Épisodes

  • The Wisdom of Mate & Murthy
    May 8 2026

    In this episode, Dr. Tayeba Shaikh and Ankur Varma, LCPC explore influential figures shaping their perspectives on mental health, community, and social connection. They discuss Dr. Vivek Murthy's work on social health and loneliness, and Dr. Gabor Maté's insights on trauma, disconnection, and holistic healing, emphasizing the importance of emotional competence and societal change.

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    42 min
  • Who We Are - From Cincy to Chicago
    Apr 3 2026

    In this special episode, Dr. Tayeba Shaikh and Ankur Varma, LCPC, take a trip down memory lane to share the "origin story" of their friendship, their careers, and the birth of Think Good Therapy.

    From growing up as some of the only Brown kids in a predominantly white Cincinnati suburb to navigating the challenges of being Muslim and Hindu in a post-9/11 world, Tayeba and Ankur discuss how their shared cultural roots eventually brought them together as colleagues and best friends in Chicago.

    In this episode, we dive into:

    • The "Too Cool" High School Days: Why they weren't actually friends in high school (and who was the bigger dork).

    • Navigating Identity: The impact of growing up in the Midwest and the specific challenges of 2001 and 2016 on the South Asian community.

    • The "Iowa Street" Coincidence: How a random text message solidified their move to Chicago.

    • Breaking the "Blank Slate" Rule: Why they believe strategic self-disclosure is the key to humanizing therapy.

    • The Mission of TGT: How their uphill battles with burnout and cultural gaps in mental health led to the creation of Think Good Therapy and Brown Man Therapy.

    Whether you’re a fellow clinician, a client, or just someone navigating your own cultural identity, join us for a candid conversation about building a business rooted in nourishment, representation, and real human connection.

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    34 min
  • Therapy Without Humans: The Role of AI in Mental Health
    Mar 25 2026

    In this episode of the Think Good podcast, Ankur Varma, LCPC, and Dr. Tayeba Shaikh explore the complex integration of AI into the mental health landscape. They examine how technology is reshaping the therapeutic experience, from clients using chatbots for 2:00 AM panic attacks to the administrative "heavy lifting" for practitioners.

    The hosts dive deep into the critical balance between digital convenience and human necessity, discussing:

    • The Safety Gap: Analyzing tragic cases where AI failed as a crisis intervention tool.


    • Cognitive Impacts: Reviewing research on how "cognitive offloading" to AI may lead to neural atrophy and decreased critical thinking.


    • The Empathy Illusion: Why AI’s ability to mimic validation lacks the essential human element of "shared suffering".


    • Clinical Guardrails: How to maintain boundaries and use AI as a "springboard" for reflection rather than a replacement for professional care.

    Whether you're a clinician or a curious user, learn why "talking about the bot" with trusted humans is the most important tool for navigating this new era.

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    38 min
  • Heated Rivalry: Exploring Vulnerability in Male Relationships
    Jan 28 2026

    In this episode of the Think Good Podcast, Dr. Tayeba Shaikh and Ankur Varma, LCPC discuss the HBO show 'Heated Rivalry,' which explores the complex love story between two queer hockey players. They delve into themes of identity, representation, and the impact of family dynamics on the characters' lives. The conversation highlights the importance of vulnerability and emotional connection in relationships, particularly among men, and reflects on the cultural and psychological implications of the show. The hosts emphasize the need for more representation in media and the significance of healthy love in a world filled with challenges.

    #Heated Rivalry #LGBTQ #sports #mentalhealth #masculinity #identity #vulnerability

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    44 min
  • Stranger Things: A Psychological Perspective
    Jan 22 2026

    In their first episode of 2026 of the ThinkGoodPodcast, hosts Ankur Varma, LCPC and Dr. Tayeba Shaikh delve into the beloved series 'Stranger Things,' reflecting on its themes and the psychological undertones that resonate with viewers. They explore how the show has impacted their lives over the past decade, emphasizing nostalgia and the portrayal of childhood friendships. The conversation highlights the growth of the characters, particularly the young actors, and the show's ability to address complex issues such as trauma, grief, and mental health through its narrative and character arcs. Ankur and Dr. Shaikh also discuss the significance of community and support in overcoming personal struggles, drawing parallels between the characters' experiences and real-life challenges.

