I think we are capable of changing far more than we sometimes give ourselves credit for.
That does not mean you can simply think about something, believe hard enough, and magically make it happen.
But I do think change starts with believing that another direction is possible and trusting yourself enough to begin figuring it out.
A lot of our patterns go back a long way.
We grow up around certain ways of thinking, reacting, working, resting, eating, communicating, and living. For a long time, those things can simply feel normal because they are what we know.
Then at some point, we realize there may be another way.
That is where curiosity becomes incredibly valuable.
What if you are wrong about something?
What if the way you have always handled a situation is not the only option?
What if there is another way to move forward, another way to respond, or even another way to slow down?
In this episode, I talk about why change can become both easier and harder as we get older. We have more life experience and more evidence that we can handle difficult things, but we can also become deeply attached to familiar patterns and beliefs.
I also talk about false starts, stopping and starting, and why that does not automatically mean you are incapable of changing.
Maybe you simply were not ready yet.
When you are ready, I think the first step is making the decision and declaring it to yourself. Not because saying something out loud makes it happen, but because you are acknowledging that you believe enough in yourself to take the first step.
You do not need all the answers.
You do not need every skill.
And you do not have to figure everything out alone.
You can find support, resources, people who will encourage you, and people who will help you see the blind spots you cannot always see for yourself.
You can change direction.
You can change your patterns.
And you can do it when you are actually ready to begin.
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