Épisodes

  • Stop Mothering Men: Masculinity, Femininity & Why Dating Is Broken w/ Anita Stoudmire
    Sep 22 2025

    Are modern relationships doomed or just undisciplined? In this raw, unfiltered episode of Growth Unscripted, Devante sits down with licensed therapist and relationship coach Anita Stoudmire (founder of Better Love Movement) to rip into the myths ruining love today.

    We go deep on:

    • Why women shouldn’t mother their man (and how it kills attraction)
    • Masculinity vs. femininity: polarity, roles, and why they still matter
    • Reparenting & ego work: healing the stuff your parents handed you
    • Dating apps and the death of real connection
    • Polyamory, prenups, and marriage without government strings
    • Single mothers by choice, delusion in dating, and the 2040 loneliness wave
    • Family vetting, cultural models that work, and building relationships that last

    This one’s controversial, practical, and necessary. If it stings, it’s probably true.

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    1 h et 35 min
  • Healing Through Music, Childhood Trauma & Protecting Your Peace | Growth Unscripted Podcast w/ Maiah
    Sep 22 2025

    In this episode of the Growth Unscripted Podcast, Devonnte sits down with vocalist, songwriter, sound healer, yoga instructor, and mental health advocate Maiah McKenzie.

    We dive deep into her journey from singing in church at age three to creating soul-healing music that helps people escape heavy moments and reconnect with their inner child. Maiah opens up about battling depression, anxiety, and the lingering weight of childhood trauma — and how therapy, sound healing, and mindfulness changed her path.

    This raw conversation covers:

    • How childhood trauma shapes adulthood and relationships
    • Why music and sound frequencies carry the power to heal
    • The importance of therapy, safe spaces, and community support
    • Why protecting your peace is non-negotiable

    🎙️ If you’ve ever struggled with mental health, relationships, or just finding joy again — this one is for you.

    👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe for more real, unfiltered conversations that inspire growth and healing.

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    1 h et 7 min
  • Too Talented to Be Broke: Brotherhood, Business & Breaking Cycles
    Sep 1 2025

    In this raw and authentic conversation, Devonte sits down with Justice Peebles, an entrepreneur, leader, and president of The Men’s Huddle. Together, they dive into the grind of entrepreneurship, the weight men carry in silence, and the power of building safe spaces for healing and accountability. From childhood lessons to breaking generational patterns, from the realities of business hustle to mental health breakthroughs, this episode is about more than success, it’s about survival, faith, and community.

    If you’ve ever felt the pressure to lead while battling your own storms or wondered what it takes to balance ambition with mental wellness, this episode will speak directly to you.

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    56 min
  • More Than Merch: The Purpose Behind the Xcellence Brand
    Aug 17 2025

    In this powerful kickoff to Season 2, Devonnte sits down with Stewart and Trey founders of Excellence, a clothing brand rooted in family, healing, and hustle. What started as a conversation over cookies and Christmas turned into a movement grounded in legacy.

    We go deep on:

    • The unexpected spark that started Excellence
    • Using fashion as therapy and purpose
    • Fatherhood, pressure, and being “the one” in your family
    • Why healing and self-worth need to be part of every hustle

    This isn’t fast fashion. It’s everyday elevation. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and lessons on pushing through when quitting feels easier.

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    47 min
  • When Being Real Still Ain’t Enough: Dating, Disappointment & Choosing Yourself First
    Jun 16 2025

    In this raw and unfiltered episode of Growth Unscripted, I unpack the emotional weight of dating in a space that doesn’t match your frequency. From feeling ghosted after deep conversations to struggling with being misunderstood and emotionally unreciprocated, I open up about what it’s been like being single for the last 8 months — while also fighting financial stress, isolation, and the weight of unaligned connections.

    This one’s not polished. It’s not meant to be. It’s a voice note to my soul — and maybe yours too. If you’ve ever been tired of faking like you’re okay just to survive, this one’s for you.

    Listen in if you're:

    • A Black man trying to navigate connection and self-worth
    • Tired of shallow dating pools
    • Looking for real, raw vulnerability in podcast form
    • Ready to hear someone say what you've been holding in
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    11 min
  • When Protecting Your Peace Feels Like Losing Everybody
    Jun 9 2025

    In today’s episode of Growth Unscripted, we dive deep into the raw truth most men—especially Black men—ain’t saying out loud: healing ain’t always pretty, and protecting your peace? It’ll cost you more than you expected. Devonnte opens up about what it really feels like to set boundaries, walk away from chaos, and finally start choosing yourself — even when it means losing the people you once called home.

    We talk about the emotional loneliness that comes with growth, the grief of outgrowing relationships, and the unlearning required to love yourself without needing to be needed. This isn’t about sounding strong or looking perfect — this is about naming the pain, honoring your healing, and standing tall in your truth.

    From spiritual detachment to the reality of being the “strong one” in every space, this episode hits on what it takes to protect your peace and finally meet the version of you that was buried beneath the survival.

    This one’s for the Black men who feel invisible, exhausted, and are ready to reclaim their softness without shame.

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    10 min
  • Why Social Media is Killing Our Self-Worth
    Jun 2 2025

    In this episode of Growth Unscripted, I’m breaking down how social media messes with our heads and self-worth. We’re talking about how easy it is to lose yourself in the highlight reels, how chasing likes starts to feel like chasing love, and how we gotta learn to validate ourselves when nobody’s watching. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing for an audience that don’t even see you for real, this episode is for you.

    This is raw, real talk for Black men and every man tired of feeling like his worth is measured in likes and shares. No hype, no bullshit just honest conversation about what it means to stay grounded in a world built to keep you off balance.

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    10 min
  • Why We Stay with Toxic Women (Even When It’s Draining Us)
    May 26 2025

    In this raw episode of Growth Unscripted, I talk about something many men feel but rarely name: why we hold onto toxic women even when it’s killing our peace.

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    11 min