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The Art Of Coaching

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 Hosted by best-selling author, speaker and performance coach Brett Bartholomew, the Art of Coaching Podcast is a weekly show aimed at getting to the core of what it takes to change attitudes & behaviors in the weight-room, boardroom and everywhere in between.Copyright 2020 The Art Of Coaching Economie Hygiène et vie saine
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  • E449 | 9 Tips That'll Save You Time, Agony, and Frustration In Your Career (and Life)

    E449 | 9 Tips That'll Save You Time, Agony, and Frustration In Your Career (and Life)
    Nov 9 2026

    In this episode, Brett shares tips across a wide range of subjects that can save you a lot of time, money, agony, and frustration as you're navigating different parts of your career.

    While some of this territory has been covered before, these are things that most of us will constantly come back to again and again and again and be thankful that we remember.

    They're the same things that get us out of our own way, the things that make sure that we're not acting naive at work, and the things that can help us build more meaningful relationships.

    This quick episode is great to listen to on the way to work, and if you find something that resonates with you, please share it with five friends.

    For more on what we do, go to artofcoaching.com.

    And to check out Brett's latest book, go to theantiheroadvantage.com.

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    34 min
  • E448 | When Is It OK to Lose Your Cool?

    E448 | When Is It OK to Lose Your Cool?
    Oct 26 2026
    We’ve all been there. A child pushes one button too many. An employee makes the same mistake for the fifth time. An athlete loses their composure at the worst possible moment. And suddenly, you’re pissed off. But here’s the question: Is losing your cool always a failure of leadership? Or are there situations where anger, confrontation, and even raising your voice serve a legitimate purpose? When Alabama head coach Kalen DeBoer confronted defensive back Dijon Lee Jr. following a costly personal foul, the moment sparked a familiar debate about coaching, accountability, and emotional control. Some saw a coach holding his player accountable. Others questioned whether DeBoer’s reaction demonstrated the very lack of emotional discipline he was criticizing. But the conversation shouldn’t end with whether a coach yelled at a player. It raises much bigger questions about how we lead, parent, discipline, and develop others. In this episode, we examine the uncomfortable relationship between compassion and accountability, including why protecting people from discomfort isn’t necessarily the same as caring for them. We also explore a concept I call ruthless compassion. Ruthless compassion isn’t about being unnecessarily harsh or confusing intimidation with leadership. It’s about having the self-awareness to recognize your own blind spots, the courage to confront uncomfortable realities, and enough healthy detachment to make difficult decisions when real consequences are involved. Because sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do won’t feel particularly compassionate in the moment. What You’ll Learn •⁠ ⁠When anger becomes a leadership tool versus a liability. Is raising your voice always evidence of poor emotional regulation? What’s the difference between deliberately expressing frustration and simply losing control? •⁠ ⁠What the Kalen DeBoer and Dijon Lee Jr. incident reveals about accountability. Why both the coach’s response and the player’s behavior deserve examination, and what this moment can teach us about emotional maturity under pressure. •⁠ ⁠Why compassion and accommodation aren’t the same thing. How well-intentioned parents, coaches, and leaders sometimes confuse supporting people with shielding them from consequences. •⁠ ⁠The hidden dangers of constantly protecting children from discomfort. Why disappointment, frustration, and failure are important experiences to learn to navigate, and how parents can provide support without constantly intervening. •⁠ ⁠Why accountability must work in both directions. It’s easy to demand emotional discipline from others. It’s much harder to examine whether your own ego, frustration, or insecurity is influencing how you respond. •⁠ ⁠The importance of healthy detachment. How to care deeply about someone without allowing their immediate emotional reaction to dictate your decisions. •⁠ ⁠When avoiding confrontation becomes selfish. Why the desire to be liked, maintain harmony, or avoid difficult conversations can sometimes create bigger problems for everyone involved. •⁠ ⁠The difference between consequences and cruelty. Why holding someone accountable doesn’t require humiliating them, and why making someone uncomfortable doesn’t automatically mean you’ve mistreated them. •⁠ ⁠Why being liked and being respected aren’t always compatible in the moment. How the need for approval can compromise our willingness to enforce standards and make unpopular decisions. Questions Worth Considering Is a parent doing their child a favor by constantly intervening when things get difficult? Can a coach express anger without becoming abusive? Are we becoming too quick to label uncomfortable interactions as harmful? And perhaps most importantly, how do we know whether we’re confronting someone because it’s genuinely necessary or because we’re simply looking for somewhere to direct our frustration? The goal isn’t to eliminate emotion from leadership. It’s to become more responsible for what we do with it. Whether you’re raising children, coaching athletes, managing employees, or simply trying to become more effective in your relationships, this episode challenges you to reconsider what compassion actually requires. Because caring about someone and making them comfortable aren’t always the same thing. And sometimes, the hardest person you’ll ever have to hold accountable is yourself. ⸻ 📚 Preorder My New Book — The Antihero Advantage If this conversation resonates with you, my new book, The Antihero Advantage, takes these ideas even further. It’s about understanding the parts of human nature we often prefer to ignore, navigating power dynamics, confronting our own blind spots, and becoming more adaptable and effective in how we lead, communicate, and influence others. Rather than offering another one-size-fits-all approach to leadership, this book explores ...
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    18 min
  • E447 | (IM)Perfect Relationships Pt 2: Types of Intimacy & What You Might Be Missing

    E447 | (IM)Perfect Relationships Pt 2: Types of Intimacy & What You Might Be Missing
    Oct 19 2026

    You may think you know what makes your partner feel close to you. But what if you’re putting effort into the wrong thing?

    In this episode of Imperfect Relationships, Brett gets into the forms of intimacy couples often overlook—from emotional and intellectual connection to shared experiences—and offers a way to find out where your assumptions don’t match. Because a relationship can be solid in one area and lonely in another.

    The conversation also explores five relationship archetypes, from “heartfelt but hectic” to “devoted but divergent.” They aren’t diagnoses. They’re a way to put words to what’s happening—and start a more honest conversation about it.

    In this episode:

    -Why “we’re fine” can hide very different experiences of a relationship

    -Five archetypes for describing the season a relationship is in

    -Why intimacy is more than sex—and why that distinction matters

    -The “intimacy menu”: a practical exercise for comparing what each partner values

    -How ordinary gestures, deep conversations, vulnerability, and shared experiences can carry different weight for each person

    -Why couples can feel disconnected even when they’re making an effort

    -How to talk about intimacy without treating it as taboo

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    26 min
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