything we think we know about the newborn bubble. Emma's new book, Maternity Service, tears through the toxic positivity of early motherhood with refreshing - and often hilarious - honesty.
From the physical reality of recovering from a C-section to the quiet grief of losing your pre-baby identity, Emma holds nothing back. She also opens up about 21 years without an endometriosis diagnosis, six rounds of IVF, and how she's learned to survive - and thrive - with a chronic pain condition while raising two children and fronting some of the UK's biggest radio programmes.
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Timecodes:
00:00 Introduction: Why Maternity Leave Is a Lie
01:01 What Is Maternity Service? The Book Explained
01:31 Six Rounds of IVF and 21 Years Without a Diagnosis
02:01 Matrescence: How Your Identity Shifts When You Become a Mother
04:10 Can You Ever Really Prepare for Becoming a Mother?
05:03 Toxic Positivity in Motherhood
06:30 Reframing Motherhood as a Tour of Duty
07:35 The Physical Reality: Healing a Broken Body After Birth
08:57 C-Sections, Too Posh to Push, and the Stigma of Stomach Surgery
09:50 What Is a Hypertonic Pelvic Floor? What No One Tells You
11:25 The Loneliness of New Motherhood Nobody Talks About
12:22 Identity Loss: Your Maternity Uniform and the Flattening of Self
14:01 IVF, Bruising, and the Hidden Uniform of Fertility Treatment
16:29 Delayed Gratification: The Survival Skill Every Mother Needs
18:20 Perimenopause, Grief, and the Pressure to Have It All
21:23 Maternity Discrimination and the Psychology of Being Replaced
23:30 Is Boredom on Maternity Leave Normal? Yes, and Here's Why
24:40 Writing a Letter to Your Pre-Baby Self
26:35 Ready to Talk: Emma's New BBC Podcast on Women's Interior Lives
30:50 The Best Books on Motherhood Emma Recommends
39:00 Living With Endometriosis: The Diagnosis That Took 21 Years
42:20 Endometriosis and IVF: When Getting Pregnant Becomes a Crisis
49:30 Emma's Tip for Feeling Well Enough: The Power of Music
Episodes of Ready to Talk with Emma Barnett are available every Friday on BBC Sounds.
Buy Emma’s book Maternity Service - out in paperback March 12th
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