This week, we are joined by Jack Silverside, an incredible member of the NeXYs community. Jack shares his and his wife Becca’s story, which began with a ruptured ectopic pregnancy that nearly cost Becca her life. He takes us through the fear and uncertainty of that time, the long road to recovery, and their decision to pursue IVF.

From the initial hope and naive optimism to the crushing disappointment of failed cycles, Jack’s story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. He opens up about the emotional toll of fertility treatment, the importance of investigating male factor issues, and the life-changing power of finding a community of men who truly understand.

💬 Key Topics Discussed

The Traumatic Experience of a Ruptured Ectopic Pregnancy

The Emotional Rollercoaster of IVF

Investigating Male Factor: Sperm DNA Fragmentation

The Importance of Peer Support and Community

Coping Mechanisms for Grief and Anxiety

The Decision to Never Give Up on the Dream of Parenthood

🕐 Timestamps

[00:05:00]: The harrowing experience of Becca’s ruptured ectopic pregnancy.

[00:25:00]: The crushing disappointment of the first failed IVF cycle.

[00:34:00]: The decision to investigate male factor issues and the discovery of high sperm DNA fragmentation.

[00:41:00]: How finding The Male Fertility Podcast and the NeXYs community changed everything.

[00:54:00]: The simple but powerful coping mechanisms Jack learned in therapy.

🏁 Episode Sponsors

This season is all about reminding you that when it comes to fertility, you are not alone.

At The Male Fertility Podcast, we know how powerful the right support can be, which is why we’ve partnered with Fertility Family to share Impryl.

We all know nutrition matters for fertility, but let’s be honest, maintaining a perfectly balanced diet for conception is incredibly hard. Choosing a supplement can be just as confusing, especially when many multivitamins contain strong antioxidants that can actually harm sperm quality.

Impryl is different. It’s made using activated micronutrients that support every cell in the body, from the largest, the egg, to the smallest, the sperm. These nutrients have been clinically shown to significantly improve live birth rates in men and women who had previously been struggling to conceive.

What we really like is that behind the science are real stories from real people.

To find out more, visit fertilityfamily.co.uk.

And if you decide it’s right for you, our listeners can get 10% off using the code MFPOD10.

That’s MFPOD10

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Looking for support and insight on male infertility? This podcast offers you stories, expert advice, and our NeXYs community ready to listen. Subscribe and follow to join the journey and never miss an episode.

⚠️ Disclaimer

This podcast provides information and support but should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised care.

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This week, we open up the Male Bag to tackle a deeply personal and important question: How do you rebuild your sense of self-worth after a male fertility diagnosis? A listener diagnosed with azoospermia shares his struggle with identity and feeling like he is failing his partner, a sentiment that both Shaun and Ciaran know all too well.

From the initial shock and loss of confidence to the long road back, this episode is a candid conversation about deconstructing who you thought you were and rebuilding from the ground up. We discuss practical strategies like discipline, journaling, and the power of community, offering hope and a reminder that you are not defined by your diagnosis.

💬 Key Topics Discussed

Identity Crisis: The common feeling of losing your sense of self and masculinity after a diagnosis.

Deconstructing Self-Worth: How to peel back the layers of societal expectation and find your true value.

The Power of Discipline: Why keeping small promises to yourself is the first step to rebuilding confidence.

Action Over Rumination: The importance of taking action, no matter how small, to get out of your own head.

Journaling & Gratitude: Practical tools to shift your focus from comparison to your own journey.

The Role of Community: Why connecting with others who understand is crucial for healing.

🕐 Timestamps

[00:01:20]: The listener's question: How do I rebuild my sense of self-worth after an azoospermia diagnosis?

[00:04:05]: Deconstructing Identity: Shaun discusses the long, painful process of figuring out who he was after his diagnosis.

[00:07:05]: Discipline Over Motivation: How doing hard things, like cold showers, helps build self-worth and integrity.

[00:14:10]: The Power of Journaling: Shaun shares his daily practice of writing down three things he's grateful for.

[00:21:00]: The 'Lucky Man' Analogy: Shaun explains how lyrics from The Verve helped him understand that self-worth starts and finishes with you.

🏁 Episode Sponsors

This season is all about reminding you that when it comes to fertility, you are not alone.

At The Male Fertility Podcast, we know how powerful the right support can be, which is why we've partnered with Fertility Family to share Impryl.

We all know nutrition matters for fertility, but let's be honest, maintaining a perfectly balanced diet for conception is incredibly hard. Choosing a supplement can be just as confusing, especially when many multivitamins contain strong antioxidants that can actually harm sperm quality.

Impryl is different. It's made using activated micronutrients that support every cell in the body, from the largest, the egg, to the smallest, the sperm. These nutrients have been clinically shown to significantly improve live birth rates in men and women who had previously been struggling to conceive.

What we really like is that behind the science are real stories from real people.

To find out more, visit fertilityfamily.co.uk.

And if you decide it's right for you, our listeners can get 10% off using the code MFPOD10.

