Joined by the host with the most, Teniola Aladase, and our incredible TWSS Squad sisters, Sufiat and Precious, we sit down for an honest conversation about modern womanhood, work, relationships, and the outdated expectations that refuse to leave. From the pressure to “have it all,” to navigating a society that wasn’t built with women in mind, this episode unpacks leadership, financial independence, domestic labour, relationships, and what true partnership should look like today. Pull up a chair, sis.
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Our TWSS Nigeria host, Teniola Aladase, sits down with the phenomenal Eniola Mafe Abaga, a Nigerian development strategist and unapologetic champion for women’s leadership across Africa, who gets real about the idea that “women can have it all.” She asks the question we’re all thinking: is this really empowering, or just another way society piles pressure on women?

Drawing from her own journey, Eniola breaks down what “having it all” actually looks like for her… and what it definitely doesn’t.

Spoiler: it’s not what the Instagram highlight reel makes it seem.

In this episode we sit down with Stephanie Busari to talk about radical women, power, and what female leadership really looks like when women stop shrinking themselves to fit the room.From navigating male-dominated spaces to challenging respectability politics, Stephanie reflects on what it takes for women to lead with courage, clarity, and conviction in today’s world.