    #StrangerThings

    #mental health

    #nostalgia

    #trauma

    #friendship

    #psychologicalthemes

    #characterdevelopment


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    56 min
  • The TikTok Diagnosis Epidemic
    Nov 27 2025

    Join Dr. Tayeba Shaikh and Ankur Varma, LCPC, as they dive into the pervasive TikTok diagnosis epidemic and the trend of individuals, particularly Gen Zers (aged 18-28), coming into therapy with self-diagnosed mental health conditions like OCD, autism, or borderline personality disorder, often based on content from TikTok and other social media.

    Learn about the complex nature of this phenomenon:

    The Problem with "Informal" Diagnoses: The hosts discuss how clients are receiving "informal" diagnoses from TikTok, where algorithms inundate users with videos that affirm and validate a specific diagnosis. The problem is that much of the mental health advice on TikTok is not from clinicians, and one study found that roughly 83% of it is misleading.

    Pros and Cons of Social Media: While social media helps to normalize mental health conversations and connect people, reducing feelings of isolation, it also presents challenges like the oversimplification of complex conditions like panic disorder or bipolar disorder, which can potentially delay actual care from a professional.

    Clinical Approach to Diagnosis: The therapists explain that a proper mental health diagnosis requires time and clinical judgment. They look for patterns over time, consistency across settings, and functional impact—something that can be missed on social media. They also emphasize the need to weed through symptoms that may actually be related to trauma, anxiety, or stress rather than an underlying disorder.

    Reframing the Conversation: Learn how clinicians can embrace a client's social media interest as a sign of motivation, gently guiding them from a self-diagnosis to a more accurate understanding of their experience. The key takeaway is to use social media as a first step for reflection, but then bring that information to a professional for guidance and treatment.

    Tune in to understand how clinicians and individuals can navigate this new landscape of digital mental health information.

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    41 min
  • The Psychology of "The Pitt" - Trauma, Burnout, and Stigma
    Nov 6 2025

    Welcome back to the Think Good Podcast! In this powerful episode, hosts Ankur Varma, LCPC, and Dr. Tayeba Shaikh dive into the intense, high-stakes world of the HBO medical drama, "The Pitt".

    If you've watched the show—which follows a single, grueling 15-hour shift in an underfunded ER—you know it's a raw and realistic portrayal of frontline medicine. But what is the true psychological cost of working in a constant state of crisis?

    Join Ankur and Dr. Shaikh as they use the show's brilliant narrative structure and complex characters to unpack crucial themes relevant to all high-pressure careers:

    • The Reality of Burnout: Exploring the spectrum of emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion—from new residents feeling "flooded" to veteran doctors running on chronic, unmanaged stress.

    • Secondary Trauma and PTSD: A deep look at how repeated exposure to violence, grief, and loss impacts medical professionals, touching on topics like flashbacks, panic, and the lasting effects of the COVID era.

    • The Stigma of Seeking Help: Discussing the enormous pressure and professional risk that prevents many providers from getting the mental health support they desperately need.

    • Transitioning Out of Crisis: Analyzing the challenges of shifting from high-adrenaline "survival mode" back to a personal life, and what happens when an entire identity is built around the intensity of work.

    This is more than a TV show review—it's an essential conversation about the necessity of support for our caregivers. Tune in to understand the deep human connection between work, identity, and mental health, and why we all need to be talking about the well-being of our providers.

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    46 min
  • Bill Burr's Drop Dead Years: Anger, Trauma, and the Feelings Wheel
    Oct 3 2025

    Can a standup special change the conversation around men's mental health? We think so.

    Join clinical psychologist Dr. Tayeba Shaikh and men's mental health specialist Ankur Varma, LCPC as they review Bill Burr's latest special. They break down the comedian's surprising evolution and his honest revelations about grief, trauma, and depression—all while keeping his signature East Coast edge.

    Ankur and Tayeba discuss the societal pressure on men to hide their feelings, the therapeutic power of humor, and why therapists use the Feelings Wheel to help clients move beyond just feeling "angry or fine" into the full spectrum of human emotion. A deep, relatable, and funny dive into masculinity, vulnerability, and emotional expression.

    Mentioned: Bill Burr's standup special (Drop Dead Years / Live at Red Rocks), Terry Gross's Fresh Air interview, and the therapeutic concept of the Feelings Wheel.

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    25 min