That's MFPOD10

📲 Connect & Follow

• Join our community: nexysfertility.com

• YouTube: @TheMaleFertilityPodcast

• Instagram: @themalefertilitypodcast

• Ciaran: @themalefertilitypt

• Shaun:...

This week, we are joined by Scott Nolan, a proud member of the NeXYs community from Ireland. Scott shares his raw and honest story of being diagnosed with Sertoli Cell-Only Syndrome, a condition where the testes fail to produce sperm. He opens up about the "white noise" that takes over during difficult consultations, the immense financial burden of fertility treatment in Ireland, and the emotional toll of navigating a diagnosis that left him feeling like a "shell" of himself.

From treating it as a "me problem" instead of an "us problem" to the life-changing moment he found a community of men who truly understood, Scott's journey is a powerful reminder that you are not alone and that peer support can be a lifeline in the darkest of times.

1. Sertoli Cell-Only Syndrome: What it is and the emotional impact of the diagnosis.
2. The "White Noise" Phenomenon: The common experience of being unable to process information during overwhelming appointments.
3. Financial Burden: The reality of fertility treatment costs in Ireland, from consultation fees to Micro-TESE procedures.
4. Psychological Shift: The importance of moving from a "me problem" to an "us problem" with your partner.
5. The Power of Community: How finding a peer support group can completely change your perspective and provide a lifeline.
6. Partner Support: The crucial role of a supportive partner in navigating the fertility journey.

1. [00:06.0]: The Diagnosis: Scott explains his diagnosis of Sertoli Cell-Only Syndrome.
2. [00:18.0]: A "Me Problem": Scott talks about the mistake of treating his diagnosis as his problem alone, not a shared one with his partner.
3. [27:21.0]: The "White Noise": The common experience of being unable to process information during overwhelming appointments.
4. [29:44.6]: The Cost of Treatment: Scott reveals the staggering out-of-pocket cost for a Micro-TESE procedure in Ireland.
5. [33:44.1]: The Emotional Impact: Scott describes the feeling of being a "shell" of himself and the stripping away of his masculinity after the final news.

This season is all about reminding you that when it comes to fertility, you are not alone.

At The Male Fertility Podcast, we know how powerful the right support can be, which is why we've partnered with Fertility Family to share Impryl.

We all know nutrition matters for fertility, but let's be honest, maintaining a perfectly balanced diet for conception is incredibly hard. Choosing a supplement can be just as confusing, especially when many multivitamins contain strong antioxidants that can actually harm sperm quality.

Impryl is different. It's made using activated micronutrients that support every cell in the body, from the largest, the egg, to the smallest, the sperm. These nutrients have been clinically shown to significantly...

We're back with our first Male Bag episode of the season!

This week, we're tackling a question we get all the time: "I've been told I need to change my lifestyle to improve my sperm count, but I don't enjoy exercise and can't stick to it. Where do I start?"

In this episode, Ciaran and Shaun break down a practical, sustainable 6-month plan for anyone new to fitness. They cover the importance of finding your "why," how to build a routine that works for you (without spending hours in the gym), and the mindset shifts that will help you stay consistent even when you feel like giving up. If you're looking for a no-nonsense guide to getting started, this one's for you.

💬 What to Expect:

• The importance of finding your "why" to stay motivated on tough days

• A beginner's 6-month workout plan (resistance training, HIIT, and low-intensity cardio)

• Why you shouldn't be afraid of high-intensity training (in moderation)

• How to build sustainable habits and overcome the "all or nothing" mindset

• The powerful mindset shift from "I have to" to "I get to" exercise

• Ciaran's 3-step framework for success: Think about Why, What, and When

Episode Sponsor:

Impryl Fertility supplement with activated micronutrients. To find out more, visit fertilityfamily.co.uk.

And if you decide it's right for you, our listeners can get 10% off using the code MFPOD10.

That's MFPOD10

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• Join our community: nexysfertility.com

• YouTube: @TheMaleFertilityPodcast

• Instagram: @themalefertilitypodcast

• Ciaran: @themalefertilitypt

• Shaun: @knackered_knackers

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🔍 Navigating Male Fertility

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⚠️ Disclaimer

This podcast provides information and support but should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised care.

This week on The Male Fertility Podcast, we're joined by actor and writer David Fynn, who shares his powerful and raw story of navigating the world of IVF. From a PCOS diagnosis and male factor morphology to the heartbreak of three miscarriages and the frustration of a missed diagnosis, David's journey is one of resilience and the relentless search for better care. He opens up about the stark difference between his experiences in the UK and finding an empathetic, tailored approach at a clinic in Greece, reminding us all why feeling seen by your doctor is everything.

💬 What to Expect

• David's 20-year journey with his wife Lauren through fertility challenges

• Navigating a dual diagnosis of PCOS and male factor morphology

• The emotional toll of three miscarriages and a missed clotting disorder diagnosis

• The stark difference between UK and Greek IVF clinics

• Why an empathetic doctor who makes you feel seen is a game-changer

• The power of community in surviving the emotional rollercoaster of infertility

🎙️ Guest Details

David Fynn is an actor and writer who’s appeared on stage, TV, and film, and now spends an alarming amount of time talking about IVF. He is a proud, card-carrying member of the NeXYs community. Alongside his wife Lauren, he co-hosts The Baby Making Business, a podcast documenting their IVF quest in real time while exploring the strange, expensive, and emotionally charged world of infertility with curiosity, candour, and humour.

