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  • #71: Announcing The Recovering Family and the 5 Principles
    Jul 28 2025

    In this podcast, Jen announces the rebranding of her podcast from Maneely Consulting to The Recovering Family, focusing on helping families with substance abuse issues. She outlines five principles for creating unbreakable boundaries: the Exchange Principle, emphasizing equal exchanges in financial, time, and energy; the Action Principle, stressing the importance of actions over words; the Present Principle, urging focus on the here and now; the Love Principle, advocating for loving communication; and the Joy Principle, highlighting the need for self-care and joy. She also promotes her nonprofit's donation-based services and encourages listeners to visit therecoveringfamily.org for more information.

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    34 min
  • #70: Katie and Barb Kocher: The Importance of Grace and Understanding
    Oct 22 2024

    In this episode of the podcast, host Jen Maneely welcomes Katie Kocher and her mother, Barb Kocher, to share their heartfelt journey through addiction and recovery. Katie opens up about her feelings of isolation and misunderstanding during her youth, despite excelling academically and athletically. Barb reflects on her unawareness of the signs of Katie's struggles and acknowledges the effects of their strict parenting approach. As Katie's addiction worsened, it led to serious consequences, including expulsion from sports teams and a car accident. After 15 tumultuous years, Katie found hope in rehab, discovering the healing power of art therapy. Now five years clean, she and Barb discuss the importance of grace and understanding in their relationship, highlighting the joy of reconnecting and the lessons learned along the way. This insightful conversation sheds light on the complexities of addiction and the strength found in family support.

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    1 h et 7 min
  • #69 Reddit: What Was Dating In Recovery Like For You?
    Oct 18 2023

    Another Reddit Story/Question. What was dating in recovery like for you?

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    35 min
  • #68: Reddit Story: AITA for refusing to forgive my drug addict BIL
    Sep 27 2023

    Another Reddit Story for you. This one is AITA for refusing to forgive my drug addict BIL.

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    40 min
  • #67 Reddit Story: Parents of live-in adult children struggling with addiction - how do you cope?
    Sep 21 2023

    I share my perspective on how to cope with a loved one's addiction, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries.

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    30 min
  • #66 Real Conversations with Mothers and Daughters
    May 2 2023

    What happens when mothers and daughters have to “adult” together? In this episode, My mom, Lynn Carnes and myself, along with another mother Christine Dickson and her daughter Lauren Martinson got together and talked about the challenges, the experiences, the memories, and some hard conversations we've experienced and how we navigated them, as well as the healing journey we've taken to mend, repair, grow, and thrive in our relationship with one another.

    We did something different with this podcast and invited people to listen in LIVE. So we put together a 2 hour event to really be able to dive deep into this conversation.

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    2 h et 2 min
  • #65: Let's Talk About that Dirty Word Called SHAME
    Mar 22 2023

    Are you willing to dive into some of the things that are coming up for you in order to be the support person that your loved one needs?

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    28 min
  • #64 Caroline Holke: How to Deal with Resistance When We're Trying to Make Changes.
    Feb 8 2023

    Caroline Holke works with Type A, high performing women who drink more than they intend to sometimes. It wouldn't be classified as a drinking problem, but they have a problem with using it as a crutch and want to get their control back.

    They hire her to get rid of the shitty parts of drinking (and this doesn't necessarily mean all drinking) and this enables them to build a life that they enjoy so much that they don't want to numb out of it.

    Most people focus on what to DO to cut back on their drinking, Caroline helps her clients tease out what is "driving them to drink" in the first place. Addressing these underlying, root causes helps her clients create sustainable change in their relationship with drinking.

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    53 min