Épisodes

  • Why Healing Trauma Requires Relationships
    Jan 22 2026

    Join us in this episode to discover why trauma requires relationships. Spoiler alert, we are talking about healing, corrective relationships that help us co-regulate.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    30 min
  • Why Insight is Not Enough to Heal Trauma
    Jan 15 2026

    In this episode we discuss the limits of insight to heal trauma and what really works.


    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    31 min
  • Trauma vs. Incompatibility: How to Tell the Difference
    Jan 8 2026

    In this episode we discuss the difference between trauma creeping to the relationship, versus true incompatibility.


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    26 min
  • How To Make Better Repair In Your Relationship
    Jan 1 2026

    In this episode we ask 4 questions that need to be answered in order to make better repairs in your relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    34 min
  • What Is Attachment Anxiety?
    Dec 18 2025

    In this episode we are going to discuss attachment anxiety. Like a smoke alarm that is too sensitive, our attachment anxiety can detect danger even when we don't want it too.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    31 min
  • How Trauma Effects Communication Style
    Dec 11 2025

    Your communication style is directly affected by the way you learned to adapt to your environment. In this episode you will learn how your attachment style developed and how to shift to a more secure style of communication.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    36 min
  • How To Change Your Partner
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode we discuss how to change your partner by changing the system. If you react differently, it forces your partner to respond differently, thereby changing the pattern.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    32 min
  • Trauma Bond Symptoms
    Nov 27 2025

    In this episode you will learn what a trauma bond is, how it forms to an insecure attachment, and safe steps to begin healing from a trauma bond.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq



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    31 min