🏁 Episode Sponsor:

Impryl Fertility supplement with activated micronutrients. Get 10% off at fertility-family.co.uk with code MFPOD10

📲 Connect & Follow

• Join our community: nexysfertility.com

• Subscribe on YouTube: The Male Fertility Podcast

• Follow us on Instagram: @themalefertilitypodcast

• Follow Ciaran: @themalefertilitypt

• Follow Shaun: @knackered_knackers • Contact us: themalefertilitypodcast@gmail.com

🔍 Navigating Male Fertility Looking for support and insight on male infertility? This podcast offers you stories, expert advice, and our NeXYs community ready to listen. Subscribe and follow to join the journey and never miss an episode.

⚠️ Disclaimer This podcast provides information and support but should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised care.

We're back!

This week on The Male Fertility Podcast, we're sharing something we're incredibly passionate about. It's a story that started with a simple question: "What did we need when we were going through our fertility journeys?" From a small WhatsApp group to a global community, we're so excited to introduce you to NeXYs Fertility, a central place of support, connection, and hope for men navigating their fertility challenges. This episode is a heartfelt look at how we're building something truly special, and we're so grateful to have you with us on this journey.

💬 What to Expect:

•The inspiration behind NeXYs Fertility and what the name means

•How a WhatsApp group grew into a thriving global community

•Real testimonials from men whose lives have been changed by peer support

•The fight against misinformation with expert-verified resources and webinars

•Monthly online support groups where vulnerability is welcomed

•Expert-led men's panels tackling real topics like sharing your story and relationship reconnection

•The power of in-person meetups in London, Leeds, and Bristol

•What's coming next for Season 5 of the podcast

📲 Connect & Follow

•Join our community: nexysfertility.com

•Subscribe on YouTube: The Male Fertility Podcast

•Follow us on Instagram: @themalefertilitypodcast

•Follow Ciaran: @themalefertilitypt

•Follow Shaun: @knackered_knackers

•Contact us: themalefertilitypodcast@gmail.com

🔍 Navigating Male Fertility

Looking for support and insight on male infertility? This podcast offers you stories, expert advice, and our NeXYs community ready to listen. Subscribe and follow to join the journey and never miss an episode.

⚠️ Disclaimer This podcast provides information and support but should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised care.

And that’s a wrap.

For our final day of the Christmas Countdown, we wanted to do something a little different.

This is a heartfelt thank you to every single person who has listened, shared, and been a part of our community this year. We know the festive season can be incredibly tough, and we hope these 25 days have offered some comfort and company.

We hope you have a peaceful Christmas, and we’ll see you for Season 5 on January 7th!

💬 What to Expect in This Episode

•Reflections on the highlights of 2025, including the launch of NeXYs Fertility

•The story behind our first community meetup and the power of in-person connection

•Why community support is a two-way street that helps us too

📲 Connect & Follow

•Join our community: nexysfertility.com

•Subscribe on YouTube: The Male Fertility Podcast

•Follow us on Instagram: @themalefertilitypodcast

•Follow Ciaran: @themalefertilitypt

•Follow Shaun: @knackered_knackers

•Contact us: themalefertilitypodcast@gmail.com

🔍 Navigating Male Fertility

Looking for support and insight on male infertility? This podcast offers you stories, expert advice, and our NeXYs community ready to listen. Subscribe and follow to join the journey and never miss an episode.

⚠️ Disclaimer

This podcast provides information and support but should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised care.

Day 24 the final episode before Christmas Day, and we're ending where it all began: with Shaun's story.

From his azoospermia diagnosis in 2017 to navigating varicocele treatment in 2019, and then facing fertility challenges during the COVID-19 pandemic, Shaun's journey is one of resilience, pain, and hope. This is the story that sparked the podcast, and it's a reminder that you're never alone in this.

If these 24 episodes have given you even a bit of company or hope this Christmas, that's all we wanted. Reach out if you need to—we're here.

💬 What to Expect in This Episode

•Shaun's initial azoospermia diagnosis in 2017 and what followed

•The discovery and treatment of varicocele in 2019

•Navigating fertility treatment during the COVID-19 pandemic

•How Shaun stayed resilient through adversity and setbacks

•Insights on transforming struggle into strength

•A candid and inspiring account of hope through the journey

📲 Connect & Follow

•Join our community: nexysfertility.com

•Subscribe on YouTube: The Male Fertility Podcast

•Follow us on Instagram: @themalefertilitypodcast

•Follow Ciaran: @themalefertilitypt

•Follow Shaun: @knackered_knackers

•Contact us: themalefertilitypodcast@gmail.com

🔍 Navigating Male Fertility

Looking for support and insight on male infertility? This podcast offers you stories, expert advice, and our NeXYs community ready to listen. Subscribe and follow to join the journey and never miss an episode.

⚠️ Disclaimer

This podcast provides information and support but should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised care.