Content note: this episode discusses rejection, shame, and self-harm. If you are struggling, you are not alone. In the US, call or text 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.

That sinking feeling when one small piece of feedback lands like a punch? There is a name for it: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, or RSD. In Episode 41, Greg, Rich, Liam, and Sarah talk plainly about what RSD is, why it can feel physical, and what actually helps, with no quick fixes.

We get into why one criticism can drown out ten compliments, why the rejection does not even have to be real to hurt, how this connects to ADHD without being limited to it, and the small tools that genuinely help in the moment.

In this episode:

• What RSD is, and what it is not

• Why your brain treats one harsh comment as a survival threat

• "Too sensitive" versus something more than that

• Grounding, breathing, and a cold-water bottle on the neck

• The one-pause challenge to try this week

Chapters:

(00:00) What RSD really is

(03:22) How common is it?

(05:49) Why one criticism outweighs ten compliments

(10:34) When rejection hurts

(12:43) Real or just too sensitive?

(21:09) Do you need ADHD to feel it?

(23:35) What helps when the sting hits

(27:32) Free-form sharing

(31:40) What is on your heart this week

(40:09) Recap, challenge, and close

Featured this episode: Greg (host), with Rich, Liam, and Sarah.

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Episode 40: The Cost of Kindness

Content note:

One segment includes a personal story of childhood family violence. If you’re struggling, you’re not alone:

In the US call or text 988, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

We almost always hear “the cost of kindness” as a warning. This episode flips it: the real cost isn’t being kind — it’s holding kindness back.

Greg and the panel make the case with research and a lot of honest, everyday stories.

In this episode:

• Why kindness lowers stress — and lifts productivity by about 12%

• What unkindness really costs a workplace (the numbers are rough)

• How to be kind without getting walked on — boundaries and advocacy

• Kindness vs. people-pleasing — the honest difference

• Why you have to save some kindness for yourself, too

Chapters:

00:00 Why “kindness costs” is backwards

02:16 The research: cortisol, blood pressure, productivity

04:24 Is kindness a weakness at work?

05:15 Everyday kindness, the small stuff

06:10 What kindness does in the brain

07:43 Turning kindness inward

08:32 The cost of kindness at work

11:54 Getting taken advantage of + people-pleasing

24:26 Staying kind when you’re running on empty

39:40 Recap, challenge & support groups

This episode featured Greg with co-hosts Rich, Derek, Liam, and Sarah.

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You wrote the plan down. You even put it on your phone. By 10 a.m. you’d started four things and finished none — and that same old voice was asking what’s wrong with you. If that’s familiar, this one’s for you.

In Episode 39, Greg and Rich have an honest, personal conversation about adult ADHD:

what it actually is, why it’s so easily missed, and what real support looks like.

ADHD isn’t the kid who can’t sit still, and it doesn’t disappear at eighteen.

It’s a difference in how the brain manages attention, impulse, and follow-through — and for many adults it’s been there all along, just unrecognized.

Both hosts share their own late-diagnosis stories and land where the show always does with hope.

What we cover:

• Why adult ADHD looks like internal restlessness and exhaustion, not hyperactivity
• Why more than half of adults with ADHD aren’t diagnosed until adulthood — and why women are so often missed
• Why “lazy” is almost always the wrong word (Rich’s duck-on-the-water metaphor)
• Treatment that actually helps — medication, therapy, lifestyle, structure, community
• The reframe: your brain isn’t working against you on purpose

Chapters:

• (00:00) Introduction & what adult ADHD really is
• (03:00) By the numbers: who’s been missed
• (04:18) Ferrari engine, bicycle brakes
• (05:24) Why “lazy” gets it wrong: the duck on the water
• (07:04) Childhood vs. adult ADHD & late diagnosis
• (11:10) Symptoms: hyperfocus and 500 browser tabs
• (14:11) Getting diagnosed as an adult
• (15:54) Is ADHD real? Treatment options
• (18:41) Rich & Greg’s stories + what’s on your heart
• (24:04) Summary, challenge & closing

This episode featured Greg Shaw and Rich.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

Books:

• Driven to Distraction — Edward Hallowell & John Ratey
• ADHD 2.0 — Edward Hallowell & John Ratey
• Taking Charge of Adult ADHD — Russell Barkley

Organizations:

• CHADD (Children and Adults with ADHD)
• ADDitude Magazine

Talks:

• “Failing at Normal” — Jessica McCabe (How to ADHD)
• “Recognizing ADHD in Adults” — Dr. Heather Brannon

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