Should I quit drinking when I don’t have a problem?
In this episode of Unconditional Norbie Schickel shares his honest experience of quitting alcohol after more than 20 years of low-to-moderate drinking, and what changed over two years without it. This is not a conversation about addiction, shame, or moral judgment. It’s about effectiveness, clarity, and intentional living in a culture where alcohol is deeply woven into social life.
If you’re considering Dry January, curious about sobriety, or questioning whether alcohol is subtly holding you back — mentally, emotionally, or physically — this episode offers nuance, personal insight, and a practical framework for change. Norbie explores why he chose to quit without being an alcoholic, the science-based ideas that challenged his assumptions, how alcohol impacts stress tolerance and habit formation, and what he gained — and lost — by removing it.
No preaching. No purity tests. Just an honest audit of alcohol, culture, and personal growth.
SHOW NOTES
Are low to moderate levels of alcohol consumption safe?
Should I quit drinking even if I don’t have a problem?
Dr. Andrew Huberman’s podcast shifted Norbie’s perspective
Alcohol’s impact on chronic stress, anxiety, and confidence
Why alcohol can make new habit formation harder
The “strategic replacement” method for breaking habits
Social life, relationships, and identity without alcohol
Health changes after quitting (sleep, recovery, hormones)
Two-year results: upsides, downsides, and trade-offs
Will Norbie ever drink again?
Chapter:
00:00 Introduction: Quitting Alcohol & Dry January
05:45 Stakes & Context: Why The Subject of Alcohol is Difficult
07:52 Challenge #1 - Alcohol Serves An Important Social Function
08:48 Challenge #2 Alcohol Feels Good & Has Many Benefits
09:49 There Is A Sea Change On The Topic Of Alcohol
10:31 Why I Quit Drinking When I Didn't Have A Problem
12:42 The Catalyst for Change: Dr. Andrew Huberman's Influence
18:20 Why Huberman's Alcohol Podcast Was So Effective
25:21 The Truth About Alcohol - Explained Clearly
31:45 The Two Reasons I Personally Quit Drinking
38:44 How I Stopped Drinking - Ending A 20 Year Habit Cold
44:26 Get The People Close Onboard (If Possible)
47:42 The Most Powerful Way To Quit Alcohol - Strategic Substitution
56:54 Treat Sobriety As An Experiment, Not A Religion
59:05 Going Sober - My Results At 2 Years
59:35 The Downside of Cutting Alcohol
01:00:53 The Mixed Blessing Of Going Sober
01:03:36 The Significant Benefits of Sober Life
01:03:43 Life Without Alcohol Became Way More Interesting
01:04:34 Quitting Alcohol Improved My Sleep
01:05:17 Here's What Quitting Alcohol Did for My Testosterone
01:07:39 Raising Your Testosterone Naturally Is Incredibly Beneficial
01:09:19 Sobriety Reduced Anxiety & Chronic Stress
01:12:21 Final Words & Conclusion - Will I Ever Drink Again?
Resources Mentioned:
Huberman Lab Podcast On Alcohol Function Health
Anthem Athletics
Keywords
Dry January, sobriety curiosity, quitting alcohol, mindful drinking, alcohol and anxiety, habit change, mindset, personal growth, men’s health, intentional living, fatherhood, entrepreneurship
Hastags
#DryJanuary #SobrietyCurious #QuitDrinking #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #IntentionalLiving #Men’sHealth #HabitChange #UnconditionalPodcast